IS
.
. >>> HAVE THINGS BEEN A LITTLE
BLAH IN YOUR BEDROOM LATELY?
>> IF YOU SAID YES, WE’RE GOING
TO SPICE THINGS UP IN YOUR LOVE
LIFE BY VALENTINE’S DAY.
>> WE HAVE EMILY MORSE!
>> EMILY IS GOING TO ANSWER THE
MOST COMMON QUESTIONS SHE GETS
ON HER SHOW.
IF YOU HAVE KIDS AT HOME RIGHT
NOW, IT’S PROBABLY A GOOD TIME
TO TAKE THEM TO THE OTHER ROOM.
>> SHOULD WE START WITH THE
FIRST QUESTION?
FIRST QUESTION? THE FIRST QUESTION IS, HOW DO WE
MAKE SEX HAPPEN DESPITE CRAZY
SCHEDULES?
SCHEDULES? PEOPLE ALWAYS SAY, I’M TOO BUSY.
>> THAT’S A GOOD QUESTION.
YOU HAVE TO PRIORITIZE INTIMACY
IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
WE ALL GET BUSY, YOU PUT IT ON
THE BACK BURNER, YOU HAVE KIDS.
YOU THINK YOU’LL GET BACK TO IT.
YOU NEVER DO.
YOU JUST HAVE TO SCHEDULE SEX.
I KNOW THAT DOESN’T SOUND SEXY
AT ALL, BUT THEN YOU KNOW IT’S
GOING TO HAPPEN.
>> THEN THERE’S ANTICIPATION.
>> IT SOUNDS NOT SEXY.
YOU’RE LIKE, THAT’S THE LEAST
SEXY THING.
SEXY THING. HOWEVER, IF YOU’RE CONSTANTLY
TRYING TO HAVE IT AND YOUR
PARTNER IS REJECTING YOU, IT’S
MUCH BETTER TO KNOW.
WEDNESDAY IS HAPPENING, DON’T
BOTHER ME ON MONDAY.
WE SAID WEDNESDAY.
I’M OUT.
I’M OUT. >> YOU SEEM COMFORTABLE WITH
THIS ENTIRE CONVERSATION.
THIS ACTUALLY EXISTS.
>> WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN ONE
PARTNER WANTS SEX MORE THAN THE
OTHER?
OTHER? >> THIS IS THE MOST COMMON
CHALLENGE THAT COUPLES FACE.
SO YOU HAVE TO COMPROMISE.
HERE’S THE THING, IF SOMEONE
WANTS SEX THREE TIMES A WEEK AND
YOU WANT SEX TWO TIMES A WEEK,
HERE’S THE THING.
IT’S YOUR DUTY.
PEOPLE OFTEN SAY I’VE HAD
ENOUGH, I DON’T WANT TO DO IT.
IF
IF IT’S WHAT BRINGS YOU TOGETHER IN
YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN’T ONE DAY SAY, I’M NOT
TAKING CARE OF THE KIDS, I’M NOT
PAYING MY MORTGAGE.
PRIORITIZE IT.
PRIORITIZE IT. >> I UNDERSTAND
>> INTIMACY IS A HUGE ISSUE FOR
SOME PEOPLE.
SOME PEOPLE. >> YOU NEED TO GO TO THE DOCTOR
IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE DESIRE,
BUT SOMETIMES WE’RE TRULY BORED.
THERE IS NO NOVELTY, NOTHING
INSPIRING.
INSPIRING. >> HOW DO I ASK FOR AND RECEIVE
WHAT I REALLY WANT IN BED?
I JUST WANT A GOOD NIGHT’S
SLEEP.
SLEEP. >> I’D LIKE A SANDWICH, PLEASE.
HAM.
HAM. CAN I HAVE A SANDWICH?
YOU GET CRUMBS EVERYWHERE.
>> YOU ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT,
RIGHT?
RIGHT? SEX IS THE SAME THING.
COMMUNICATION IS A LUBRICATION.
THE MORE WE ASK FOR WHAT WE
WANT --
WANT -- >> NOW CRAIG IS HAPPY.
>> -- THE MORE LIKELY YOU’LL GET
IT.
IT. IT’S TRUE.
IT’S TRUE. >> I’M GOING TO SEE IF THE KIDS
ARE OKAY.
ARE OKAY. >> HE LOVES IT.
>> HE DOES.
>> THIS IS KIND OF THE SAME
THING, BUT HOW DO I GET OUT OF A
SEXUAL RUT.
SEXUAL RUT. >> YOU’RE IN A RUT BECAUSE
YOU’RE DOING THE SAME THINGS
OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
>> I LIKE THEM.
>> IF YOU LIKE THEM YOU STILL
GET BORED.
GET BORED. YOU DON’T HAVE TO MAKE A DUNGEON
OR ANYTHING --
>> MAYBE I WANT TO.
>> IF YOU WANT TO, SURE.
TRY SOMETHING SEXY, A CHANGE OF
SCENERY, OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM.
>> HOTEL SEX.
>> HOTEL SEX IS HOT.
ONE NIGHT.
ONE NIGHT. GO FOR A FEW HOURS.
YOU’RE IN THE SAME RUT BECAUSE
YOU’RE STARING AT THE SAME PILE
OF LAUNDRY IN THE CORNER.