Have you ever faced insults? Sometimes between friends, insults are meant to
just be pun intended and sometimes they're meant to make you feel bad.
And do you ever feel shivery?
You do not know how to come back and what to say to the person in order to tackle
that argument.
Ladies and gentlemen, I welcome you to Let's talk with this big heart.
And in today's lesson we're going to be talking about 20 phrases.
You should tell someone who insults you.
Sometimes these phrases are funny.
Sometimes they're very sophisticated and sometimes a very rude and direct
in order to tackle the situation better, You've got to select your own favorite ones and
deal with them.
So let's get started sentence number one is if your goal was to be
hurtful mission accomplished.
So you're actually being very direct to the person and you're saying that if you actually wanted to hurt me, your
mission is accomplished because I feel sad for what you've just said.
You're like terms and condition everyone ignores them as well.
You know, when you buy a product, there are terms and conditions or you buy anything a
lot of times we do not read terms and conditions to it correct.
And what do we do?
We ignore them.
So you actually sing slightly directly to the person and you can use this with your friends, your like
terms and conditions everybody ignores them.
And so am I.
I'm going to ignore you?
Are you born like that or trained by professionals?
It is one of my favorite ones on this list.
Hey, so can you just tell me that ru rude just by birth or were you actually
professionally trained into it?
It's very funny and you can actually use it with your friends who are actually trying to tease
you No four.
Yes, I know, I'm not perfect, but glad that I'm not you,
If somebody says, oh this is not good in you or this is not good in you, you
can actually come back to the person and say yes, I know that I'm not perfect, but I'm actually very glad that I'm not
you.
Yeah, so these are the first four ones on the list.
Let's quickly move to the next one.
Number five, have a problem with me, then call me.
Don't have my number, then know me well.
It's a very interesting one.
You may as well take moments to practice it in front of the mirror.
But once you get used to it, it will come as a second nature to you.
You're actually saying to the person, if you do not know me well, then do not comment on the kind of person
that I am or rather get to know me better.
Next best advice to you stop being you.
It's very funny.
Once again, I'd like to give you a very good advice.
Just don't be you because you are a very rude person.
Very direct.
Can be used with friends pun intended or sometimes you may as well just use it
very seriously.
Next is, hey look your noses again in my business
here.
You know, there's a phrase in english language that says putting nose in somebody else's business.
That means basically going into somebody's private space and
enquiring about things.
This can be used in that condition that hey, look at you, your nose is once again in my business
very funny and very interesting and I would say very sophisticated and classy as well.
And finally I know where to invest my time.
Hope you know that too.
This is a very sophisticated way of handling an insult or a negative argument that that
somebody hurls at you.
You're saying that I know that my mind is a very important things and I really
hope that yours is too.
The next one in the line is sorry I'm done for the day.
It's a very plain and simple one that you do not have time for any drama that's going
on around you.
So you simply simply say sorry.
I think I'm just done for the day.
I'm not here to sort of comment on it etcetera how
to inform.
But no one can photoshopped a face like yours.
Well this is very, very funny, how to inform basically.
It means that it's very difficult for me to tell you, but I must say that your face is so
bad that you look so bad that it's hard to Photoshop you or your personality.
Nobody would want to work on it.
The next one is even onions start crying after seeing you.
You'll see a lot of college friends coming together.
You know, they keep on making fun of each other in one of those situations.
If you feel too hurt by somebody, you can say even onions start crying after seeing you do
what's up, take a break, give me a chill pill.
Next in the line is your mind is off the best quality
because it's still unused.
This is very interesting here.
Sometimes when you do not use your mind, what happens?
It's fresh, correct.
Once you start making use of it, you know how to behave sensibly in different situations.
So the person says, your mind is so fresh, my God, it is so it's it's like a very
interesting limerick, isn't it?
It's got a bit of irony into it.
Your mind is so fresh.
And then you come up with your very interesting argument because it is still not used
if you use these phrases with right emotions and right tonality and voice.
My God, you may as well just become the star of the discussion.
The next in line is how strange it is.
That awesome ends with me the word awesome in the spelling M
E is the are the last two letters in it, correct.
So you're saying how strange you start, you're actually saying that I'm bad, but awesome ends with me.
So very interesting on the person would take a moment to actually think about what you just said
next is wish that you can be at my place and see how bogus you look
from here.
What is the meaning of bogus?
That means false?
Something that is not true.
Something that is fake that is called bogus.
So you're actually saying very nicely that I wish you could see which
that you can be at my place and see how fake you look.
The next in line is no surprise anymore.
I just realized why everyone prefers to talk behind your back.
You're actually commenting on the person's personality that he or she is so negative that
you know that everybody talks about them that you need to have some distance from them.
So you're saying indirectly that people talk about you.
So you're saying it's not a surprise to me anymore why people actually talk about you behind your back
because of this very personality that you carry.
Of course I can beat you but that'll be abused.
So basically in the when it comes to communication, when it comes to argument, the person is
saying I can always beat you.
But I think that will be an abuse for the work that I do and for my energy.
So I would not rather spend my time on that and
finally you look cute when you're shut up.
It's very interesting isn't it?
Because when you're quiet, you look better than when you speak
If you can be silent, this world can be better because you speak so much and so much of
crap that it doesn't contribute to making this world a better place.
Let me guess you haven't got your morning coffee.
And that is why you're a little bit when you don't get your coffee or your tea, morning tea, what do you how do you
feel?
You feel a little bit irritated, right?
So you're indirectly commenting on the person and you're saying you're irritated, Let me
guess you haven't got your morning coffee today, have you?
And finally the last one is thank you for making me this famous.
So when people talk about you constantly, other people hear hear it correct.
So you're actually saying to the person that you talk about me so much that everybody has gotten to know
me today.
So thank you very much for making me this famous Ladies and gentlemen, these were the
20 phrases or sentences that you can make use of the next time.
When somebody seriously or jokingly insults you, make sure you do
not feel shivery and you do not feel like, oh my God, I have nothing to
say, make use of these phrases and get better and shine in the discussions
and arguments.
Take care and I'll see you soon