I don't think people understand how common transactional sex is
not everybody does it of course there are other ways in
but it's kind of the norm in that world
So welcome to Odessa Mama on an absolutely fantastic Indian summer's evening I had originally
shot this video and then I found out that there was a problem with the audio because my lavalier mic wasn't
working so I'm on this handheld to re-shoot it unfortunately and actually was a week ago when
I shot it and I thought that's the end of summer here but it's at the it's now the end of October
and we have this incredible incredible sunshine and I'm down by the port in Odessa in Ukraine
and that's connected to the theme of today's video because I want you to be able to recognize
former yacht girls and why am I doing this video I'm doing this video because when I do
consulting with guys who are interested in coming here to Eastern Europe and dating beautiful women
quite often they've already been speaking to some women from the region online and they have a few
questions about her past can they really trust her and then normally
I'll take a look at their social media or whatever you know the messages or
any other information that they have and form an assessment what I think about whether
they've been honest maybe they've been sincere about who they are what they've been doing and
yacht girls are just a small example of some of the dodgy things that go on now you just heard
Aija Räty she goes by the pseudonym Anna Bey that's her marketing and she is a great example
of the kind of woman that you want to avoid in general I've done some other videos reacting to
her videos you can check them out above in the cards down below in the description if you haven't
seen those now the reason why she's a great example is because of well the duplicity first of
all she doesn't go by her own name on the internet and that's because well if you started to google
and check out her past you'll find a lot of things that just raise a lot of red
flags the purpose of this video is not to slut shame women who do any of these things really
i don't care and you know it's a free world to go and do what you want in general the real as i said
the reason to do it is that you understand exactly so that you are not fooled by women like Aija
Räty first of all google google the girl and find out her real name first of all because actually
on the previous videos a lot of her followers who are very passionate to tell me you know I shouldn't
criticize Anna she's an amazing Swedish woman and blah blah blah blah blah they just google her name
they know where she was actually from originally and why she tries to cover up that past she
actually had other pseudonyms like Aija Darling which again dodgy names - Can you become too old to
jet set with the rich? What is the expiration age for a woman? What happens to the girls after their
expiration age? Most jetset babes however they will be on a mission because majority of the girls
they do want to get the ring and majority of the girls also want to have a family perhaps one day
so everybody wants to find the happy family life with the perfect rich man and that is of course a
big challenge - In her video she outlines that she worked as a yacht girl so she was being flown in basically
to in her case she talks about Ibiza for a lot of girls from the former Soviet
Union Ukraine Russia Belarus it doesn't tend actually to be really Ibiza necessarily
they tend to go to the Middle East a lot and basically she said she was living this high life
but she doesn't really explain the background to it to her following exactly what's going on
it might seem very glamorous when they do those instagram photos another thing I'm often asked
to investigate on behalf of consulting clients is she has all these photos she claims to
be a model it's always the classic but there's no real modeling photos so I'm going to read you out
actually an article from Cosmopolitan magazine a little bit later on in this video which has
really illustrated what actually being a yacht girl often entails and just to be clear I'm not
talking about some girl who goes to the Middle East with a boyfriend but doesn't post him
because he's a secret sponsor kind of guy that's that's obviously a bit different to what I mean
here more typically what you see and I've seen before and I've looked for clients is
lots of photos from expensive locations on a yacht the guy who owns it is not there you can hear
different voices in the background because she got the guy to film it and it's never the same
guy and it looks like a party that she's flown in for and I understand just how these things
work quite often but I'll read the cosmopolitan magazine first of all and before some moron in
the comments writes about that yes Conor, I've seen you on yachts you have yacht girls
it's nothing to do with the yacht per se the yachts are cool actually if I had known the weather's
gonna be so good today and I might do it tomorrow I see the forecast is also great I might even go
out and yacht here in the Black Sea myself and invite a few friends some girlfriends and we're
going to have a party and have a lot of fun it's not that they're on a yacht per se it's the fact
that they're flown in paid to be there and then what goes on in exchange for that payment is
what should have you concerned if you end up in a long-term relationship with such a such a girl and
as Aija Räty was saying the beginning they really want to nail down the guy right so they're gonna
especially when they're about to hit the wall so their career as the yacht girl ends maybe
late 20s and they basically have to nail down a guy for resources or just to have a family with
and they're not going to tell you what they're what they were up to in the past so this is the
reason to do it and also I'm not hating on the guys obviously who through these kind of parties
... I mean as long as the girls are voluntary there you know it's a free world
although a lot of it I'm sure it's not legal under the local laws that they're operating so what
you're looking for what we're referring to more is girls being flown in for payment to hang out in
yachts with a bunch of guys and do a lot of things with them and we're going to go into that in
this video and also I'm not saying that if you meet a girl who's been doing this they should
immediately discard her quite often these girls are a lot of fun to be around and because they
have high energy they're basically entertainers of sorts you could say so definitely having fun with
them can be cool for a short period but you know if you're going to have a long-term relationship
you want to understand who you're getting into that relationship with especially if you're going to
have kids and a family with them later so that's the the purpose of this video so let me go and
just take a look at the cosmopolitan Cosmopolitan article Cosmo as it's shortened to is
is a classic I guess women's magazine so let me close ... they call her Anna Bey in the article
they ... I mean they just went with her pseudonym and her real name is
Aija Räty allegedly having looked online and
found where it's revealed and seen the photos of her from 10 years ago yeah and why she had to
probably didn't want people to be able to google and find those when she was using her real name or another
pseudonym Aija Darling she was actually born in Estonia just being obviously the nexus with
women in Eastern Europe and she actually said in one of her videos that her father was Finnish
she has a Finnish last name it's probably an Ingrian Finn so they were deported by Stalin
to Estonia make a lot of sense but basically she was born in the Soviet Union and appears to have grown up
with her Russian-speaking mother in Sweden I actually found she actually has a youtube channel
looks like her mother for as a lawyer because she went to study law afterwards and yeah she
has a lot of stuff in Russian so obviously she was familiar with the whole Russian culture
when she was growing up so let me just read the first quote from the Cosmopolitan magazine
the easiest way to achieve an elite lifestyle is through a man shrugs Anna so Aija Räty
I don't think people understand how common transactional sex is not everybody does it of course there are other
ways in but it's kind of the norm in that world right so just imagine she's talking about being ... I
mean she classified she actually used the the slogan and had a website called jetset babe so
she was trying to present being a jetset babe like high level babe being flown I guess hang out in high
level circles I actually looked it up she doesn't own the trademark that's actually owned by a man
but that's a that's not really of interest to us in this video but a bit strange that to start with
and apparently she says that casually ... let me go in down further so there you understand that
she definitely views sex as transactional so that she is getting something in return financially
obviously in in this case for being flown in quite often it's going to be to ... I mean she says
Ibiza very typical it's to be flown in somewhere like Monaco or to obviously the Middle East like Dubai
another classic location this kind of stuff so whatever that can be for that transaction in
terms of making money let me read you actually something that's quite typical that happens on
these yachts we'll say if the girls are flown in it's quite typical it's
also from the Cosmopolitan article and it's not actually Aija Räty that they they quote on this
they quote another girl but they actually juxtaposed it with her which I found quite
interesting what they were trying to imply Cosmo magazine ... making sure that's still on me that camera
so one woman who has lived and breathed the competitive paid to party scene
herself is Valentina a 25 year old model and a friend of Mariana's Mariana is also apparently
quoted in this article two years ago on a night out in Cannes a man approached her and explained
his boss was interested in spending time with her ... he wanted us to party with him offered my friends
and I 4,800 euros to spend the night and morning on his yacht when she arrived the party featuring
more women than men was in full swing no problem with more women and men on a boat party bring it on we
stayed on deck until sunrise sometimes people from other yachts would join and vice versa drugs and
alcohol flowed and all the girls on board had sex some with more than one man I had sex with two guys
a director's assistant and a publicist the former gave me his number and eventually he did offer
me a few gigs in Budapest most of the girls were sleeping with men at least 10 years their senior
some were so scarily drunk they passed out or did things they wouldn't normally ... wouldn't consent
to in their normal lives like threesomes and or anal they'd get extra gifts for doing this stuff
from cash to job offers so there you see it's just pure prostitution of course it's not presented like
that on their instagram that's what they're doing they'll leave those parts out they're not filming
that well maybe they even are because a lot of it is actually connected sometimes to pornography
as well soft porn a lot you see that seen that recorded and actually on the websites of
guys who organized this in general so they can also be lured into that I'll that's obviously not
very discreet because you can find that afterwards who'd be crazy enough to do it okay some girls
free world of course to do it but there you see basically that they're paid to be on the yacht and
obviously to have sex and there's a lot of drugs uh with whatever guy is happening there because
getting paid 4,800 euros the pair of them to be there you know when I look at the instagram it doesn't
mean that all the girls are like this of course but you can see a lot of dodgy things going on
and I can just recognize normally the telltale signs that something's not right there are
enough red flags and I do that for my consulting clients so the next line actually in the Cosmo
article obviously I'm going to link this below as well I was offered money to go in the same
yacht party as Valentina but I declined the guys passed around the girls like merch
she says but you'd look at the pictures that were posted and wish you were there that was the point
I wanted to make basically that they have this public facade to also not just fool you but of
course also to fool their friends back home that they're not up to no good in places like Dubai or
you know Monaco or yeah it can be in lots of different places Maldives as well is another
popular one at the moment so just remember that Eastern European women like Aija Darling or Aija Räty
Anna Bey as she goes by on the internet they're basically looking for a rich simp after they're
finished their yacht girl career right some guy who's just gonna buy into their narrative that
they're a good girl you know I've had girls tell me lots of stories like they work at google
You know it's funny I guess a lot of guys don't question what they're doing especially they
claim to be something quite intellectual in the country that they're in and they're obviously not
that smart or they just don't work in that industry you can tell from their their behavior
and what the way they speak and what not but they're going to try to sell you a bridge the
Brooklyn Bridge if you're not careful and that of course is something I can help you with you
can reach out to me if you want that kind of consulting advice my email is conorclyne@tsarexperience.com
and you can reach out to me on instagram my handle is @tsarexperience and you
should go anyways and follow me on instagram if you want to see what it's like here on a
daily basis in Eastern Europe in Ukraine at the moment because obviously it's 2020 we have this
some quarantine restrictions the borders are open but basically I'm actually going to be in Ukraine
for the next little while going to live it large here in Ukraine you can follow that every day so
my consulting clients are generally trying to avoid when they reach out to me is that they
turn a 'hoe into a housewife' now I'm not shaming women who are sex workers or whatnot of course
though you probably want to know that before you decide to end up in a long-term relationship with
someone because basically when they finish this career yeah they need to find a rich simp at
least that's what Aija Räty recommends to her followers that seems to be a really super rich
guy she points out that they can nail down and basically make pay for their child and what not
remember here I have another vodcast about the divorce rate in Eastern Europe don't be naive
it is even higher than in the West I'll link it up above and below divorce rate 60 percent
and most of those divorces are initiated by women so just make sure that you know what you're doing
and definitely if you have some doubts in your head normally guys approach who reach out to
me they do have those and I can of course go through it and help you out also got a lot of
great stuff and just another note about simps so same behavioral so I have another vodcast about that
if you haven't seen it I'll link it up above and below as well just think about why wouldn't someone like
Aija Räty or Anna Bey be digging for gold all right the only reason a gold digger can dig gold is if
they find a simp a guy who's willing to give away his power pedestalize a woman put her up there and
just try to do everything for her without setting any boundaries that is the perfect kind of guy
that she is looking for because also those kind of guys will believe any sort of story that she tells
them about what she was doing in the past she was part of high society the jet set babe because
what why would someone be inviting her along and paying her and flying her in for just to sit
there and have an intellectual conversation maybe maybe but you know be careful believing those
kind of stories she also talks about in the Cosmo article link below about other stuff that went
on that actually scared her because basically she was she claims she got she was her drink was spiked
and she woke up in a strange place and what not so basically put herself in a lot of dodgy situations
chasing that that that dollar right whatever it takes so definitely you want to avoid those
kind of women if you don't want to end up with a former yacht girl don't buy into their story don't
be fooled by them let me end this vodka vodcast today by just pointing out if you want to come
here and you know I suppose have the experience of the girls flown in as yacht girls in wherever it
happens to be come here we can head out on a yacht ourselves me and you probably some good buddies of
mine and of course some local hotties who are now flown in who are not there who are not paid
obviously to service you in that kind of way and we can go out and just have an absolute blast
realistically as the sun goes down here it's actually like a metaphor for the end of the summer
that kind of yacht scene we can do in 2021 also with the travel restrictions hopefully it'll be
over and I will be focusing definitely when we get the weather again on having just absolutely top
personal experiences for my in-person clients I'm going to just link down below as always
there's always my application form down there if you think you're the kind of person who can
live suitable to live the tsar experience so basically you're probably not into falling for
Aija Räty's long stories about what she was doing in the past you want to come here and
actually live it up and avoid the scammers and all that kind of stuff not have to worry about
speaking Russian or anything because I've got your back covered and we're going to go out and
absolutely have a phenomenal unforgettable weekend together and if it's here in Odessa you can also
include a yacht party ourselves with girls who I won't describe as yacht girls they're gonna be
local hotties from here want to just come and meet interesting guys like you not because
they're paid to show up anyways I'm rambling on and that sunlight is about to disappear I will do
tomorrow it's actually going to be very good weather again so I'm going to do another
video another vodcast before we close out the summer here in Odessa and I'm going to actually
travel a little bit around Ukraine see you very soon in the next video
До побачення! До свидания! До встречи!
From Odessa, Ukraine!