- In this video,
I'm gonna show you the two things that guarantee
that you create your dream life.
I'm gonna condense the last six years of my life,
of going from working nine to five jobs
selling women's shoes, to creating my dream life,
where I travel the world,
doing what I love and more abundance
than I could even imagine back five, six years ago.
And I'm gonna show you exactly what will close
the gap for you.
And I've seen this applied
in many other people's lives too.
Not just my own.
I have 21-day challenges I run,
I have thousands of people
that I brought through different processes
and I've seen so many amazing results
from the two things that I share with you in this video.
So we'll keep it simple and we'll let it be super powerful.
All you have to do is apply it.
So first off, what we can realize as I've...
I've written this chart recently,
and we're back the white board videos that I used to do.
And what you can see here is this main concept right here,
which is the most powerful thing to understand,
is that you get in life a reflection of who you are being.
So what you want,
when you say I want something
you're energetically saying I lack it.
Not that you like it, you lack it.
You're like, "I don't have it."
I want love.
I want love means I lack love.
I lack love.
I like love, but I don't have love.
So there's a difference between the vibrational reality
where you're being in the loving relationship,
you're being in your dream life,
like you're living your purpose.
That version of you
is a very different vibrational resonance
to the reality where you want it.
You want it.
You want it because when you want something,
you're wanting from this past self-identity.
So what happens is we have a certain way
we are being right now in the present moment,
and our thoughts, our feelings, our actions
are equal to this reality.
So our thoughts, our feelings, our actions
are equal to the reality we're currently living in.
So working my nine and five job, my thoughts, my actions,
my feelings were all equal to working that nine to five job.
And I was consistently being in that reality,
and I felt stuck because I didn't know what to do
to get out of it.
And for the longest time I would read books,
I would think better thoughts.
I would watch YouTube videos, but nothing really happened
because I didn't have the whole equation in check.
So what happens is when I made the biggest shift
in my life, it was from this version of me
to where I started tuning to a new version of me.
Now, what quantum physics shows us
is there's an infinite number
of parallel realities that exist.
There's so many parallel realities exist.
I can't even imagine it.
They all exist right now.
So what we can begin to do is to begin to see ourselves
as almost like a radio tune, a radio station.
There's a radio station.
Like imagine there's like a dial on a radio station.
There's a frequency where you are living your dream life.
You are in your ideal relationship.
You're loving life, just loving it.
And then there's a frequency,
a reality where you are lacking that,
you don't feel that.
You might feel resistance.
You might feel a lot of the stuff from your past
that you're replaying now currently in your life.
And the key though,
and what most people try to do
is they try to change the radio station.
They are on, they try to change
the radio station they're on.
They try to become a little bit better.
They try to change from the current identity,
but you can't change the radio station.
You can only change the dial.
You can change the dial, but not the radio station itself.
So when you focus on who you are being,
the key is identifying,
having a vision for this new version of you
and giving yourself permission to be it.
And what that means
is that you realize there's a version of you
that's already slaying it in reality.
You're slaying it.
Yas, queen, yas.
You're slaying it.
Okay?
So you're slaying it in a certain reality,
it already exists.
You can connect to that version of you,
and you can begin to model the energy
of that version of you because it already exists.
You use your imagination
to connect to that version of you.
That's exactly what I did back in 2017
when I was working that nine to five job
wondering why do I feel all this resistance.
And then what I did is I just gave myself permission
to start being this version of me.
But what I did is in meditation,
which is the first thing.
There's two things in this video.
Now, we're four minutes and 20 seconds in.
Blaze up.
I don't smoke.
I'm just making a joke.
So bridge, meditation, okay?
This is the first part to the process.
Meditation, this is the first key.
Meditation is a way you can connect to this version of you
and you can feel the emotions,
remember like meditations, like your radio dial.
You can feel the emotions of this version of you.
You can use your imagination
and imagine how this version of you would think,
how this version of you would feel,
how this version of you would act.
And what you can do is see,
how does this version of you behave?
What are the habits of this version of you?
What is your body language like?
How do you interact with other people?
In meditation, you can feel, and literally believe.
You can get into a deep level of meditation
and literally believe that's who you are now.
And over the course of doing that
for maybe 10 minutes a day,
you begin to rewire your subconscious mind
and your emotions.
And you literally begin to rewire the somatic connections
in your brain.
Now, the reason it's hard for a lot of people to change
is because people are in their old-self,
feeling similar emotions.
A lot of times, all the way, going back to childhood.
They may feel anger, guilt, fear, shame,
childhood like inner childhood wounds.
And what happens is because they're feeling that,
they're then trying to change
to become this new version of them.
But they're feeling the block
in the present moment right now.
Now what you could begin to do is realize as well
that in this version of you, a lot of times,
this is a version of you that's in more
of the out the brainwave states of alpha and beta.
So we have different brainwave.
We have different brainwave states.
So the brainwave states that we have
are influencing our subconscious mind
or not influencing our subconscious mind
based on how deep they are.
Now, here's the thing with meditation.
Meditation allows you to get to what is called
a theta brainwave state.
A theta brainwave state is where you have the ability
to influence your subconscious mind
and your subconscious self-image,
which is another huge part of this process.
So what happens is when you're in that theta state,
you are able to influence your subconscious mind.
And there's also a window for this.
The window is when you wake up in the morning
for the first 20 minutes,
you're moving out of theta and then into alpha and beta.
Alpha and beta's the awake states.
Alpha's like when you're watching TV,
it somewhat influences your mind
'cause you're more relaxed.
So it's like, you're getting you're being influenced
by the television.
The shows you're watching, the news you're watching.
You're an alpha state.
Beta states like really like hyperconscious
like sometimes even stressed.
But in general, we go like that.
Hey, hey, nice to see you again.
So, but theta state, you activate in meditation,
the first 20 minutes when you wake up in the morning,
the last 20 minutes when you go to bed at night.
That's why Neva Goddard
talked about this a lot.
The feeling is the secret.
Feeling the emotions as if you are already this version
of you right now,
feel it as you're falling asleep at night,
believe that's who you are now.
You begin to influence your subconscious mind
and you can also do that in meditation.
Now, one of the most powerful meditations
that I have has to do with tapping into who are you being?
What kind of energy are you embodying?
And what you wanna do is you want to realize
you get in life a reflection
of what you believe you deserve.
I have an inner child meditation for going back for healing
the worthiness, the shame, these lower vibrational emotions,
healing that inner child version of you
so that you can actually receive more.
So if you want that meditation, it's completely free.
Go to www.AaronDoughty.com/child
or click the link below.
It's the inner child meditation
but it's AaronDoughty.com/child.
But basically what that allows you to do is
meditation allows you to literally download the vibration.
Download this version of you.
You can even get clear
about what this version of you looks like.
You might be like, "Well, Aaron,
I don't know what it looks like.
What is it?
What is that version of me think, feel and act.
I don't know.
I don't know what my purpose is.
And so I don't know what to do."
Well, it's okay.
You just meditate and you can start getting...
You can set the intention to figure it out,
you can start getting the awareness.
Now, one thing that I also wanna put your attention to
is what is your story of this version of you?
We have stories on autopilot.
Now, here's the interesting thing.
We have stories that we obtain
when we were a kid or younger.
For me, the stories I have ADHD.
I have to work this nine to five job.
I had other stories, like I had a painful past.
I didn't have much of a childhood.
I had a belief that woman tried to control me
because I had an ex-stepmom on my life
that was trying to control me
until I was 15 years old.
My dad divorced her.
So I would attract all these reflections
in my life to reflect back these limiting beliefs
because they were on autopilot.
They were these stories.
And that was like, just the way I thought reality was.
Once I began meditating, I started to see
and become aware of the subconscious patterns.
I could see the belief of the ADHD
and how I believed I had to take Adderall for that.
And that was my only solution.
But when I learned meditation,
I learned how to reframe that,
how to ground myself, by walk, being in nature,
by meditating every day, complete transform my life.
But you become aware
of the subconscious programming in meditation.
Meditation means to become familiar with.
You're becoming familiar with your past self,
the current subconscious programming,
and then you become familiar
with your new self and this version of you.
Now, when you're looking at this version of you too,
I want you to pay attention to the self-image that you have.
We all have an inner self-image
that we are projecting out into the world.
And if you're inner self-image says
that I work in nine to five job that I freaking hate,
guess what's gonna happen?
You're gonna start trying to go after your purpose.
Maybe you start putting out, I don't know.
Like I started putting out videos,
and then my old self-image came up and said,
"This isn't safe.
What about what people think about you?
Don't you care about that?
This isn't you, this isn't normal
for you to take all this action.
You have a nine to five job."
There's all these like beliefs that come up.
Everything has to be perfect.
I'm not worthy enough for this.
I'm not credible enough for this.
Those are gonna come up.
And by the way, it's never gonna feel like the right time
for you to shift into this new version of you
because that resistance will always be there
until you step into it anyways.
You have to have the courage to step into it anyways.
Now, what you wanna do is you wanna become aware
of the values and the identity of this version of you,
the behavior of this version of you,
the habits of this version of you, and then most of all
feel the gratitude for you being this version
of you right now.
And understand as well that every moment's a new moment.
Every moment's a new moment.
The cells in your body are literally dying
to being reborn every moment.
So what happens is you're always a new you.
It's just that we continue to create from this past self.
And we recreate ourselves to be the same person
over and over and over and over and over and over, over
over until I'm out of the frame.
But then I pop back up and I realize,
wait, I can be this version of me
whenever the hell I prefer to be.
So when you begin to shift and identify
as this version of you, visualize it,
feel it as if it exists.
Now, you will perceive of new probabilities
and new synchronicities in your life.
Your reality is just simply reflecting back
that what you believe to be true about yourself.
And a lot of these synchronicities
and probabilities are simply been invisible to you
because you have been activating only the past self.
So now you ask yourself,
"Okay, Aaron, that's number one,
and you're 12 minutes into the video.
Now where's number two?
What's number two?"
I'm just foaming out the mouth.
Number two is action/choice.
The other thing you need, you just meditate all day.
You're gonna feel great.
You're gonna feel in this energy.
It's awesome.
But in our 3D physical reality,
there is a thing that you do that begins to tune you
to this reality.
Meditation's one of them, that's the inner reality.
The outer reality is taking action.
Being this version of you.
So yeah, choice.
The bridges are meditation choice/action.
I started taking massive action with making YouTube videos.
I committed to a YouTube video every single day,
in 2017, my life transformed in six months.
Because every single day within my 24-hour period,
I was being this version of me.
I was being this version of me every day.
What you do daily begins to rewire your brain.
You begin to embody a new energy
and because I was more passionate...
You also wanna follow your heart.
Heart coherence is a powerful part of this.
That's why meditation can help you activate the energy
inside of your heart and then remove the blocks.
The other aspect of this too
is clearing the energy that a lot of times
is active within our field
that is blocking us from attracting the love that we want,
attracting the dream life we want.
We may have shame, meaning we believe we're broken.
There's something wrong with us.
We may have fear, meaning we wanna stay the same
because the fear keeps us safe.
What we identify safe.
Guilt.
We might feel like, "Oh, I can't move into my dream life.
I'm gonna leave my friends, my family behind.
I'm not worthy of it."
Maybe there's, if I do that
there's someone I'm letting down.
Sometimes we have this like loyalty
to a certain level of success
because otherwise we feel like we don't deserve it.
Anger.
For me, I was angry at my ex-stepmom.
I had a lot of repressed anger there.
And I was angry at not having much of a childhood.
And it was like an addiction that I had.
And I was attracting people
in my life to reflect my old stepmom energy.
And I was like,
there was an anger energy
that I was like subconsciously addicted to.
In order for you to really be this,
it's clearing this energy is also very important
for this process.
So through action though,
removing the blocks to you taking action,
you begin to embody this new frequency now.
Now, in something new that I've created,
it's called the magnetic mastery membership.
Every single month, we are focused on shifting
out of becoming aware of and shifting out of this old self
and using the power of meditation and action/accountability
to wire in this new self.
So if you want to join the Magnetic Mastery membership
at the cheapest price you'll ever see it,
click the link below or go to www.MagneticMastery.com.
Every single week, I go live for coaching.
We do accountability.
Sometimes we do breakout groups
where we go into groups
and share our goals with each other
so that we can really remain accountable
and have other people see you as this version of you.
It's one of the most powerful things I've ever created.
And soon the price is going up on it per month.
You also cancel anytime.
So there's no commitment on it,
but it's pretty much a monthly safe container
to heal, transform, and activate this new version of you
and to be consistent and permanent with it
without falling back to the old.
That's why there's accountability in it.
So if you wanna join that, you see that there.
Now, the keys to this whole entire thing though
is meditation and action.
Becoming this version of you
feeling the gratitude as if it's here now.
Wiring it in every single day.
10 minutes in the morning, 10 minutes at night
when you wake up, feeling it.
Before you even get outta your bed,
you're feeling it as if it's who you are now.
And then you get up, you literally move
as if this is who you are.
You take action.
One actually do every single day
can begin to wire this in more than anything else.
And understand that as you raise your vibration,
as you let go of these lower vibrational emotions
and addictions from childhood,
you will raise your frequency, feel better,
enjoy your life more
and notice that you perceive of more probabilities,
synchronicities and amazing things in your life
as a reflection.
If you want a more in detail process
of how to create your dream life step by step,
this is the most powerful video to watch.
Watch this video right here.
In this video,
I'm gonna show you step by step
how to create your dream life.
I'm gonna share with you and condense 12 years of research,
of me studying this and applying it.
I myself have created my dream life
from working a nine to five job.