By the end of this video, you are going to know all about how the
narcissist knows that they have lost.
Hi, I'm Rebecca Zung.
I am a narcissist negotiation expert
and I am an attorney
and I've had lots of experience in dealing with the dreaded narcissist.
Both in my personal life.
Having to deal with them in a business situation
and in a family situation and also in my law practice
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So if you want to know when the narcissist knows
that they have lost.
A pretty sight. I'll tell you that right now
because they feel totally empty inside
and so they're constantly trying to make themselves
look like the winner and with narcissist,
everything is black and white.
The world is divided into winners,
and losers and the best,
and the worst and people are either fantastic or crap
and so with them, you're either for them or against them
and if you're against them then you become Public Enemy Number One.
They have to take you down.
They have to make sure that they go after you
and they want to make sure that they get you before you get them
because you're no longer going to be a source of supply for them
and so they want to make sure they make
you look bad before you have a chance to make them look bad
and so it's all this game.
All the time and especially
because it's a survival thing for them.
They feel like if they give it all that somehow
they won't be seen that somehow they will disappear
that somehow they can't breathe or something,
even giving anything at all means
that they cease to exist in some way something broke within them.
When they were children, they were traumatized in some way
and so it's all a game constantly with them.
because they're trying to be the center of attention.
Now, there's different types of narcissists.
There's that over type of narcissist that it's out there
telling everybody how great they are demanding this is the person that,
you know, the minute they're in the room they're holding court.
They expect the the best tables in the restaurants.
They're telling everybody how great they are.
They have no problem with all of those for it.
Whereas more, the covert narcissist is more of the woe is me.
I'm the victim. I can never get what I want.
I'm the sickly one.
Nobody ever pays attention to me.
People are always horrible to me, you know.
They're more like the downtrodden victim sort of one.
Where it's the covert narcissist is more they out there one.
So either way they're still trying to get attention for themselves
and so when one of the ways that they know that they're losing or that they have lost
is that they're no longer getting that attention
right, and so that's number one.
that are hearing people talk badly about them
or especially when they're flying monkeys are talking badly about them,
you know, the people that they've lined up.
Flying monkeys is a reference to The Wizard of Oz,
you know, these people that are have no thought
they were just l ined up on their side.
It doesn't happen immediately
but they start to lose control
and I have a whole video on signs
and narcissist is losing control and you can definitely check that out.
You know number three is like their partner is like actually openly
hostile to them right in front of other people.
That's not a good sign, right?
and they start to realize that nobody wants to be around them
because they're just so self-centered
and they start to realize that nobody wants to be around them.
You know, people aren't being their lies.
The realizing that nobody is believing their lies anymore
and they're being exposed.
I mean, when they have been exposed,
that's when they really really lost and that's what I teach,
I teach how to create that strategy.
Create that leverage so that they potentially feel like they could get exposed.
Because exposure is when they really feel like they've lost
and that's why they definitely don't want more than anything
and so that's where your real leverage comes in
and I can teach you so much more about that in the slay program
and that's the kind of thing that you need.
So, but the thing is, if you expose them,
that's when they really feel like they've lost.
So I want you to put expose them in the comments right now.
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