(door knocking)
- Hey, ready to go?
Are we bussin or what?
No, we're not taking a bus.
That's not what that means, is it?
It's cool, right?
I thought I looked bussin.
- I appreciate the effort, but you're not making any sense.
- Just stop?
Okay, let's go.
Hey girl, I love that top on you.
No cap, no cap.
Like, I'm being completely honest,
or is it an actual cap?
- Mom, there are no hats involved.
- Cap, I'm lying.
No, cap lie.
No cap.
True, but seriously, you look great.
No cap.
By the way, honey,
tried the middle part,
it's a whole vibe.
I mean, it just like hits different, you know?
It's giving gen Z and I ship.
- You're making this weird.
- I'm not being weird, honey.
This is how I talk now,
I can communicate
and we can build a stronger relationship.
Okay, let's go.
It is so hot outside.
Do you like my drip?
Drip, like my outfit,
not my actual sweat, like my clothing,
my drip, very drippy and sweaty.
So what do you do?
But drip, drip.
- You really don't have to do this.
- This is how grown, middle-aged moms talk.
Hey, do you have the tea?
I mean, I know I just got you a latte,
but the tea.
Oo, don't spill it,
I mean, spill the tea, but please not the latte,
'cause I just got the car-
- Mom.
- Washed.
Don't leave me on red, girl.
But I'm not cringe, am I?
I understood the assignment.
- You're not cringe, but-
- Do I need a vibe check?
I'm totally vibing.
If someone gave me an actual vibe check,
if they were like, (mimics sensor)
it'd be like vibe.
I love that we can communicate like this,
it's like we have our own language.
Okay honey, we're here.
Should I just 'yeet' you out of the car?
- Please don't.
- What? Don't use that one?
Let me go to urban dictionary.
"Yeet: To throw at high velocity."
Big yikes.
Honey, don't ghost me,
just slide into my DMs
when you want me to pick you up.
I'm using that wrong, aren't I?
That was 'choogee'.
- Bye, mom!
- No one says 'choogee' anymore?
Boomers probably ruin that,
typical boomers.
They ruin the housing market, and now this.
Don't forget, you live rent free,
in my mind and in my house.
Heart eye emojis, love you.
Guess who's on Snapchat?
I know how to use filters now.
Whoa!
Hey boo,
Snap me back,
don't break our street.
Just let me know when you're ready to be picked up.
Isn't this amazing?
It's sending me and I'm sending it to you,
so much sending!
Hey honey, did you have fun?
I'm getting main character energy.
- We're still doing this?
- Honey, I'm talking like a normal person.
Facts.
Ooh, this Bob slaps. (chuckles)
(dance music)
And scene.
On a daily basis,
how many times does your dad
try to say, bussin-
- [Dad] You're bringing me into this, then?
- A lot. - A lot, a lot?
So, as a parent, should I keep trying, or-
- No.
I think you just stick with the eighties lingo.
- Eighties, I'm nineties, too!
- [Dad] What does bussin mean?
- It's like, I don't even know,
it's weird to say, you just,
when you like eat something good
or if something's good.
- If something's good, it's bussin.
- [Dad] Isn't it interesting,
when I do ask her what the words mean
there's not really a definition,
they have to give you an example.
- It just has to work with the sentence-
- [Dad] Right? (chuckles)
- Yes.
We'll put a link
of what a gen X person thinks these words,
like a guide to what these words mean,
we'll put a link there.
- But you can't say it.
- But I think it's best if we just avoid it.
- When you say it, it's different.
- It hits different.
See?
It's a vibe.
It's a vibe. - Stop.
This is why, 'cause then you get too-
- I get excited.
- Yeah.
We're gonna cap it at like one a day.
- [Dad] No cap!
Cappin at one a day.
So there's a cap, then.
If it's one a day, that's a cap.
If we can do more than-
- Maximum!
Maximum of one a day.
Okay?
You've used 20.
That's it.
You're not alone. - Facts!
- [Dad] She's gone.
- This is what I feel like the real me,
I think this is the real me.
Actually no, this is it.
This is the real me.
Hi guys.
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