hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about 10 signs someone really likes
you now let's begin number one accidental touch touches rarely happen by accident
all right let's say your friend grazes your arm or maybe her leg brushes against yours
it's easy to overlook these small touches as nothing but an accident but small moments of
contact often signify something deeper now if someone didn't want to touch you
well they wouldn't just think about how many strangers you avoid on a daily basis
think about how many co-workers and classmates you've never made contact with yet your friend
grazes brushes or touches you relatively often sure it seems like an accident at the time
but think about what that touch represents this person may have a deeper desire to be close to
you physically they're using this subtle sign to establish physical intimacy so don't let
these small touches go unnoticed if your friend makes contact with you often there's a chance
they really really like you but keep one thing in mind your friend may be touchy with everyone they
meet if they treat all their friends the same way well it's unlikely that they have feelings for you
but if they're touching you more than everyone else well they may see you as more than a friend
number two sudden discomforts how does this person act around you are they talkative and
confident or do they suddenly clam up awkwardness is a very common sign of interest and attraction
when we're around people that we like your nerves may get the best of you you want to
be cool confident and self-assured but instead you come off awkward and quiet so what does it
mean if your friend is awkward around you chances are they're fighting feelings they want to win you
over they want to make the right impression but they're nervous they get quiet and distant because
they really really like you so pay attention to awkward moments comments and pauses they may not
be comfortable experiences but they happen for a reason liking someone creates lofty expectations
and a whole lot of pressure so if you notice someone getting awkward this may be the reason why
number three investigative questions is your friend really interested in you do they listen
intently to everything you say to find out whether or not someone likes you pay attention to the
way they listen the questions they ask and the amount of attention they give exclusively to you
now most of the time people are not very attentive they look for excuses to talk about themselves
they tune people out they forget to ask questions but if someone likes you you become the center of
their world they'll take a strong interest in you because they want to know more about you now on
the flip side someone who's really talkative may be trying to express their feelings for you too
you ask lots of questions so you can get to know someone but you also share lots of details
so someone can get to know you no matter which way the conversation flows notice how open and
interested someone else is because this interest can be a telltale sign of romantic attraction
number four laughing at everything does your friend make you feel like the funniest person
in the world laughter is a reliable sign of interest and even romantic attraction
if someone finds you funny they don't just enjoy your sense of humor well they might but constant
laughter means so much more it tells you that this person is happy around you that they're
paying attention to you and that they want to connect with you on a more personal level
but laughter can also be misleading if you're looking for this common sign of attraction
you need to measure this person's baseline first how often does your friend laugh normally some
people laugh at everything they laugh when something is funny they laugh when they feel
awkward they even laugh just to break the tension but other people are more reserved they rarely
laugh yet around you they're nothing but smiles so if this sounds familiar this person may like you
more than you realize number five searching for reasons does your friend find reasons to spend
time together these opportunities are a subtle but powerful sign of romantic investment this
person is looking for every opportunity to spend time with you whether it's five minutes or five
hours they'll propose lunches join the same groups and attend the same events that way you can do and
enjoy activities together on a regular basis but how does this show romantic interest first of all
this person wants to see you as much as they can that alone shows that someone is drawn to you but
more importantly this person is creating these opportunities to weave themselves into your life
all right let's say you join an outdoor sports team together you start driving together to
practice you start befriending the same people and attending the same events you become a
regular part of this person's world and they become a regular part of yours don't look past
these important opportunities for connection and involvement if you start seeing someone everywhere
they may like you as more than a friend number six weird memories does this person remember all the
moments you've spent together do they recall weird or silly memories from a long time ago
these moments are stuck in their memory because of how much you matter to them
they treasure the moments you've spent together so they absorbed every second of them the same
goes for small insignificant details one of your friends may remember everything from birthdays to
special events they may recall funny stories you told them from your childhood or remember inside
jokes you created years in the past this person remembers those things because you're important
to them because they're actively thinking about you otherwise those dates and times would slip in
one ear and out the other number seven responsive texting how long does this person take to answer
your messages do you two have quick back and forth conversations for hours on end people don't talk
like this to just anyone when someone sends you a text there are a number of different ways you
can respond you could answer with a simple yes or no you could put off responding until later
or you could ignore their text altogether but when you send them an immediate response
you're telling the other person that you want to talk you're showing that you're attentive and
available by responding quickly they're telling you the same thing now don't mistake this for
just being nice if someone responds instantly to most of your messages they're doing it on
purpose they're going out of their way to talk to you so there's a good chance they like you
number eight leaving you alone does your group of friends leave you two alone
this is a common sign of romantic interest even if your crush has nothing to do with it
chances are your friends know more than you do they may have heard this person has a crush on you
by leaving you alone they're trying to nudge the two of you together so pay attention to
the way your friends act around you if they keep making excuses to leave well it's safe to assume
they know something you don't in other words this person may be looking for something more
number nine entering personal space does this person enter your personal space personal space
is how you designate the people you feel closest to the closer you get the safer and more familiar
someone feels strangers for example should keep their distance co-workers and acquaintances
can get a little closer while friends and loved ones can move freely through your personal space
ah but what if someone wants to go even further what if this person wants to be as close to you
as they can this behavior shows you when someone wants to be more than friends just like physical
contact space is a tell-tale sign of romantic interest and attraction because the less space you
have the more intimacy you build so this person may stand at your side sit right next to you
or stay within inches of you at all times they may consistently close the spatial gap between you
this happens in a wide variety of ways but each method communicates the same message your friend
likes you and by entering your personal bubble they're hoping you'll notice exactly how much
number 10 undivided attention when someone likes you they give you 100 of their attention
that means their phones stay in their pockets most people take for granted how important this
sign really is just take a second to think about how much time you spend on your phone
throughout the day you're answering texts checking emails and browsing social media
some of us check our phones every hour of every day even at work or with friends we glance at our
screens far more often than we realize but what if this person hasn't looked at their phone in hours
well it means you're more important to them in their mind no email or text message is worth
interrupting they focus on you because they want to completely absorb the things you say
in other words you aren't just another person to them you're someone special hey thank you
for watching top link and be sure to subscribe because more incredible content is on the way