When boys play with their hair while talking to me... I hate that.
"I hope I look good."
We don't check out guys that much.
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of Tokyo and ask Japanese girls about boys.
This time the topic is gonna be, SNEEZING vs FIXING THEIR HAIR....
What of those two things are their pet peeves.
What do they actually dislike the most.
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What's worse? A boy that sneezes loudly or plays constantly with his hair.
Which one is worse in your opinion?
Nice line.
So many people voted this.
You don't like it when boys play with their hair. Why is that so?
They seem very narcissistic.
Like "I am so cool" - like that.
You don't like the loud sneeze.
Hygienically I don't like that.
If someone sneezes a lot when you eat, I don't want to spend much time with him.
When would it be worst to play with hair near you?
When they are talking with me. If they were just playing with their hair I would not like that.
What else should a boy not do?
When Japanese boys come up to girls to help, we actually think that is strange of them.
I think that's a problem for boys in Japan. They are usually very timid.
There are no boys who would open doors for a lady in Japan.
What not at all?
Well some might walk in front of you, and keep it open longer for you.
But they would never go up and open a door just for you.
Boys like that are rare in Japan.
SNEEZE! Rather than sneezes, the one playing with his hair is worse. Why?
It's very narcissistic.
A sneeze is normal but...
but when someone fiddles with their hair all the time like this, its weird.
We don't check your hair out that much.
What's so bad about narcissistic people?
When boys walk past a mirror on the street, and stop to fix their hair its embarassing.
You don't have to fix it all the time!
"I hope I look good" type.
We don't look at that.
What if your boyfriend fixes his hair during your date all the time?
If it's really bad, I would say something about it.
But I doubt I would.
I would not say it. I wouldn't date someone like that in the first place.
If it's really bad I would say something. But I doubt I would actually do that.
Depends on what type of boyfriend it is.
If a boy takes more time in the morning than a woman to get ready, what do you do?
I had an exboyfriend who was like that!
I was so annoyed at that!
But if I love him, and he is trying to look good for ME, for OUR date, then I would like it.
But if its not someone I love, i would have to force a laugh at that.
As long as it's for you it's ok.
If I love him, I would think it's cute he tries to get ready for me.
But if it was like that every day, I wouldn't like it.
He is trying hard for you.
If a boy keeps constantly playing with his hair, I don't like it! What do you not like?
It's like a girl!
I want a real man to not worry so much about his hair.
Once its styled in a cool way, that is enough.
If he plays with his fringe the whole day, I would drop it.
It's annoying.
Is it ok to style the hair in the morning? - I want him to do that!!!
But not once you are out?
He can fix it on the toilet a little bit. But all the time is too narcissistic for me.
When I see boys fixing their hair in the reflection of a car, I am like "aaaah".
What if a boy takes more time than a girl getting ready in the morning?
What the heck is he doing for that long???
I would really wonder what he is doing in the bathroom.
I wouldn't like that either.
If he is a famous TV person, it's his job to look good but it's different if it's a normal person.
How long would you forgive a normal boy to get ready in the morning?
10 minutes to get ready is enough.
Up to 30 minutes.
That's your limit? - Up until 30 minutes.
And if it is 35 minutes? - I would say "Aren't you in there a bit long?"
If someone sneezes loudly and a lot, I would not like it but...
Once in a while is ok.
But I think it's gross if a boy plays with his hair all the time.
It's like he is like "I am such a handsome fellow."
Gross.
If he sneezes loudly at home, that's fine but outside is embarassing.
So it depends on the situation?
At home is ok.
What if he plays with his hair at home all the time?
I wouldn't like that either.
I would get surprised from the big sneezes.
I understand that he fixes his hair, because he cares about his visual appearance.
I totally understand that. So I would pick sneezes.
Do you care a lot about your hair? - I do a lot!
When there is a mirror or a glass reflection, I fix my hair.
I totally understand why he would do that.
With a loud sneeze, I am sure he could suppress it a little if he wanted.
When men sneeze loudly on the train, it surprises me.
Even a love for a thousand years would get cold after a sneeze like that.
On that note, those were all questions. Thank you.
What's worse? A boy that sneezes loudly or a boy that constantly plays with his hair?
Play with his hair got 8 points as the worst thing apparently, I would say...
if they wanna look good, wanna fix their hair, I am cool with that.
But apparently lots of girls said, he might be a bit too egocentric for them.
How about you?
Which one do you think is worse? Leave us a comment down below!
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