In a world, where men are too afraid to talk to women in person…
and technology rules our everyday lives…
The dating marketplace has gone digital…
Tinder, dating apps, are the most common form of meeting and communicating with the opposite sex.
Yet man’s caveman brain has not evolved to deal with this new technology… so to save you
from your small mortal male brains, the god from Mt. Olympus has come down to help you.
Tinder and dating apps in general are the most efficient way to get high-quality dates, however,
the caveat is that you learn how to use them.
So here are 5 rules every guy needs to know to have success AKA an inbox full of matches.
#1 Understand your goals
Are you looking for something Casual? A Relationship? What
kind of girls are you looking to meet?
What are your values and your non-negotiables in a partner?
This needs to be all conveyed through your profile. If you’re looking for casual flings
then shirtless photos and a very playful casual bio to match is probably your vibe.
Think hard on what your goals are with tinder,
they make a huge difference and help you stand out. If you don’t have a goal
you won’t be able to score because your profile will lack purpose and direction.
#2 Quantity is king on dating apps so play for volume.
Most matches and girls you swipe on won’t go anywhere. That’s just the nature of dating apps.
This is why you want to keep your options open because it’s never a
done deal until she’s in front of you on the date. Swipe and swipe often.
Don’t overinvest and create a love story in your head about where you and the girl you
matched with will move to after getting married and how many kids you have.
The average girl has more guys in her inbox than you can fathom. Understand this and
set your expectations accordingly. Which brings me to my next point.
#3 Follow up and be persistent
Her inbox is full, she might’ve just missed your message or forgotten to
respond and then got distracted by her 10 new matches that day.
On tinder, no reply is the same as a rejection.
So if its’ been a few days or a week, the chances of a reply are almost zero
because she’s gotten so many messages in the meantime.
So you’ve practically already lost. You have nothing to lose by following
up with a quick witty message to give yourself another shot at her responding.
Something like “i think you forgot to press send” is a good non-needy follow up I like to use.
Don’t be too full of ego or too prideful to follow up and double text a girl because
it works more than you think and is a valid strategy. Remember, you’re on tinder to
connect with and meet amazing women, you’re not on there to get an ego boost. So focus on the goal.
#4 Integrate with instagram
90% of attractive women on dating apps will put their Instagram handle in their bio.
Since I have a properly pimped IG profile,
I use this to my advantage and skip the line of thirsty dudes in her Tinder inbox entirely.
I mean think about it, Why would I bother messaging or even swiping on
a girl from a dating app when her bio already gives me everything I need?
This way, I get her into a one on one conversation
on Instagram and blow her away with my high-value IG profile.
THIS is how elite level men get 2-3 dates per week from dating apps,
without needing to send corny pickup lines.
But this ONLY works if you have a properly pimped Instagram profile.
If your profile looks like 99.9% of guys, you're screwed.
So Unscrew yourself and learn exactly how to pimp your profile from me
and Zeus inside InstaGame which is linked in the description.
#5 You need Great photos. This is non-negotiable.
This sounds obvious. Trust me, it isn’t.
99% of guys on dating apps have terrible photos and it’s the biggest reason they lack success.
Back when I was working with the guys at Endless Options, we ran data tests to find the top picks
on Tinder, the guys who had the most swipes and were deemed most desirable by Tinder.
Guess what… most of them had nothing in their bio or a subpar bio, but it didn’t
matter because they had high quality pictures that made them look as attractive as possible.
Their photos alone were enough to get them ranked as the most desirable men on tinder.
If you’re lazy or you just wanna focus on one thing, then focus on your photos,
that will get you 80% of the benefit from tinder that you need.
I’ve made plenty of videos in the past on how to be more photogenic and take photos in the past so
I don’t wanna beat a dead horse, but if you want a video breaking
down how to take photos for dating apps then leave a comment and let me know.
These are just a few of the things I’ve been doing over the years to
get insane results with gorgeous girls online.
If you want to learn more about how to crush it in your online dating life
then you NEED to listen closely.
My good friend, Jesse from Simple Pickup has created
the most comprehensive online dating system I’ve ever seen.
Ever wonder if it’s possible for a short, balding Indian man to go on
over 200+ dates with model-quality women he met from apps like Tinder and Bumble?
Well, now you don’t have to wonder, you can see EXACTLY how Jesse did it in his newest video.
In the video, he gives away THE best opening line ever discovered for online dating..
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if nothing else, you should watch this video for the opening line alone.
He also shows you the secret power behind "emotional highs" and how to use them to create
a "dopamine flood" in a woman’s brain to get her hooked from the first message… once you learn
the secret of emotional highs - looks, money, and status go out the window.. They no longer matter.
How do I know this works? Because I’ve been using the techniques he reveals in his video
for months AND he spent the past 2 years and over $250,000 hiring a team of writers,
and data experts to help him crack the code to online dating.. And man he did it. I watched
Jesse make this happen over the past 2 years and I can say with certainty that he’s the real deal.
You know I never promote other dating coaches but
this video from Jesse was too good that I had to make an exception.
And I mean c’mon, if it works for short, balding Indian man,
then you can be certain that it’ll work for you too. He’s used this opening line and his
online dating system to go on hundreds of dates with amazing women, including LITERAL models.
So click the first link in the description to get
your hands on his system and his epic opening line.
I’ll catch you guys in the next video. Zeus man out.