So you've gone through a breakup and your ex says,
I don't have any more feelings for you. I don't love you. Matter of fact,
I never did love you.
This video is how to get your ex back.
Even if they say they don't have feelings for you anymore,
using the law of attraction.
Hi everyone. Robert Zink, Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Life Coach.
And today we are soaring, and high, like a big,
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the love you crave and the health and happiness that you deserve and
depend on high flyers. So you've gone through a breakup.
Maybe it's been a week ago, maybe a day ago, maybe a month ago,
maybe a year ago, maybe three years ago.
And when the breakup took place,
they said they didn't have any feelings for you anymore.
They were all gone that they don't love you,
or maybe they never loved you.
Or the most they could ever be with you is
just friends, High Flyers. I've been through that. That's a painful,
painful experience.
And I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy,
but I'm going to tell you how to make it through it and how to get them to fall
in love with you. Again,
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Well, sometimes when they get to this point,
they say they only like you I'd like to still be friends.
Maybe we can still see each other from time to time,
but I don't want to commit. I can't be in a committed relationship with you.
I just don't have those feelings.
And that's really a tough place to be. I mean,
that's a devastating place to be because you still have
strong feelings for them,
but they're claiming not to have feelings for you.
Sometimes they will come right out and say, I don't love you anymore.
I don't have feelings for you. Or here's the one that always gets me.
I need space. I need, what do you need space for?
Well, I need to find myself. I need to work on myself.
So we need to have some time apart.
So I want you to write this down High Flyers, because this is very,
very important.
The key is not about how much you want or
need or love them.
The real key is how much they want
you, how much they love you,
how much they are willing to put energy into the relationship
for you. That's the key.
So just giving you a little inner tip right here.
If I was going to spend my time visualizing,
I would spend less of my time focusing on
what I feel,
what I want and focus more on what I would
like them to feel about me,
about the relationship, about where it can go and what it can become.
In other words, as I said earlier, it's not about how much you love them.
It's about how much they love you.
So expand their love.
And you do that through a number of techniques that we've shared on over 800
videos on this channel. But Hey, we'll share a few more in this video as well.
The secret is raising your inner vibration and
expanding your power and confidence so that they
hunger. That's a good word.
They hunger to be back with you.
So what is the key that you have to do?
Because most times the only thing that people hear is them hungering to be back
with me. Oh, I like that. What is it that you need to do?
You have to raise your inner vibration.
That means neediness wanting fearing
loathing, anger,
jealousy are not acceptable emotions because they
lower your vibration.
And they put you in a state where it becomes almost
impossible to be magnetic and attractive to them.
What's really important.
High Flyers is raising your personal power
and your personal confidence to the point where you feel I
don't need them. I great. Without them,
somebody better will come into my life,
but I would like to be with them.
I'm open to being with them.
And when you're at that point of confidence and power,
you're at that place that I call absolute knowingness.
Oh yeah. Beautiful.
You just know that you know that you know that they
are going to fall deeper and deeper and deeper in love with you
each and every day. And there's nothing you have to do about it.
You don't have to try anything. You don't have to do any tricks.
You don't have to do any cartwheels.
They just start to fall in love with you. Why?
Because you're making it your intention because you're
saying to the universe,
this is my intention is co-created together.
And you're focusing on their feelings coming toward you rather than your
need or lack or doubt or fear or despair.
Don't you just love falling in love. High Flyers. I mean,
falling in love happens when two people are in
alignment together. So many, many years ago,
I was on a beach in the Caribbean and I was lying on the beach
and I was just people watching.
And I saw a young couple come by and they were looking into each other's
eyes. That's a big key.
They were looking beyond each other's eyes.
They were looking into each other's souls.
And while there's a beautiful atmosphere around beautiful Caribbean water,
a beautiful white sand, absolutely gorgeous.
They were holding hands and you could have put them out in the desert or you
could have put them out on a mountain or you could have put them anywhere.
They wouldn't have known the difference because they were so
deeply in alignment.
They were connecting and with every word and with everything they said,
and with everything that happened,
went deeper and deeper and deeper into alignment.
And I watched him walk by and I noticed that. And then a few moments later,
I saw a couple walked by in their eighties and it was
absolutely beautiful.
They were doing the exact same thing.
They were talking. They were looking into each other's eyes.
They were connecting.
They were allowing their energy fields to intermingle.
They were in a beautiful state of love and
alignment. On the other hand,
High Flyers falling out of love is when the two of you
are no longer in alignment.
And you're talking more about how can we fix the relationship?
What can we do to make it better? How can, can I,
how can I convince you to give me another chance?
How can I Vince you to try one more time?
Why did you tell me those things about how you felt if you don't feel
now? Do you see what I'm saying? It's all about friction and tension,
but mostly it's about neediness.
So High Flyers, I'm going to give you some very specific instructions.
If you follow them, this will work for you. I mean,
I have no doubt in my mind, this will help you on your journey.
Number one creates space.
The two of you were like this at one time, you're connected in a beautiful,
loving relationship.
And then it kind of came gnarly and tangled up.
And other people may be, are involved and,
and friends and relatives have their opinions.
And it just becomes nasty.
Give each other some space,
but more importantly,
give your self some time and space to
focus on you. High Flyers.
This is what I call creating an emotional neutral
zone. I want you to have a,
have some space so that there's a neutral zone so that there aren't all these
irritable and angry and painful emotions
flying around. And, and you're, you're,
you're attracting the opposite of what you desire.
Give yourself time in this neutral zone.
And this is a safe space for both of
you. Now, how long should the safe space be? Well, you know,
I don't have a,
an exact amount of time for some people it's 20 days for
others. It might be 30 for some. It might be 60,
depending on how volatile your relationship was
and how deep the misunderstandings were.
You might need 60 days of being in
that emotional neutral zone. Next clear this space,
using what I call a clearing text or a clearing
email in this email,
you're only going to use positive words.
There will be no blaming, no pudding down,
anything, no focusing on the past whatsoever.
Nothing about getting back together or any of that at this point,
because all you're doing is creating a neutral zone. That's very,
very important. So High Flyers,
your key mantra is let's just take this one day
at a time and focus on being friends.
Let's just be friends. Now,
this is important because you want to keep things neutral
and you may be saying, well, Robert, I don't want to just be friends,
but you've got to get back to neutrality. First. You've got to,
you get to a place where people can talk. You see friends,
good friends will listen to you. Each other. They will carry about each other.
We're lovers. Won't.
You've got to get to that stage where you can listen to each other and really
hear each other maybe for the first time.
So I like to make this my mantra.
Let's just take things one day at a time.
Nobody knows exactly where this will go or how it will end up,
but I wish you only the best. And I wish only the best for myself.
And let's just be friends and take some time off.
I don't say let's take 30 days off.
I don't say let's take 20 days off. I say,
let's just take some time off. Keep the letter positive. As I said,
don't bring up the past. Don't say, well, this is obviously what you wanted.
Don't be mean, spirited.
Don't be jealous or envious and create that wonderful neutral
zone with a beautiful letter that talks about friendship.
It talks about
positive energy between the two of you.
And it allows things to happen organically between the two of you.
That's so important.
If you start pushing whoever it is that you're in a relationship
with is going to start backing off.
You've got to stop pushing and back off
important. Seriously important High Flyers.
The one little caveat I wanted to mention is, uh, one client says, well,
I haven't, I haven't talked to him in five weeks, okay?
But you're still in a state of need. You're still in a state of doubt.
You're still in the state of fear. You're in a state of anger.
You're in a state of jealousy. You're in a state of worry.
You're still stocking all of that as negative vibrational energy
that at some level, this other person will feel,
it may not be at a conscious level,
but it will be at a subconscious level because we are all connected.
And if the two of you have been immersed, connected,
deeply connected in love at one time,
then that connection is even deeper.
So just be calm and relax and let this happen.
Remember that if you loved once and you love
deeply, you can love again, deeper,
stronger the second time around. Well,
number three on my list,
High Flyers is that you want to ask yourself one question,
what would I do right now?
If I truly wanted to be the best version of me in every area of my life.
I'm just talking about emotional areas in every area of my life.
If I want it to be the best version of me in my career,
if I wanted to be the best version of me physically,
if I wanted to be the best version of me emotionally,
what would I do? What are the steps I would take?
Because as you begin to raise higher and higher in your confidence
grows, and your power grows,
your magnetism expands and you become like super attractive
to this other person.
And they start wanting you and hungry for you and wanting to
spend time with you. But of course,
you're just pushing them back a little bit saying, Hey,
let's just take it slow. One day at a time, while High Flyers,
number four is a technique I created called Pillowtalk and I'm not going to go
into the details of pillow talk. Rather in the description,
we're going to put a link to one of our other videos that has a
full description of pillow. Talk for you. I think it'll make it much easier,
but I would be doing pillow talk every night. Not about what I feel about them.
I wouldn't be saying, I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you.
I'd say I know that you find these super attractive. I know you start,
can't stop thinking about me.
I feel you thinking about me and wanting me and hungering for me,
stronger and stronger each and every day that we're apart. I understand this.
You see, I want that message.
Not only in my subconscious mind to expand my confidence,
but I wanted in their subconscious mind to bring them forward,
to move them out of their shell and get them into the,
into the stage of taking action.
While High Flyers visualizing a new life is really good.
And before you get, get too deep into the weeds,
just visualize simple things,
happy things that perhaps you never did before.
Don't go back and relive old memories, live new memories,
create new memories in your life. And number six is,
as you start connecting, as you start talking,
as you have passed through the neutral zone, you can do some light flirting,
started light, pick it up,
come on a little heavier flirting a little bit more because
before you're going to put all of your heart, soul,
and body in the game,
this time they're going to have to commit to putting all of their heart.
So, and body into the game as well.
Everything which means full commitment before you,
before you end the flirting stage and move into the action stage.
I just want to say this. I love that flirting stage,
and I love that dating stage.
And I love falling in love again and creating a new relationship with new
rules and new boundaries.
And I like the idea of bringing them to the point where they're begging to be
with you and wanting to be with you and willing to put
energy and vibration into the relationship
before moving onward and committing yourself fully.
You know what I'm talking about? Okay. That's enough. There it is. It works.
It works fast. If you'll do it, you have a great day.
You absolutely deserve it.
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