Abraham Hicks New 2016
and i'm kind of battling with two different things like my partner drives
and solitude and aloneness and really wants to just feel law of attraction good
yea well yeah bribes in solitude I say that I have this wide-open personality
and I love interaction and co-creation like togetherness and unfortunately he's
not the only person on the planet you can spend a lot of time with a lot of
other people ok so you can satisfy your desires without dragging him into
something that he doesn't like yeah ok ok well
for the free are you say to him you're the only one that everyone has been any
time within since you don't like the king of the limelight one of have to be
measurable
humor me are you saying here we are running on so many wonderful point like
having a baby we are running fine on some of the wonderful points to be
everything better conditionally meaning no it doesn't because it does you good
to me like i dont wanna tell us your thoughts about this does not feel good
having a partner that I can't communicate with and having a partner
that is so distant and disconnected from me and when something doesn't feel good
to you what the you know that to me it means that your inner being isn't
looking at it that way so when you were having thoughts in your mind or your
thing them to him that he feels different to you the discord means you
Abraham Hicks New 2016 don't want him to feel distant it also mean that in your right now
determination from what you've been observing that he is distant that you
are in complete opposition to what you are wanting while you're feeling that
way if there is anything about your law of attraction relationship with him but when you poke
fun at you feel good I feel that both of us together so much debris to his baby
but beyond that that's in the future we're talking about right now because
that's what's happening
your awareness of the things about him that have been sort of uncomfortable for
you is now amplified by the fact that now there's gonna be a baby there so
you're exaggerating the discomfort what we want you to do is identify the things
that feel good and exaggerated both thing because if not only that it's
unfair to any other to need them to be some way that they're not
disempowering to you and that's what your discomfort is about
if Mike fain I need you to be a way different than you are and different
than I believe you're ever gonna be in order for me to feel good and that is
the ultimate feeling of powerlessness and the reason it feels awful is because
your inner being knows how ridiculous it is that your happiness in your stability
in your well-being is not dependent upon what anybody else is doing it in a
moment in time I know better I I know that I'm not trying I'm not trying to
get us to be exactly the same be exactly how you want to be and I want to do the
same but the difference for me is that like they're completely different
question to you is are you making any conscious effort at making yourself feel
good about that point where are you using it always has a sore point for you
and this is what we mean by this when you said your word may not have been
solitude but it was something like that and we said good because we are seeing
his desire to feel good it's a good thing you're seeing it as a rejection of
you we're seeing here is wanting to be someplace where he can be in the
alignment in this power is a good thing you're seeing it as him not being
willing to stand in the middle of a modeler a mess with you there are ways
that you could look at what he's doing as strength not as trying to beat you up
we are certain that he is not staying away from you in order to punish oooh
he's just shoring up his own connected resources there are people who are
happiest when they are involved in a conversation Esther and her daughter
they would be happy to be in an all day long conversation about every single
thing that each of them are living in any point in time
their pleasure and enjoyment of each other is that for free but they both
have a lot of other things that they are doing in the day other than that and so
they Abraham Hicks New 2016
they thrive in that situation from people not so much during with barry
solitude he was very quiet about film anything he was off doing his thing
after was off doing her thing but never did see a film that because he was in
there doing what he wanted to do that he was doing the things that made him happy
that it was a rejection of her happiness or that something has gone wrong in
their relationship you see you come together and you look for the positive
aspects of one another and that's how you hook up with your own inner being
who always and only look for the positive aspect in each of you if they
so this notion that for you to be happy he's gotta be different and what can you
do about it he's not going to be different in fact that the greatest gift
that he could ever give to you I'm not going to stand on my head so that you
can be an alignment because if I fall into that and I put you in that
conditional trap where your happiness is the pentagon but I do then when I do the
law of attraction things that I must do the many things I must do then you are certain for a lot
of unhappiness because we're not going to be side by side every step of the way
all day every day and if you could look at it that way I just appreciate all of
the things that are so harmonious between you and not need him to
conditionally be a certain way in order for you to feel good
your Dr Hill frog your baby will thrive the very hardest thing for a little one
to experience even mother who's unhappy at his father that's very hard for kids
or other way around
hard on them because he wants with everything he is to love both
and though it gets a little tricky when you ask anyone 25 with you
against anyone else of course that's not your plan but unless your mind up that
usually the way it turns out because you can't hide your disapproval your
disappointment you wanna get over it before the baby gets here
helpful not really I guess it's so frustrating for me because I just want
to say that it's a female look let's say for instance now her grandmother just
passed away and she's currently at the funeral but requested that I not come
because she handles grief on her own private and to me it's like i just want
to be there I would want someone to be there for me and my grandmother passed
away and to not be there for her or be I don't know just fuels an emotional time
and some things that you want to come into resolution with the most important
thing that we want to say to you is if you've decided that you're going to
analyze what Abraham Hicks just those up around you start to say everyone but it's not just
those that close around you wanted to compare them to what you would want and New 2016
then try to reconcile why they want something different than you want and
then the torture yourself about it you're not gonna be happy because
everybody's approaching things in their own way and so what you really want is
just to be happy you don't want to change something in order to be happy
you just want to be happy there isn't anything that you want whether it's a
relationship or money or an experienced there isn't anything you want for any
other reason that you want to be happy and so it takes from moving through life
maybe you haven't lived enough life that you're willing to resign that maybe it
hasn't been miserable enough long enough for you law of attraction
trying to please people that you can't please and get them to do what you think
they need to do maybe you need more misery before you will give that up
Abraham Hicks New 2016 weaving give it up today
yeah