Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvise.com.
On this video, let's talk about text messaging.
I have a very simple system that you could use so that you will get responses when you
want a text the girl.
First, let's go over what a text message really is.
And before I go into that, I'm going to be giving you something free today, which I'll
mention right now so you don't forget it, but still watch the rest of this video.
I have 7 deadly text messages that get her to want to meet up.
7 copy and paste text messages that you can use and they're completely free.
Go in the description down below and get that.
It's a short video that's going to give you the text messages in all different scenarios
in terms of which you have with a girl to get her to meet up.
Go check those out.
But first, like I said, let's get into the system.
Text messaging is just something that you use in order to get a woman to meet up with
you.
I talk about this a lot on my channel.
Is that text messaging is the logistical tool just to communicate with a girl to get her
to meet up?
That's it.
A lot of guys will think that this is a communication tool.
Don't look at texting as a communication tool.
Just as a logistical tool.
Yes, you are communicating, but just for logistical purposes, meaning the logistics of you two
meeting up with each other.
Most of the time, and especially these days, a lot of people are texting a lot and having
full blown conversations.
That's one thing if you've already known someone for a long time, you'd been in a relationship
with someone for a long time, you've been friends with someone for a long time.
Although even in those cases I'd still say you should communicate either over the phone
so you can talk to each other and be in person and talk to each other.
Cause a lot of little nuances are lost in texting.
But either way you should be only using it to meet up with there because when you're
talking to them over text message, it doesn't work as well as you think to get her attracted
to you.
You're wasting time and you can potentially screw it up.
Instead use texting just to get her to meet up.
Let me rewind a little bit here, okay.
Because the most important part about texting isn't the text message.
The most important part about texting is what happens before when you initially meet.
See, you're probably watching this video because you have been texting with the girl, you got
a girl's number and you want to know what to text her to get her to meet up with you.
However, none of that is going to work.
And even though 7 deadly text messages that I have down below, those won't work either.
Unless you have built a connection and built attraction in person, you got to understand
that attraction happens in person.
We are not wired to be attracted to someone.
When you are sending them text messages… yes, there's exceptions.
Of course.
You know, maybe you send something funny and she laughs and she gets reminded why she likes
you, but it's not going to actually attract her.
What attracts her is when you guys are talking, when you first meet, when she feels your vibe,
when she understands who you are.
And again that has done… boom… in person.
So if you initially meet a girl out and about, let's say you meet her at a coffee shop, meet
her at a bar or wherever and you get her number and there wasn't a connection there, no text
message conversation, no joke, no meme, nothing is going to save you and get her to meet up
with you.
There has to be some initial interest on her part.
You've got to make sure that you're working on that part.
And then after that texting will be easy.
What makes it easy is that she's going to be willing to meet up with you because she's
attractive.
You don't need to do anything fancy.
So it text messages that you can use can be something as simple as, hey, it was awesome
meeting you the other day.
We should grab a drink some time or it was awesome meeting you the other day.
How was the rest of your day?
How was the rest of your night?
Just to get the conversation flowing a little bit, getting her to respond and then from
there, say, cool, and next week we should grab a drink.
When are you free?
If she likes you, she will respond.
There's nothing fancy that you ever have to send.
If she doesn't like you, she will ignore you or you will kind of push you off and text
you and say, Oh, I'm busy and it might not work.
Now there are some things you could do.
I'll give you one more kind of step that you could do if she ignores you.
First of all, if she responds to you but doesn't give you a date to hang out again, if she's
like, oh no, I can't.
I'm busy, but it doesn't say, okay, well maybe the following week there's no way you're gonna
end up meeting up with this girl.
She's not interested.
However, if she doesn't respond, wait about three days later and then ask her a question
and then get a response from her and then ask her out again.
For example, you might say a question again, this is asking her a question via text.
If you've already kind of texted her, asked her out and she doesn't respond and say something
like, Hey, do you like dark chocolate or milk chocolate?
If she doesn't respond to you, she's not interested.
Cut your losses and move on.
If she does respond to you and she says, you know, oh milk chocolate.
Say, Oh cool.
Yeah actually I'm more of a fan of dark chocolate myself or maybe agree with her if that no
chocolate is your favorite and say there's this cool gourmet chocolate bar, you and I
should go sometime and see what happens from there.
Now listen, most likely still after that you probably won't, but it's good that you can
at least try and see what happens cause why not?
You never know.
Maybe she was busy, didn't see the other texts.
Maybe she changed her mind about you.
Who knows?
It's good to go for a second chance.
Otherwise, if she's interested just to ask her out, like I said, or you use the 7 deadly
text messages that you can use, copy and paste to get her to meet up, and you can get those
for free.
Like I said in the description below, use that and I'll see you in the next video where
you will be a master at continuing to attract women.