Hey, what's going on? Tripp Kramer from www.trippadvice.com. I find that a lot of guys let
people and maybe even women step all over them, treat them poorly. And I thought that this video
would help because it's something that I've been through personally. I've been through situations
where people don't treat me the way I want to be treated. And there is a way to fix this. There is
something that you can do, which I'll be talking about in just a moment that's going to help with
this and help you understand why it's important to do the right move when someone is treating
you poorly. I find that a lot of this has to do with confidence. People who don't have confidence
let people step all over them. If you feel that confidence is an area where you need to fix or
succeed in, I think everyone needs it no matter what, but if you definitely feel like you're not
a confident person, I want you to check out a free video that I have. It's down below, it's called
Instantly Confident. It's a short video that's going to give you my best tips and techniques
for becoming more confident in your life. Again it's called Instantly Confident. It's 100%, free,
it's down below, check it out, click that link and go get it. Let's talk about how to make sure that
you're not being treated badly anymore so that you can stick up for yourself And so you can feel
more powerful. What happens when you stick up for yourself and then you end up feeling more powerful
is you do something crazy. You build a little something called self-esteem. And what this does
is it builds confidence, we just talked about that. It also gets you to attract more people
in your life. You will be a more attractive person when you are confident and have self-esteem. But
it all starts about what to do when people treat you badly. What do you do? You ghost.
This is the time in your life or at least I feel that ghosting is the best thing you could do
to anyone who treats you poorly. If you don't do this and you don't ghost them,
you're basically letting people walk all over you whenever they want. Some people don't go
as drastic as this. But I say you're probably wasting your time if you don't just completely
ghost anyone who treats you poorly in a way that doesn't make you feel good. Or surrounding
yourself by people that don't make you feel good. Let's imagine you have friends that are
bringing you down, that are being negative to you, that put you down. Let's say you have any women
that are rejecting you, that are not interested in you. Let's say you're getting taken advantage of
by somebody and you figured something out. Let's say that you're being gaslighted by someone, let's
say you're being manipulated by someone or anyone you're around is putting you down in any way.
You ghost them. You literally never speak to them again. I know this seems like an intense move.
You might be thinking Tripp whoa, hold on, man. I can't just ghost someone. I can't just do that.
What happens if I want to talk to them and work it out and all that stuff? Are there exceptions
to this? Yes there are. If someone does one thing makes a mistake, you don't have to ghost them
depending on how big the mistake is. If a woman cheats on you, yeah, I'd probably just ghost her.
I'd probably just be done with her. If a woman is going to do that you're never going to trust her
again. You might as well just completely be done with her. No reason to talk to them again. But if
it's like a one time thing that's with a friend you've had for a long time and it's always been
a good friendship, yeah mistakes happen. I'm not talking about those little baby mistakes, those
little once in a while errors. I'm talking about where someone is treating you badly on a constant
basis. But I want to be careful here. I don't want you to push it too far where you're like,
how much is too much? You know if how much is too much. You should know. It's not going to
take 10 times for someone to treat you poorly or for a woman to reject you more than once.
Use some common sense here. But once you get to, I should say before you get to a breaking point, you
just downright ghost them. What we do is we tend to let people do this to us over and over again.
We let people do it constantly. We give people second chances and then it happens again. Whatever
it is, the whole list that I just gave you. We are very nice. We want to make friends, and listen,
I don't consider this burning a bridge. First of all, if someone is treating you that badly,
burning a bridge to me would be like you're blowing things up.
This is different. You're just ghosting them, you're not talking to them anymore, you're
not responding to their text messages anymore. You're not speaking to them anymore. I want you
to right now, if there's anyone in your life who's treating you poorly, you take your phone scroll
into the settings and then block them. Find their number and then press "block this caller".
And the reason why I want you to go as far as that is because you might be tempted to talk
to them again. Delete their number, block them and keep them out of your life. Is it going to be hard
at first? It sure will. Will you feel refreshed, empowered, powerful? Finally, when it's completely
done with? Yes, because you took control. And make sure that once you block them, you don't
go back. This is not like you're doing it for a set amount of time. This is forever. You don't
want to talk to this person anymore. Live in an abundant mindset where there's plenty of women who
will be interested in you, plenty of people who will treat you right and there's no time for these
people in your life that are bringing you down. It kills your self-esteem. Two things that build
your self-esteem up. One, keeping the promises that you make to yourself. If you set a goal,
keep it. If you're trying to create a habit, keep it. You'll find yourself getting much happier
and much more in touch with who you are and you'll like yourself more. Two, and this is where
this video comes in, is making sure that you're surrounding yourself by people who treat you well
and focusing on curating a peer group that lifts you up and doesn't knock you down. People who are
interested in the same things as you, people who are interested in the same goals as you.
That's going to make you feel so much better. And surrounding yourself by people is going to
help you reach those goals, which then is going to make you feel better. We want to surround
ourselves by positive people who are lifting us up, not knocking us down. If you've made it so
far in this video, and I'm sure you have because this has been very helpful I hope, is I want you
to write down in the comments "I won't get knocked down!" with a big exclamation point. In fact, use
10 exclamation points. I want to see 100 of these. Say "I won't get knocked down!" Again, the
way you're going to do this is completely ghost people. If you feel that you need more help with
the confidence. check out Instantly Confident. It's an amazing video. It's going to teach you
how to build confidence beyond just ghosting people and getting rid of people in your life
who are toxic. That's what I want you to do. Check out Instantly Confident and start building your
confidence today. And write down in the comments down below "I won't get knocked down!" Hope this
helps. Hope this motivated you and pumped you up. I definitely want you to try it. I want
you to do it, embody it. It's gonna be so much better when you're in your most powerful self.