onko See, back in the office, and in this video, I'm going to be explaining exactly
why all masculine men need purpose. And when I woke up this morning, this is something
that hit me, right in the face. I was like, I have to make a video on this right now.
Here's what I found. The majority of men live in scarcity. And this is after coaching 4500
men through my systems, I see just a constant neediness aspect within them and consistent
fear and living in scarcity. And this is scarcity in all aspects. This is scarcity. with women,
this is scarcity with money. This is scarcity with finding their purpose. This is scarcity
of never having enough or fear of the future. Okay, consistent fear, consistent, lack consistent
scarcity. And what this does is this breeds turmoil, and the man feels unsafe. And this
is what I found nine times out of 10, that happens when a man feels unsafe and unsecure
within himself. This copy paste into every single area in his life. Here's what I mean,
if he has debt, or if he is not good with money, he is not good with finances, he's
in scarcity. This now shows up in his love life. This shows up when speaking with women.
This shows up when looking people dead in the eyes when he's at work. This shows up
on try to negotiate a raise and he looks weak. He looks like he's in a fearful state, he
looks like he does not know what he's doing. The biggest reason why men need purpose is
because you have to think about when was the last time you've actually felt safe, strong,
stable and or secure within yourself. And what I found is oftentimes it comes when men
have been children, there's a certain childlike innocence that is stripped as you get older.
And with this childlike innocence, what happened is that you were dependent, right? You were
dependent on parents, you're dependent on your mom and your dad, or things of that nature.
And what happened is when your head hit the pillow at night, you felt as if when you woke
up, everything would be fine. And as you get older, as you level into that next aspect
of the world, what tends to happen is that gets stripped away from you. Right, you're
thrown out into the future by yourself, you're thrown out alone. And because of that, you
can choose to build or you can choose to crumble. And it's two completely different lifestyles,
the people that shoot the men, excuse me that choose to build are going to sacrifice and
suffer more in the short term. But what will happen is they will reap the rewards of the
fruits of their labor in the long term. The men who choose to crumble, accept defeat before
they even start building. And as they accept defeat, they choose to go towards streams
of booze, of dirty websites, of drugs of hanging out with the wrong friends of hanging out
with the wrong crowd of quick hookups and s3 X and of chasing the wrong types of women.
And while that may take away any of the fears of what the future brings, in the short term,
this does not help you cope with the long term successes that you need to actually have
strength have security. Men need to fundamentally make themselves men. And the biggest reason
why you need purpose, the biggest reason why you need some bit of success. The biggest
reason why you need to make yourself a man of value to walk through this life as if you
have something to offer is because if you don't, you will naturally turn to all of those
things I just described that will crush you. And when those things crush you, not only
do you become weak, not only do you become the type of man that never grew up, not only
do you become the type of man that's unattractive to women, but there's a certain sense of confidence
that's stripped from you. Which is why I've said in hundreds and hundreds of videos, the
work comes first. And as you've developed that work, what you have to develop is going
to be the system skills and know how to work efficiently. Because if you're not working
efficiently, if you're just pounding pavement daily, you will not get to the levels that
you need to actually have a sense of accomplishment or have some sort of sense of strength. Notice
this is a double edged sword because men what happens is they want to attack one topic.
But what happens is they crash and burn, right? It's all in or it's all out and when they
burn, they oftentimes take weeks, months, hours, right off consistently, fellas, here's
what I would like you to remember. The purpose is going to fuel you to have the grit to stick
things out in this life when shit hits the fan. Because regardless, if you're ready for
it or not bad things will happen. Good. There's going to be a time when maybe a family member
or a loved one is dependent on you. There's going to be a time where even if you're on
your masculine frame and grind, there still might be that woman that breaks your heart.
You might have a loved one who's sick, who's ill who's injured, you might get into a fatal
car crash like you don't know what's going to happen. Which is why you got to ask yourself
do you have the strength? Do you have the grit? Do you have the internal fortitude to
actually stick that out? Or are you going to crumble? masculine men need purpose and
the sooner you can actually realize that you come to terms with that you dive deep you
soul search, you figure out what am I actually born on this earth to do to accomplish? That,
my friend, is when you finally will be able to take on the weight of sacrifice and suffering
that you were meant to do all along? Hey, what's up everybody? Casey Zander here. So
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