What up honey... you are probably here because you are about to experience your first time.
And I think I know how you feel.. obviously.. because I’ve been there myself. But the
more you know about what might happen during your first time, the better it will be.
Therefore in this video I want to share with you my secrets to an awesome first time.
Before you jump right into the cold waters it can be a really good idea to prepare your
body and mind. So let’s get it started..
“.. It will definitely hurt”
Girl, as long as you are relaxed & lubricated it won’t hurt at all. What causes pain to
some girls is when they are so anxious that their vaginal muscles clench up.
“.. what about all the blood.”
Yeah girls can bleed when their hymen breaks, but it’s not like a fountain of blood or
so. Some don’t bleed at all. And lots of girls break their hymen way before their first
time.. for example during sports. Some are even born without it.
“What if I can’t keep it up?”
Good news. If it happens to you just know you are not alone. A lot of boys don’t stay
hard during their first times. Erections usually go down when a boy feels under pressure or
when he is nervous. So don’t put too much thought into it or feel embarrassed.. it will
come back naturally.
Babe.. sex is something really, really special.
It’s a super intense exchange of information - on every level. And the crazy thing is..
that your mind and body can store all of these information.. and they somehow make you you.
So if you want to become an awesome person make love to an awesome person.
awesome person Someone who respects and admires you and is
concerned about your feelings; Someone who will never pressure you into having sex.
If you want to be ahead of your game and feel a little more prepared for your first time
then get to know your body.
The best way to do so is with self pleasure. If you want to learn how to do it check out
this video of mine: (How to masturbate)
Yo birth control is a huge topic.
If you don’t want to make a baby right at your first time then you better know about
all options of contraception.
And the same goes for sexual health.
If you want to learn more this subscribe to my channel.. I will soon post a video about
my favorite ways to prevent pregnancy and sexual infections..
But now let me share with you my secrets to an awesome first time.
Boo...the best place is where you both feel safe and undistracted. Privacy really is super
important.
If you want to make it even better switch off your phone, dim the light, clean up your
room and set a warm room temperature.
Trust me.. it works. And I personally feel even more confident in bed when I am freshly
showered with my favorite oil in my skin. So in other words do whatever it takes to
make you feel awesome and confident.
Whatever you do do it slow & connect to your partner.
Not just does it make sex so much better, but it’s also important because girls usually
need much more time to get fully aroused than boys. And before a girl is not fully aroused
she should not have anyone enter her.
If she is not fully lubricated penetration can lead to tearing of the vaginal skin..
this is because the skin is super thin down there.. and it could also leave an emotional
wound.
So before any penetration explore each other. To be honest.. penetration is actually the
smallest part when it comes to awesome sex.
If you want some ideas how to give her a really good time then you can check out this video
or this video or that video
And if you want to learn how to make a boy really happy then check out this video
As long as your partner is not a clairvoyant or so its super important to talk.
It sounds so simple but I know it can be soo hard.
But if you want to have great sex you have to talk and say what you like and what you
don’t like.
And boo, try not to do anything without your partner's consent. Whenever you can ask..
“Are you feeling okay?” “Does this feel good?”
If you don’t get a “Yes” .. don’t go further.
Before you guys go any further try testing the waters.. for example with his fingers.
Take his hand and gently press one or two fingers into you to open you slowly.
If that felt good and you both want more then very slowly and gently slide the inner labia
apart and guide the head of the penis into the vaginal opening. Go inch by inch.
For girls its easiest to take in more of the penis on the exhalation. So when you breathe
out you gently press yourself deeper on the penis.
If you wanna be a cool girl.. help him. It can be easy to get lost down there..
And by the way it should be the girl who says how deep to go and how fast to move.. because
she is the one most likely to experience pain if you go too fast.
If it hurts or if you both are in a complete tizzy then breath! Niice deep and steady breaths
are magic.
Because when you bring in oxygen into your body it keeps you relaxed and able to let go
Boo I really really hope your first time is gonna be amazing and I hope that my tips somehow
help you along your journey.
Oh and there is one last thought I want to share with you.
Ditch expectations! Because whatever you’ve seen or heard your first time will be different
anyways.
So don’t feel pressured to make it the best night ever, because this is just the first
night of hopefully many more. And the good thing is that sex tends to get better the
more comfortable you feel with your partner and yourself.
well.. at least it keeps getting better for me..
Anyways boo.. as long as you talk with each other and are open and honest everything will
be alright.
Much love. Peace. I am outta here..
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