-About two days ago,
I was walking up the steps of the Capitol
when Representative Yoho suddenly turned a corner --
and he was accompanied by Representative Roger Williams --
and accosted me on the steps right here
in front of our nation's Capitol.
I was minding my own business, walking up the steps,
and Representative Yoho put his finger in my face.
He called me disgusting, he called me crazy,
he called me out of my mind, and he called me dangerous.
And then he took a few more steps,
and after I had recognized his comments as rude,
he walked away and said, "I'm rude?
You're calling me rude?"
I took a few steps ahead, and I walked inside and cast my vote,
because my constituents send me here each
and every day to fight for them and to make sure
that they are able to keep a roof over their head,
that they're able to feed their families,
and that they're able to carry their lives with dignity.
I walked back out, and there were reporters
in the front of the Capitol,
and in front of reporters, Representative Yoho called me,
and I quote, "A [bleep] [bleep]."
Those were the words that Representative Yoho levied
against a congresswoman --
the congresswoman that not only represents
New York's 14th Congressional District,
but every congresswoman and every woman in this country.
Because all of us have had to deal with this in some form,
some way, some shape, at some point in our lives.
And I want to be clear that Representative Yoho's comments
were not deeply hurtful or piercing to me,
because I have worked a working-class job.
I have waited tables in restaurants.
I have ridden the subway.
I have walked the streets in New York City.
And this kind of language is not new.
I have encountered words uttered by Mr.
Yoho and men uttering the same words
as Mr. Yoho
while I was being harassed in restaurants,
I have tossed men out of bars that have used language
like Mr. Yoho's,
and I have encountered this type of harassment
riding the subway in New York City.
This is not new, and that is the problem.
Mr. Yoho was not alone.
He was walking shoulder to shoulder
with Representative Roger Williams.
And that's when we start to see that this issue
is not about one incident.
It is cultural.
It is a culture of lack of impunity,
of accepting of violence and violent language against women,
and an entire structure of power that supports that.
Because not only have I been spoken to disrespectfully,
particularly by members of the Republican Party
and elected officials of the Republican Party,
not just here, but the President of the United States last year
told me to go home to another country,
is the implication that I don't even belong in America.
The Governor of Florida, Governor DeSantis,
before I even was sworn in, called me a "whatever that is."
Dehumanizing language is not new,
and what we are seeing is that incidents like these
are happening in a pattern.
This is a pattern of an attitude towards women
and dehumanization of others.
So while I was not deeply hurt or offended
by little comments that are made,
when I was reflecting on this, I honestly thought
that I was just gonna pack it up and go home.
It's just another day, right?
But then yesterday, Representative Yoho
decided to come to the floor of the House of Representatives
and make excuses for his behavior,
and that I could not let go.
I could not allow my nieces,
I could not allow the little girls that I go home to,
I could not allow victims of verbal abuse
and worse to see that, to see that excuse,
and to see our Congress accept it as legitimate
and accept it as an apology
and to accept silence as a form of acceptance.
I could not allow that to stand, which is why I'm rising today
to raise this point of personal privilege.
And I do not need Representative Yoho to apologize to me.
Clearly, he does not want to.
Clearly, when given the opportunity, he will not.
And I will not stay up late at night, waiting for an apology
from a man who has no remorse over calling women
and using abusive language towards women.
But what I do have issue with is using women,
our wives and daughters,
as shields and excuses for poor behavior.
Mr. Yoho
mentioned that he has a wife and two daughters.
I am two years younger than Mr. Yoho's youngest daughter.
I am someone's daughter, too.
My father, thankfully, is not alive to see how Mr.
Yoho treated his daughter.
My mother got to see Mr.
Yoho's disrespect on the floor of this House towards me
on television,
and I am here because I have to show my parents
that I am their daughter
and that they did not raise me to accept abuse from men.
Now, what I am here to say is that this harm
that Mr. Yoho levied --
it tried to levy against me,
was not just an incident directed at me.
But when you do that to any woman,
what Mr. Yoho
did was give permission to other men
to do that to his daughters.
In using that language in front of the press,
he gave permission to use that language against his wife,
his daughters, women in his community.
And I am here to stand up to say that is not acceptable.
I do not care what your views are.
It does not matter how much I disagree
or how much it incenses me
or how much I feel that people are dehumanizing others.
I will not do that myself.
I will not allow people to change
and create hatred in our hearts.
And so what I believe is that having a daughter
does not make a man decent.
Having a wife does not make a decent man.
Treating people with dignity and respect makes a decent man.
And when a decent man messes up, as we all are bound to do,
he tries his best and does apologize,
not to save face, not to win a vote.
He apologizes genuinely to repair and acknowledge
the harm done so that we can all move on.
Lastly, what I want to express to Mr.
Yoho is gratitude.
I want to thank him for showing the world
that you can be a powerful man and accost women.
You can have daughters and accost women without remorse.
You can be married and accost women.
You can take photos and project an image
to the world of being a family man
and accost women without remorse and with a sense of impunity.
It happens every day in this country.
It happened here, on the steps of our nation's Capitol.
It happens when individuals
who hold the highest office in this land admit --
admit to hurting women and using this language against all of us.