- Now there's some dating advice out there
for you sexy single ladies
that basically says play so hard to get
that he doesn't even know that you're interested.
Well hey there.
- Whatever.
- Okay.
- No, come back.
- So obviously we don't want that.
So the question is how do You flirt as a woman?
The key to flirting is to give him
that green light that you're interested,
but not so green of a light
that it blinds his face,
telling him that you're read to go to Vegas
and get married tomorrow.
So in this video I'm gonna be giving you
three playful flirting tips
that you can use tonight.
Keep watching.
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So I'm gonna break this down into three steps
you can take in order to be able to flirt
and attract and be able to ultimately
go out with the man you really want.
Step number one is to attract the man.
And this is if you're going out at night,
going to a party.
What I want you to do is what I call the walk and giggle.
Now the walk and giggle strategy,
I know it sounds absolutely ridiculous
but I have been teaching this
for the past 10 years
because back when I used to work with men
on how to go out and flirt
and approach you sexy single ladies,
I used to teach them to basically walk around the room,
and I would do this myself,
with the biggest smile,
as if you have this secret in your head
that no one else knows
that is so funny and it's just making you laugh.
And we literally walked around giggling to ourselves
because in a way when you giggle
it makes you smile even more.
And it's just like low giggle
in the back of your throat.
I know it sounds really weird,
but it is so effective
to magnetically attract people into your life.
Because let me tell you,
when a guy walks into a venue
and is scanning the room
for a woman he wants to talk to,
what he's basically doing is looking
for the type of women that are not
going to brutally reject him.
And the best way for you to signal a guy
that you are not gonna be the biggest mistake
of his night,
is to just have that incredible smile.
And even giggling along the way
while you're having fun.
And look, you don't need to do it in a fake way,
you should be out with people
that actually make you smile, actually make you laugh.
But at the same time,
if you're walking over to the bathroom
or if you're walking to the bar,
go ahead and do that little walk and giggle,
see how it goes.
Step number two is once you're actually
talking to a guy,
this is what I call the connection phase.
And the best way to connect with a guy,
and be able to flirt with him
is what I call the tease and touch technique.
Now when I say tease a guy,
I don't actually mean what you probably think I mean
about sexually teasing a guy.
Get your head out of the gutter.
Instead, I actually mean poke fun
of him a little bit.
Whenever you tease a guy,
kind of poke fun at him a little bit,
just the slightest bit.
And in a way to raises your value in his eyes
because you're not the type
of woman who is going to get on your knees
and beg for you to ask him out.
No, you're gonna be the type
of woman who's willing to have a little fun
and poke fun and see if he's the type
of guy that can hang.
Does he tell you that he's from California?
Tell him sorry it's never gonna work out
because you're into surfer types.
And after you tease him
and poke fun at him a little bit,
make sure you go ahead
and lightly touch his arm.
That's the tease and touch technique,
because what it does is you're kind
of making fun of him, pushing him away,
while at the same time giving him that signal
that you're interested.
It's really fun and playful,
and it creates this kind
of tension in the conversation.
And he's thinking to himself
is she interested or is she not?
And it kind of builds a little bit of suspense
and a lot of guys are gonna keep pursuing you even more
because of the mystery
that is happening in the conversation.
And then finally, step number three
is where you're looking for commonalities.
Once you build enough commonalities
he's going to want to ask you out,
and you can do this in a fun, flirtatious way.
So if you wanna find out what he likes to do for fun,
kind of a fun, playful question you could ask him
is something like so what do you like to do
when you're not out at night
chatting up girls like me?
It's a fun, playful way to ask him
what he likes to do for fun,
without asking it in that lame way.
Then, depending on his answer,
you can be without to create some type
of commonality and be able to even compliment him
if it makes sense.
For example, if it were me
and I'm single, what I would say
is something like this.
Well if I'm not out at night
talking to a beautiful woman like yourself,
cheesy line, but I think it'll work,
then usually you'll find me kite surfing around Boston,
whether it's the Boston Harbor
or in this town called Nahant.
It's really my greatest passion.
Now once a guy says something like that,
talks about something he's interested in,
what you can do is find some type of commonality.
Now, chances are you don't kite surf,
there are very few people in the world that do.
But let's say you really like water sports,
you could talk about how you one time went wait boarding,
or even at the least bit love to just hang out at the beach.
Find some type of commonality
if it at all makes sense.
And then if you wanna go a step further
and really flirt, you can even compliment him.
Now back to the kite surfing example,
you could say something like
wow, I cannot believe you do that.
That looks really fun
and you must be really balanced
to be able to stay on that thing.
So there you have it,
there are the playful ways to be able to flirt with a guy.
Go ahead and try this tonight.
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