Do you ever wonder how much emotional baggage someone has that you're dating?
Well it can be really hard to figure out and it takes time to fully appear but one good
indicator can be their zodiac sign.
We all have emotional baggage because it is a necessary component of living.
Every experience either shapes or moulds us into the person we have become, and the truth
is that it moulds our identity.
We'll go through each zodiac sign in this video to discover how many issues, phobias,
and emotional baggage your zodiac sign is saddled with.
Let's dive in to see which zodiac carries what baggage..and stay tuned to the end where
we share tips on how you can Let Go of Emotional Baggage.
ARIES Your baggage is brimming with your disappointments
and poor decisions.
You live to win, so losing hurts you deeply and If you aren't allowed another attempt
or second shot at the prize, you'll be stuck with a loss for a long time.
You strive to be the greatest at everything, but when you aren't, it eats away at your
confidence.
Be wary if playing an Aries at golf, if they come second or have a bad round they may just
be the most miserable person at the bar after.
Taurus A Taurus has a lot of bad feelings bottled
up inside their emotional baggage.
They'll dig in if they believe they've been wronged.
But more importantly you should never take a Taurus lightly, since they have the ability
to recall events from long ago.
And be warned, You'll be unable to make up for it if you break up with a Taurus because
they will never forget how they have been treated due to being fiercely loyal to themselves.
They enjoy spending money on new experiences and making new memories, but be careful not
to spoil their plans since they will recall when you messed up their time.
GEMINI Geminis are plagued with a lot of emotional
baggage, much of which consists of missed chances, owing to their carefree and risk-taking
personalities.
Geminis would miss out on chances that may have been fortunate breaks in life, and as
a result they bear this regret.
As such they wouldn't have missed out on the opportunities that were extended to them if
only a gemini hadn't blown it off or showed up on time.
Geminis might normally kick themselves but since they can't, those lost chances stick
with them.
Cancer Every past relationship, each loved one, and
everyone who trampled on your loving heart forms the majority of emotional baggage for
a cancer zodiac.
They have felt the pain of being betrayed and of trust broken.
They remember how it felt to be taken advantage of and played, and it influences every decision
they make to this day.
The sad reality is that there may not be enough time to heal all of Cancer's scars.
LEO For Leo everything they left in search of
and didn't obtain is stored within Leo's emotional baggage.
For example, if they are a soccer player, they will remember the trial match where they
did not get selected.
This scarring will either flatten them or fuel them to do better.
Leos also don't understand cheating logically.
They feel like they have been deceived even if it doesn't make sense.
They think that these things don't always fit into a personal plan and whilst they always
do what they know they need to do, When things don't go their way, it really annoys them.
VIRGO Every time a Virgo travels, they are dragging
behind them baggage from when they were underappreciated and underestimated.Virgos are bolstered by
the knowledge that others doubt their skills and talents.
This is a tremendous weapon with which to overcome the odds.
They just want to show the naysayers that they're wrong and that they can accomplish
things.A virgo can put their thoughts to work and never give up, even when things appear
impossible, as long as they believe they are not undervalued or underestimated.
LIBRA Libra's emotional baggage is, well, certainly
emotional.
It includes the times when YOU got angry with someone else about something that wasn't your
fault or when you were blamed and penalised for things you didn't do.
Libras believe in fair play, so they can't fathom why they've been treated unjustly.
At first, they will worry about the wrong things that happened.
If this is not fixed, it could lead to more problems.
SCORPIO Scorpios carry grudges around with them, like
a backpack.
They never forget a slight or a wrong, and retribution is one of those things that would
be very well stored in their metaphorical rucksack.
The Scorpios are individuals who don't forget or forgive quickly.
They value retribution and payback, even if it takes time to occur.
SAGITTARIUS A sagittarius is weighed down with emotional
baggage ranging from when someone attempted to restrain or tie them down.
They don't like feeling confined to a certain place or unable to do what they want.
They despise the sensation of having to bow down to someone else's demands and needs,
instead seeking for a life without boundaries and limitations.
CAPRICORN Capricorns like to think of themselves as
dependable, and it's unusual for them to let someone down.
When problems arise, they don't do so well.
When life hands Capricorn lemons they would much rather go deep in thought and question
"why a lemon?
"... Life happens and It's not healthy to constantly remind oneself of what you consider
are your personal failures.
AQUARIUS When an Aquarius has been wrong and made a
bad decision they will tally all these experiences.This can result in emotional baggage that is full
of all the times when you made a mistake and selected something that was not right.
When your attempts at experimentation fail, you go back to the drawing board and tries
to think of another way to approach it, but when your relationships come apart, you find
yourself unable to let go and move on even though you know logically it would never work.
PISCES A pisces is surrounded by other people's emotional
baggage as well as their own.
Because they are such a compassionate zodiac, they wish to assist everyone and internalise
their problems.When they can't assist someone or try to assist someone and it doesn't work
out, they feel that failure deeply and believe it is an essential part of their identity.
So how should you Let Go of Emotional Baggage?
If you've come to the conclusion that your emotional baggage is keeping you from achieving
your full potential, here are some suggestions for how to proceed.
* Consider what's really causing your discomfort.
We sometimes aren't aware of the actual issues; we need to be curious.
We can start to choose the next action once we've determined what is causing the problem.
* Learning how to deal with the pain, grief, anger, and sadness.
This is an important step toward coping and developing our ability to manage situations.
Accept that it's okay to feel the way you're feeling.
We try too hard to bury or forget it all the time.
When you get stressed, your adrenaline level rises, and the body's natural behavioural
patterns become disrupted.
This causes tension in the muscles and joints, which can be very uncomfortable.
Learn to identify emotions as they arise so that you may use them to your advantage rather
than letting them build up over time.
* Is there something you can do to fix the problem?
When it comes to letting go, we frequently talk about it, but sometimes we need to determine
whether anything can be done to alter what has occurred.
It's a tough process, and it may take some time to figure everything out.
You might want to seek expert assistance while doing this.
Learn to let it go.
Holding on might feel comforting since it's a habit we're used to.
We believe that keeping those who have caused the suffering in order will make them feel
guilty, when in fact it is us who is being enslaved.
We don't forget when we let go.
It means it has no power over us or our actions anymore.
It's about our beliefs, desires, and perceptions.
Our thinking styles are important in this process, therefore learning to observe our
thoughts and challenge those that keep us bound to the past will assist us progress
forward.
It's possible that we're hesitant to get emotionally involved with someone new after being betrayed
by loved ones.
Is it really worth the risk of getting hurt again?
Is it wise to open our hearts while there's no assurance that the same anguish won't strike
again?
Perhaps it's foolhardy or reckless, but we must strive to connect with people on various
levels, even if we know it will not work.
We must accept our lover's emotional baggage, even if we don't comprehend it or know where
it came from, as long as we love them.
We should also take care of their baggage since they cared for ours.
It's difficult to deny that they are in touch with their emotions, even if to you it makes
no sense that they would be.
Even if you've known them for a long time, you still don't know everything about the
events that shaped them into who they are today.
Who do you think has the most emotional baggage, let us know in the comments below and for
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