So, you may already know
that dating a woman with a strong personality
isn't necessarily the same as dating
a dominant woman.
However, the way you handle a woman
with a strong personality
and the way you handle a dominant woman
are substantially the same.
But the most important thing in dating
is finding the right woman for you.
If you don't
then your relationships could end up very chaotic
and end badly
and I think we all kind of know what that feels like.
I can help you get it right from the start
with a simple test I have come up with.
So, you can avoid
the wrong women like the plague.
This will put you in control
because if she fails
you know you should be running for the hills.
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I'll tell you how the test works soon
but first, we need to explore
what's the difference between
a dominant woman and a strong woman.
If you're new to my channel
my name is Anna Jorgensen
welcome to just the tip Tuesday.
But first, what's the difference
between a woman with a strong personality
and a dominant personality?
Because yes, there is a slight difference.
Both kinds of women tend to know
where they are in the world,
who they are in the world,
and they have a strong confidence in that.
A woman with a strong personality has solid opinions,
but can concede or compromise
if presented with the right evidence
in the right way
and even give credit to the other person.
Whereas a dominant woman
will have a greater challenge
in conceding her opinions.
And if she does compromise or concede
she will generally find a way of making it her own.
And yes, some women have both
strong and dominant personalities.
Another difference is dominant women
tend to be driven and ambitious.
Whereas a woman with a strong personality
may or may not be driven and or ambitious.
So, here are some tips
for dating a woman with a strong personality.
Women with strong personalities
can be a force of nature.
They are often charismatic,
persuasive, opinionated, and certain,
which makes them a comfort to be around
whether you're an alpha male, a beta male
or any anywhere out on the spectrum.
But they don't always need to lead.
However, if you're going to date a woman
with a strong personality
you need to be secure enough in yourself
that you're not going to be self-conscious
of her personality
or the way people perceive her
when you're together.
You need to be proud of your woman.
So, you better like her
because she's not going to put a lid
on her personality
when you're out together.
You can't be worried
that your woman is going to outshine you.
You have to be secure.
So, this brings me to a personal story.
When I was dating a guy in LA
he was trying to get into television.
I won't go into the long sort of details.
But he had been trying for a long time
and it just wasn't happening.
It was because he had a bad attitude.
Anyway, within a week of me moving there
I got offered a commercial.
So, of course I said yes,
but he was really upset
that I got in so easily
and from then on in
whenever I was around other TV industry professionals
he really wanted me to keep a lid on my personality,
which I did because I thought I was in love with him
but it really stifled who I was
and ultimately
that insecurity didn't work well for me.
There were other things as well
but it was something that was not attractive.
So, the bottom line is
if you don't want your woman
to shine her strong personality
you should not be with her
or you need to work on yourself
so, that you can be proud of her.
You should never be embarrassed
about who your partner is.
After all you would not want her
to be embarrassed by you, would you?
Now, what about a woman with a dominant personality?
Unlike a woman with a strong personality,
a woman with a dominant personality
does need to lead.
This means she feels very uncomfortable
allowing a man to lead in any area of their lives
that she hasn't expressly given permission to
and this makes it really challenging
for super alpha masculine men
to be with dominant women
if it's her natural personality.
There's one time where she might act dominant
but inside she's really not, I'll tell you about that later.
It will always be a struggle
with potential resentment on both sides
unless, your values, beliefs,
and long-term goals are in such alignment
that she feels totally safe with you
then she can hand over the reins,
but she still won't like it.
How to handle strong and dominant women,
the first thing is fully embrace
and accept that part of their personality
as is where it is.
You can't make a woman with a strong personality
less strong without emotionally damaging her
and the relationship.
And you can't make a dominant woman less dominant
unless, she's emotionally damaged
and being with you helps her work
through her baggage.
She may have developed dominance
as a self-protection mechanism
because she was treated poorly as a child.
But helping her work through her baggage
is a tall order for any man
and there's no guarantee
that she's going to stick with you
when she becomes emotionally healthy.
So, the best way to handle a dominant woman
and a strong woman is to unabashedly fully
accept her personality and her dominance
as is where it is.
However, you must know yourself.
So, you need to know if you're the kind of guy
who can be with a woman
who will always want to take the lead.
And if you can you especially want to make sure
that your beliefs and values
and goals are in alignment
because she's going to be the one
leading the relationship
and making most of the deciding decisions.
But remember, there's one time
where she might be dominant
or might seem dominant when she actually isn't.
And I am going to share that with you in just a minute I promise.
And don't feel bad
if you are attracted to dominant women.
Some men had dominant mothers
and they feel comfortable in that dynamic.
Some men don't want to have the pressure
of having to lead all the time
and if they can find someone they can trust
to do the leading
hey, give her the reins.
You've got to honor your true needs
and don't worry about what anybody else thinks
and don't worry about society telling you
you've got to be the leader in the relationship
or you know the alpha masculine man.
If that's not who you really are
and that's not who you want to be
then just accept yourself.
But some of you might be saying yeah,
but will a dominant woman
stay with a submissive man, Anna?
Will he? Will he?
No wait, will she? Will she?
Yes, as long as you don't become a dependent.
Non-dominant doesn't mean
that you don't have needs, desires,
opinions, and boundaries.
And it doesn't mean you don't contribute
to adulting in the relationship.
You do, you're not a child
that's the thing no woman wants.
No woman wants a man
who she's got to take care of in mother mode.
Mother mode as you know if you watch my videos
equals non-arousal mode.
No squeeze, no juice.
Now just before I reveal
when she's not really dominant.
It is important for you to know
what your needs are in the dominant submissive areas
so, that you know what kind of woman
would best suit you as a partner.
Now a woman with a strong or dominant personality
may not be in and of itself a deal breaker,
but you do want to watch for the real red flags.
And sometimes you meet a woman who appears dominant
but really it's just because she's been hurt in the past
and has been let down
and she's learned to take care of herself
but really deep down she's just waiting to meet
a strong, capable, dominant, man
that she can actually trust
so, that she can allow herself to relax
into her submissive.
How to know if she's really dominant or not.
Well, there's this thing called *** tests
that are very effective.
Often times, if she's dominant
she might test you
and if you want to find out if she's dominant
you might even test her.
Women's tests
are a subconscious and unconscious way
of figuring out where you fall
on the dominance submissive scale
by how you handle those tests.
Discover if she's really dominant or not
you need to actually be tested by her
and then handle those tests,
engage her reaction
and test her.
And unless you can do this,
you're going to walk blindly into every relationship
and it could be a really bumpy ride
that could end up in disaster.
But when you know how to test her
you can discover if she meets your standards
and if she does then sparks can fly
and you can have that whirlwind romance
with the perfect girl for you.
Someone who's going to support you
and treat you right
and not come with unnecessary drama.
Plus, when you test her
you become the selector.
She'll see that you're not needy like other guys
and this is very attractive to the ladies.
All it takes is a few simple steps.
So, watch how to test her
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