I feel like there's no reason why
I shouldn't have a relationship.
I am the type of person
that when someone shows me affection, I'm all in,
I like to text all the time,
I like to just talk to them all the time.
The first question I always ask is,
do you have a girlfriend?
Do you have a girlfriend?
I met a guy, we had a great date,
and then a week later,
I went to his house and made him breakfast.
So I went upstairs to his bathroom
and I saw two different types of shampoo.
One was for a woman and one was for a man.
And I got suspicious.
I just said, are you sure you don't have a girlfriend?
He goes, no, I already told you that.
Then I look over at his calendar
and I see a girl's name on a Friday
and it is circled and when I left,
I said, are you sure you don't have a girlfriend?
And then that's when he ghosted me.
I met a guy at a seminar named Brickland
and we hit it off.
At dinner, I felt like we had a connection
so, of course, I asked the question I always ask,
do you have a girlfriend?
And he said no.
We talked a few more times
and I asked him one more time, do you have a girlfriend?
And he didn't answer.
Then I followed up with another text
that said, do you still want to go
on the date that we planned?
And he never texted me back
so that's when I knew I was ghosted.
I need Dr. Phil to help me figure out
why I keep attracting men who are gonna ghost me,
who are lying, and who have girlfriends.
Because I am done with the guys who are ghosting
and I need a relationship.
Okay, so you have to have a theory.
Why eight times, why do you think people
have bailed on you eight times?
I have no theory because I am beautiful, I'm smart,
I'm talented, I'm going after my goals.
I can cook just a little bit.
I mean, maybe two or three things
but, I mean, I'm nice.
I have no theories.
I don't know why they're ghosting me.
Okay, but let me ask you this.
Let's say you get up in the morning
and you go and stop by the grocery store.
And you get in a distant big, screaming argument
with somebody over there that works at the grocery store.
Then you get in your car and you drive to the cleaner's.
And you get in a big, screaming argument
with somebody over there.
Let's say you run by the church
where you do some volunteer work.
And you get in a big, screaming argument
with somebody over there.
Is a pattern developing here?
Yeah.
Would you say there's a common denominator?
Maybe me, maybe the people are not having a good day.
Well, what's at every one of those places.
Me.
You've been ghosted eight times.
And you're involved in all eight of them.
Yes.
So is it possible there's something you're doing
that's alienating people?
Is that just, I'm not saying, I just met you,
I don't know, I'm just asking.
No, honestly, because a lot of these guys
who are on dating apps have girlfriends already
or they're talking to someone already
and I find out and they don't like that.
Really, you don't consider
that it's something you're doing?
No. Really?
How is that something I'm doing
when they had a girlfriend the whole time?
Well, let's take a look.
Okay, this is, we'll call this ghost one.
April 13th, ghost.
I'd be honored to take a pretty girl like yourself out.
Brittney, I have a question before we go on a date.
Do you have a girlfriend?
Be honest.
Ghost, I don't have a girlfriend.
After their date, Brittney, I had a great time.
Ghost, I did, too, you have a beautiful smile.
Brittney, are you sure you don't have a girlfriend?
I don't wanna start liking you and find that out.
Ghost, I answered that question already.
Yes, you did, sorry, goodnight.
After breakfast date, April 25th, Brittney,
hey, is everything okay?
Ghost, yes, why are you asking?
Because you haven't really been texting.
Well, I've been busy with work.
Are you sure you're not talking to someone
or have a girlfriend?
Or if you don't wanna talk to me anymore, just tell me.
I'm a big girl.
Ghost, oh, my God.
(audience laughs)
When you see that written out, what do you think about that?
I think that he had a girlfriend and he didn't tell me.