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I've been studying and practicing and teaching neuro linguistic programming for
years in this video you will learn to use NLP to help you solve problems and
communicate better and at the end of this video I'm going to show you how you
can take this even deeper with some free training what was the first NLP model
ever created let's see a show of hands here if you know the answer to that type
it into the comments right now the first NLP model that was created was actually
created before NLP was known as NLP before it had the name neuro linguistic
programming and that model is called the meta model the meta model is a model
based on language patterns and it's also a model that's based on precision we
tend to speak in very general terms we tend to speak in non sensory based terms
we use a lot of words that don't really illustrate a picture that you hear
people say show don't tell this is how we normally speak we normally tell
people we don't show them and even as I'm speaking right now I'm using a lot
of words that are not really rooted in what you see what you hear what you feel
they're more conceptual words and so we compile a lot of concepts and what
happens is we start piling concepts on top of concepts and we detach from
reality so much like the physical reality around
us that we actually create a lot of problems for ourselves just by getting
lost in our own concepts so with the metamodel does is it basically
identifies these these patterns these very vague patterns that are very
disconnected from the actual sensory experience that we're experiencing and
it has it provides counters or ways to question those patterns so that we then
have to go into the deeper structure of where the language is coming from which
is sensory based everything in language is somehow connected even though it may
be distantly but it's somehow rooted and connected to our physical reality I mean
that's how language came about to begin with it's a way of transferring or
helping someone else understand my experience a way of communicating my
experience to someone else but always it's always rooted in like what we
actually experience and that can only come from the five senses so basically
the meta model identifies these problematic patterns and when you hear
them in your own language or you hear them when someone else is speaking you
can then question first it's about identifying the pattern and then once
you've identified the pattern then you know how to question that patterns which
will make the person in order to be able to answer your questions will have to go
into the deeper structure reconnect with sensory based experience you know the
real stuff that's going on around us and then come up with answers and when that
happens this is often where the solutions are the solutions are rarely
and our concepts that we create our solutions are in the physical reality
around us so when we reconnect with that then we know how to solve problems so
the thing to remember when it comes to the meta model is that the solutions
are always right here with you a lot of what's clouding your judgment or a lot
of what's blocking you from access to that solution is a limited way of
thinking or it is a way that you have limited yourself through your concepts
through your beliefs and language has a lot to do with that language is an
indication of what those limitations are so when you learn the metamodel
you can actually apply this to yourself and start to realize
where those limitations are in your map of reality and then how to question
those limitations so that the solutions come out the resources become available
to you you you regain access to those solutions that are all around you
after the metal model was created young render and Richard Bandler the founders
of NLP were then introduced to a man by the name of Milton Erickson now Milton
Erickson now is known as the father of modern hypnosis he was an extraordinary
hypnotist and what Bandler and Grinder found is this guy broke all of the rules
he broke all of the rules especially of the metamodel
and basically what he did instead of using precision he used vagueness to
lead his clients to figuring out their own solutions more of a holistic
approach and Milton Erickson would sort of presuppose that the resources yes the
resources and the solutions were there and you didn't need to necessarily
become consciously aware of them that if you could just give the unconscious some
guidance then you would sort it out on your own and you'd never need it to
become conscious at all and by being vague a lot of times hypnotist will use
very vague terms or vague concepts because it's very hypnotic
it's very trance-like if you listen to a person for a long time speak in very
vague terms the tendency will be that you will go into a trance
Bandler and Grinder studied Milton Erickson and what they came up with was
a new communication model which was the Milton model and sometimes the Milton
model is called the reverse of the meta model because on one end of the spectrum
the meta model is all about precision and getting very conscious about what
solutions you need and how to get them and then on the other end of the
spectrum is the Milton model which is very vague very hypnotic and when you
use the the Milton model it's about sort of guiding your unconscious in a
particular direction but not giving you the exact instructions because being too
conscious of the instructions you could actually trip yourself up so it just
allows your unconscious to sort of it gives it the direction it needs and then
presupposes that it can heal itself that it can find the solutions find the
resources and that none of this needs to become conscious so you got two
different problem solving communication models on completely different ends of
the spectrum and last but not least with the founders of NLP discovered with
Milton Erickson was his extraordinary ability to read nonverbal communication
Milton Erickson had been bedridden for duta polio when he was a teenager and he
cultivated this extraordinary ability to listen not just with his ears but with
his eyes and also to hear not just words but to hear a lot more in a person's
nonverbal communication and the power of this comes from that nonverbal
communication really being with the unconscious is communicating you're very
conscious of the words you communicate when you're communicating verbally
you're you're conscious of what it is you want to communicate but there's so
much more processing that's going on in your unconscious and your unconscious is
also communicating but consciously we don't know how to read this when you
start to pick up on people's nonverbal communication a whole new world opens up
and you start to see what others don't even see about themselves and when
somebody is explaining if your coach and someone's explaining a problem to you
well they're communicating with their conscious self but their bodies and
their their voices the tone of voice is communicating more and if you can see
this nonverbal communication if you can read it and you can hear it and you can
see solutions that the other person can't see because they're not conscious
of it then you become extremely influential and you can then help guide
that person to better solution so if you're a coach this is really an amazing
ability to have this is an ability that you want to cultivate if you're in sales
and you're helping people find solutions by what you offer again this is an
extremely powerful and necessary skill to create for yourself the power of
nonverbal communication is that it's absolutely honest you cannot rely the
nonverbal the communication comes out you can lie with your words but you
cannot lie with your physiology so between the metamodel the Milton model
and being able to read nonverbal communication there's almost no problem
you can't solve if you think about it you have language patterns on either end
of the spectrum from precision to being extremely vague if you understand these
two models and you can go between them easily the solutions you just see that
are they're always abundant they're always there it's just a matter of
getting out of your limitations getting out of the limited thinking that we all
have we all have these limitations so when you learn how to overcome them then
thus you'll start to see solutions everywhere and then having that sensory
acuity and the ability to calibrate not just yourself but to to be able to do
that with other people there's really no problem that cannot be solved through
the good communication and these are not the only NLP models there are other NLP
communication models and they're still being developed all the time so when you
when you learn this and you start to develop the ability and you start to
learn more and more about how communication good communication happens
and that learning part is the education part really there there is no such thing
as a limitation that we can't overcome there's no such thing as a problem that
it cannot be solved so now you know how NLP as a communication model works but
you can't benefit from it unless you actually use it and you cultivate the
skills so one thing that I did to help you is offer this free sensory acuity
and calibration training that you can opt into just by clicking the link
that's in the description also I'll put it in the comments and I'll link it to
this video as well it's a free 30 day emailed training on how to improve your
sensory acuity and your calibration skills you'll get an email a day for 30
days where you'll have instructions of something new to listen for or something
new to look at so that you cultivate this ability to read nonverbal
communication I'm curious about you how do you use good communication and
occasion to solve problems let me know in the comments below and remember to
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