Normally, oh sorry, hi, James from EngVid, normally I'd be reading my paper or magazine,
today, no, this is the Black Book of Death.
Why?
Well, if you look at my profile, you know I teach at a school in Canada, and every once
in a while, I write down things that make me angry.
Angry because students do not know these useful, helpful things.
Why?
It's because it's repetitive.
If you saw an earlier video, and I suggest you do, we talked about foods, and we said
delightful, tasty, succulent, instead of delicious.
I actually used to have students say, "The water is delicious, teacher."
Water is not delicious, it's water.
Okay?
There are two more things, examples of things that drive me crazy, and if you correct these
things, your teachers will actually treat you a little differently.
You'll find they'll treat you as if you were more intelligent, and it's true, because you're
showing you understand how to use the English, instead of using the same repetitive English
over and over.
Alright?
Today's lesson is on "for example" and "same".
Okay?
So, ready?
Let's go to the board.
My buddy's not here, but he will, because he's going to help me with the examples today.
Okay, and as usual, Ezekiel has brought his beer.
Alright?
Time to go to work.
So, two things we're going to work on today.
Okay, drive me crazy.
Number one, for example, teacher, so let's look at that.
Okay?
Where's my eraser?
For example, I hate, but I forget my eraser.
For example means, literally, I want to show you something that will prove to you what
I'm saying, or give proof or evidence, or I want to show you something.
Right?
So, there's got to be a different way of saying, for example, yes, I'm holding my book.
This will be one of the first times I'm going to read it, because I want to make sure you
get some really good examples, or illustrations for what I want you to learn.
Ah, see, illustration.
Illustration means to draw, but it means a picture.
Let's go to the board.
So, for example, teacher, let's get rid of that.
What do you mean?
There are one or two things.
You either want to prove a point, or show something.
So let's look at, to show.
Another thing for saying, instead of this, you can say, for instance.
In this case, when we're doing this, we're showing something.
In this case, in this instance, in this situation, right?
Similar to, for example, for instance, this morning I had, you know, I usually have breakfast
every morning.
For example, I usually have oranges with some eggs, or for instance, this morning I had
oranges and some eggs.
Oh, see, sounds the same, but it sounds nicer, because it's different, and you won't be like
every other student who says, for example, you've shown you are a unique individual,
and you should be treated like that.
See?
Good.
Right?
Ezekiel, he's got another hand up now.
There we go.
See?
He's giving you the thumbs up, he's like, yeah, man, and drinking his beer.
A drunk worm, tequila worm, that's where I found him, Mexico.
Anyway, so for instance, that's a good one, okay?
These ones will show.
You can use them for showing, showing your point, drawing a picture.
Next one, to illustrate.
When you illustrate something, you draw it, you draw a picture.
Now, in a future lesson, I'm going to explain to you about the three ways of learning, and
that would be auditory, kinesthetic, that's feeling, and visual.
This is a good one for people who are visual, because when you use it, it actually helps
them draw a picture in their mind.
Wow, you didn't think you'd get that for a dollar.
See?
All this information.
If you use that with people who are very visual, they'll get that picture right away, okay?
So anyway, so you might want to, when you show people, you say, for instance, I want
to show you something, and to illustrate, okay?
And you're going to say, to illustrate, and we can even put in brackets, because if you
want to say this, get fancy, university level, oh yeah, pull up.
Okay, don't do this with your friends, they'll think you're a snobby bum, there's another
word for it, but this is PG-13, so just think, to illustrate is good enough, to illustrate
what I mean, blah, blah, blah, right?
For instance, blah, blah, blah, you want to go to your boss or professor to illustrate
my point, blah, blah, blah, or to your judge, if you drink too much and drive, you'll have
to illustrate my point, drinking and driving, not good.
All right, so this is for show, show, show.
What's the next one we're going to do?
Well, I've got two more for you, all right?
So sometimes we want to show, but sometimes we want to prove, what do I mean by prove?
Well, prove is to say something is true, when you want to show something, you just want
to mention it, you want to use it as an example, right, to show people, but when you want to
prove a point, make it stronger, we call it hammering it home, making sure people know,
here are two you like.
We're on our case in point.
Case in point, phrase which literally means, this point makes my case, what I'm saying,
true.
This example makes what I'm saying true, so I want to prove something to you, so I don't
want to just show it to you, I want to make it stronger.
So yes, it does mean to show, of course, an example is a demonstration, but when you say
case in point, there's a greater emphasis or there's a greater push to say, this is
true and I'm going to prove it to you, okay?
So case in point, like you're a lawyer, you're going to need one if you keep taking my lessons.
And one more, and it also has to do with points, because pointing is this, right, which you
should never do.
If you do points, you should do this, it's open-handed, I have to do a lesson on body
language, you're going to love it, you'll meet girls and boys like that, anyway.
You open your hand, right, case in point, to prove what I have to say.
The next one is this one, look, see there's a word, you can say this, to prove my point,
blah, blah, blah, blah, because it means, for example, to prove my point, and then you
just say it, and that's taking this word example, for example, and saying it right off, right?
You're always late.
To prove my point yesterday, I waited five hours.
To prove my point yesterday, I waited five hours, or you're always late, for example,
yesterday, I waited five hours.
Oh my God, four different ways to say it, look, isn't that beautiful?
You like that?
See, you can say all of these.
Don't do the one after the other, because they'll think you're crazy, but you can say,
for example, then maybe the next sentence or two, for instance, and then after that,
to prove my point, and you'll probably find that the teacher will go, yes, yes, yes, do
you have a number?
I'm kidding, that won't happen, but it's good stuff, right?
It's their conversation, show you have mastered the language.
Okay, to prove my point, and then you can actually add, I wouldn't do this, this is
what we call overkill too much, here's, but you could add that word, this ugly word, here's
an example, but you don't need to, you could just say the explanation, right, just say
it right away.
So this is one of the things that drives me crazy, so I hope I've improved your life.
Case in point, I'm going to give you another one that will make you look very, very intelligent
with your teachers.
Same, may I get rid of this, Ezekiel says yes, so it doesn't matter if you care or not,
Ezekiel says yes, but we've got to prove and to show, and we've yet given you four examples,
alright?
See, holding on to the book, so I don't tear my hair out from frustration, okay, so I want
to hear you, especially, some of my students actually watch these videos, I'm talking to
you, my students, please use the examples I've given, and I will personally kiss you
on the cheek every time I hear it, no I won't, some of you need to wash first, so no I won't,
but you understand, and you know who you are, you need this hat, it's cold in this country,
alright.
For example teacher, lesson number one, the other one is pet peeve, you know what pet
peeve is, this is the second lesson, pet peeve is something that makes you angry all the
time, no matter what, it's a pet peeve, like a pet, you love your pet, so you love this
thing because it's consistent in making you angry, peeve means angry, right?
So, you will say to a student, I don't know, run, and they say, is it safe as walk teacher?
Obviously not, if it were, we would have one word for walk and run, we don't, we have two
words, a lot of times, and I understand, so I'm being understanding here, a lot of times
students want to make English easy so that they can learn it, I understand, I feel your
pain, really I do, but don't give me pain and say everything is the same, our dictionary
is this thick, but you want it to be this thick, one page, it doesn't work that way,
okay?
So here's what we're going to do, we're going to learn different ways of saying same so
you can understand because I know that's why you're saying is it the same because you really
want to understand, you're a good student, yeah, pat yourself on the back, go I am a
good, good student, you are, I love you, we all do here, okay?
But here's a different way of saying same, so let's go, alright, so, I love this, I always
smile when students say this one, similar, similar has the idea of saying, I have to
get rid of this marker, excuse me, flush, gone, alright, similar means similar to same,
it means close but not exact and I like this word because it tells me that you are thinking,
it tells me that you understand they are the same in some ways, that's why they've been
used but probably not exactly the same and I'm like, you know what, I like you, you're
a thinker, that's good, so similar, look at this, A1 word for me, so don't say is it the
same, you're saying is it similar to, alright, to is used for direction, preposition used
for direction, so you're saying is it close to or like this one, okay?
Another one we can say is like, is it like this, like is a comparative word, right, we
use it for comparisons, right, similes, metaphors, okay, so is it like this, is it like that,
that way it gives the teacher and you both room to understand what they are similar to
or what is the same and maybe what the differences are.
Now, these are positive ways of looking at it, I like this because these are saying what
is the same between these things but how do we talk about negative differences because
sometimes things aren't different and you know, like, I know this is the same here but
what is it different, that's what I need to know, well, these ones are talking about the
differences, alright, so let's take a look for instance, okay, we can say, oh, one second,
you know what, I've got one more here for you, okay, so this is one, similar to, alright,
we've got similar to, that's number one, number two is like, number three, okay, here we go.
See, when we talk about something that has the same meaning, right, it opens up, you
know, look, when you said the same, I said, do, I'm asking a question, I didn't say are
they the same or they are the same, no, I didn't say they are the same, do they have
the same meaning, so I'm going to do a question for them, so that gives a person who's answering
a question, say, yes, they mean the same in this context, in this situation, but probably
not all the time, yeah, okay, so these are the positive ones, now here's one, or two,
two more, so I'm going to do this one here, it's not negative, it just talks about the
differences more than the sameness, what is different, right, now, here is it, so we go
how or when are they different, okay, if somebody tells you two words are similar, then you
might say, well, he said similar, not the same, so if, or he or she, and if she said
they are similar, that means there must be differences, maybe what's more important
to you is, how do I know when not to use it, okay, so you go, so hey, how are they, oops,
I said the, they different, how do they differ, how can I tell the difference, or when are
they different, in what situation does it become an adverb to an adjective, or in what
situation does the gerund form become a noun, what are they different, how are they different,
tell me so I can use it properly in the future, makes my English expand faster, okay, now,
you heard me say the word differ, differ is in here, see this, okay, so here's what I
want to do here, I'm going to, sorry, erase my number one, I love it, I really do, okay,
so I don't want you to forget it, this is number four, right, and this is another negative
one, but it's not really negative, do you remember how we say they're the same, well,
you can say this, right, how do they differ, how are they different, how do they differ,
very similar question, or when do they differ, so you can just say different instead of different,
okay, so I've given you four ways, and you know the number one way, right, number one,
this one's positive, positive, okay, and number one was what, remember, get rid of this one,
we don't want to talk about same, we want to say similar, similar, right, because if
words are exactly the same, well, then we're only going to have one word, because what's
the point in having snow, and then having snow one, snow one, snow are the same, just
have snow, and we have slush in other words, right, because there's always a little difference,
say number one, numero uno, ichiban, yes, I speak some Japanese, not very much, okay,
number one, say similar, okay, and this shows the positive aspect of sameness, okay, number
two, like, compare, so in this case, you're literally asking the teacher to compare it
to another word, number three, do they have the same meaning, give me the understanding,
alright, now, over here, we could go negative and go, how do they differ, how are they different,
right, or when or how are they different, in case you have a problem with different,
we good, great, those are my two top pet peeves, don't worry, the black book shall make an
appearance again, and when it does, I will bring out more of your horrible, horrible
mistakes, but for now, let's go to the board, Ezekiel and I must take off, we're not going
to the same place, but similar places, the washroom, and he goes in the ground, and I
go to an actual toilet, so, once again, you say, come join in for a drink at www.engvid.com,
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blah, blah, blah, don't forget, see you.