Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video, I
want to make almost a sequel to a video that I made a couple days ago
and if you're watching this and it's years down the line, don't worry I'm
going to put a link to the video down below. And don't worry it's not like you
had to watch that to watch this one. Basically, the video that I made was all
about how to keep a high quality girl around or how to keep your girlfriend
around or how to keep a woman around that you're dating and this episode is more
about why she might pull away or why she might not be interested in you anymore.
Of course, there's a million reasons why she might be pulling away. However, I'm
going to be giving you sort of like the categories here and I'm sure anything
you're doing that's making her pull away, or maybe it's something that you're not
doing, but either way, it's going to fall under one of these categories because
there is, like I said, a million different reasons why. But it's generally because
of some of the reasons I'll be going over right now. Let's go over the
first one. The first one is she doesn't feel loved. What ends up happening when
you're dating someone for a long time or you're in a relationship with someone
for a long time is you get a little lazy. You do. You get a little lazy and you
don't show them the proper love that they need or that they want and I spoke
to this in my last video that talked about the 5 love languages. Meaning
everyone receives love in a different way. If she's not receiving love or
feeling loved, well this might cause her to actually pull away from you or start
to distance herself from you. That's a pretty simple one. There might be
something that you're doing that's not showing her the love that she needs.
I recommend this all the time. check out the book the 5 love
languages so you can understand how people receive love. You receive love a
certain way, I do, every person does and when you understand this, you'll
understand why a person isn't feeling loved or you might understand what makes
you feel love, so what makes you stay in a relationship. Because that is one of
the biggest reasons why people don't stay together. They're not feeling that love.
Ok, I just said the word love like 50 times. Let's move on to the next one.
The next one is the person doesn't feel supported. I know that could go with
the idea of feeling loved and I know that's connected, but this is kind of a
separate category. The person doesn't feel supported. If a woman doesn't
feel supported in her decisions and the things that she wants to do, well then
she's gonna start to pull away because she wants to be with someone who
supports the things that she loves, that she wants to do, her belief systems, her
goals, the things that she wants for her life. If she's not with a partner
that supports that, that sees eye-to-eye on that, that can cause a big disconnect.
There's a common saying that in a relationship if things are going well
that one plus one equals three. That means that when you two come together,
it equals three. Meaning, it's greater than the sum of its parts. When you're in a
relationship that's working and it's going really well, it should be so
amazing that you should be feeling elated every day, it should make
you a better person. If you're in a partnership with someone and the
girl starts to pull away, it's very possible that she's not feeling that.
She's not feeling that compound effect of you two being together. In fact, it's
possible that it's bringing her more down than it is up and a lot of that has
to do with support and the last thing I said which was love. There's
something else that a lot of people don't think about. I believe this is one of
the bigger reasons why a lot of relationships and marriages don't work
out. The ones that have been going on for many years and this is another
reason why a woman might pull away is that she doesn't feel the pull of
attraction. That's right, she's not feeling attracted to you anymore and
when I say that I don't mean physically attracted, like you let yourself go.
Although that could be part of it. But she doesn't feel like she's
attracted to you because there's something you were doing, maybe it's in
your life or maybe in the relationship, where she's not feeling that pull. This
means that you have to constantly be dating her. You guys should be dating
until the day that you die. You guys should be constantly courting each other,
constantly flirting with each other, constantly making each other feel
special. Remember what you did when you first were dating someone? Remember what
you were doing? Those things need to be throughout the entire relationship. I
even talked about this in my program Hooked where I talk about tension,
entertainment and dominance. Three key components of attraction. Tension meaning
you're building tension between each other, again that's going to have
to do with flirting and getting intimate and then there's entertainment where you
are having a good time. If you're with a partner who sees that your life
is just boring and that you don't even like it and then you're not having an
enjoyable time and you're not able to entertain yourself, she's not going to
feel good being with you. And then there's dominance which is you stepping
into your masculinity and leading all the way in a relationship. That could
mean being the one to say hey we're going out tonight, we're going to have
some fun or hey I'm taking care of this or hey we're doing this. We
want to lead the relationship and show her that you are still dating her
in a sense. Now real quick, if you want to learn more about that program, you can
get that in a link in the description below or you can check out www.getherhooked.com.
where you'll learn more about those three factors that help you attract a
woman. Whether you're dating her or whether you're in a relationship.
Check that out and leave a comment down below and let me know if this helps
and if this is making sense. I'm also going to put a link in the description to my
other video of how to keep a quality girl around so you can solve some of
these issues so I suggest that you check that out as well and I'll see you on the
next video.