Hi everyone.
I'm Adrienne Everheart
Your dating and relationship coach.
And in this video.
I'm going to discuss no contact is no contact really the best option
because I'm going to teach you a method that space and feminine
energy.
I can't wait to share it with you and let's get started.
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would love to hear from you in your comments good or bad.
I would love to hear from you and what you think of this video and
what you think about no contact versus feminine energy.
So let's get started first a refresher.
What is no contact?
No contact means NC.
It's abbreviation.
It also means that you're just experienced a breakup.
You just experienced a man walking out on you and someone disconnect
themselves from your life.
So when this happened all sorts of emotions and feelings bombard us,
especially that of Abandonment and it can really kick your inner boy
into overdrive and you find yourself driving past your guy's house
calling him up blowing up his phone and doing some things that later
you may eventually really regret.
No,
Cactus put into place as a way to lock you down emotionally for at
least three months.
So you don't contact that person you go three months time no contact
or potentially forever.
Even if they contact you you remain no contact.
And the reason that I don't like this is that it's a very firm rigid
rules not really based in your heart and in a lot of scenarios.
I have helped countless women get back together with their ex.
I also got back together with my ex who later became my husband and I
have a program called the ABCs that stands for absolute best chances
to get him back.
So I teach a method that is absolutely proven on how to get your
partner back and it does not rely on no contact because again, no
contact is very robotic is very rigid.
It's not coming from a place of your heart.
And I think as long as you love that person and you want him back into
your life, you have a really good chance of things working out.
It's always easier to rebuild then in a lot of cases start over from
scratch and most people once you've been in love with someone once you
can fall in love with them again, or you can fix or repair whatever
has gone wrong.
So let's talk about that.
This is the feminine energy version of no contact and I teach it in my
program ABCs to get him back.
If you're interested in that program.
The link is below in the description.
One of the many things I get you to do in my program ABCs to get him
back is accept his know now I go over a lot of things that I want you
to do, but the first one is accepting his know the man feels very
powerful when you accept his know and it's not that we're wanting to
Ego stroked him or make him feel incredibly power.
But in most cases a man is walking away from relationship because he's
not really feeling like a man anymore.
He's feeling managed micromanaged or that he doesn't have enough time
to give you he can't make you happy or there's just something amiss
and the relationship and he can't put his finger on it, and he needs
this time away from you to figure it out.
So by accepting his know and telling him I accept her know.
We're not saying hey, I'll always be here for you.
I'll always be around no matter what I love you.
I accept your know.
It's just I accept your know.
If you don't love me, if you don't want to be with me, I accept your
no and I'm going to be moving on to I'll miss you.
But I'm going to be moving on.
So this is an important for step.
Now.
If for some reason you guys have already broken up and these words
have already transpired which I imagine they have you don't need to
call him back up and they have accepted your know.
But if you really going to end it on a note, where was just up in the
air, you can let that guy know, you know, I just want you to know I
thought about everything that you said and I really agree with this
breakup and I agree that you know, if things aren't feeling right we
shouldn't be together and I'm going to be moving on to but I'll miss
you so that's a script that using the ABCs to get back.
I also teach that in five hundred ways to talk to a man to step one
except his no Heathen feels like she's respecting me.
She gets me she's not trying to convince me and coerce me to love her
and be there with her.
It's a very good feeling for a man to have of this relief because he
is now Associated that relief.
That vulnerability and that humble open honest interview that you're
giving him.
He will see you in a new light.
That's a first step to reclaiming his heart is that you are going to
become a new and different transform person in your feminine energy
and it is not going to be like the person he has been with before who
is controlling him or forcing him to be in a relationship or saying
things with expected outcomes things like this.
So worry not step one.
I've accepted your know.
All the pressure is off of him and he's now associating a good feeling
to you a feeling of relief.
That's all that matters when he thinks of you.
He doesn't think so.
She's blowing up my phone.
He thinks oh, you know, she was just so mature and sweet and she said
she was going to be moving on to that will stick in his brain.
It's not just him.
It's moving on.
Its you too.
You're not going to be sitting at home waiting for the phone.
Waiting for him to Eno come back into your life.
You are also Moving On Now ladies.
Don't rub this in don't really rub it in that I'm going to be dating
other guys to don't rub it in just let him know, you know, I want a
man not I want you.
I want a man who will really love me and want to be there with me and
get married and start a family.
I really want to be a wife one day and if that's not you I'm expecting
her know and I'm moving on so in five hundred ways to talk to him and
I'll give you some more scripts on that teach you how to really say
this in a way that's coming from your heart, but that's just a good
example of I accept her know, but I'm also going to be moving on very
important that he knows you're going to be moving on with someone with
some man out there that will stick in his hat number to I want you to
pull your energy off of him.
Now.
This is easier said than done but part of feminine energy and not
being in the mindset of
Nothing like no contact no contact doesn't necessarily mean your
energies off that person.
It just means that you have been able to tie your hands down and not
text or call or contact that person and I don't want you in this place
of sort of pent-up energy because that man can feel it.
He can actually feel your energy even though you two are miles and
miles apart and even though you're not texting him or calling him.
I believe they can really feel our energy men are so much more
sensitive than we give them credit for and energy, even though we
cannot see it.
It's something we feel and that's why I want you to pull your energy
off of him.
I talked about the caramel on top of a caramel apple when I was a
little kid.
I found out you could peel the caramel off the apple and just eat the
caramel.
Anyway, you want to peel your energy off of him just like you're
peeling that off just like you would peel the caramel off a car.
Apple you want to peel it off of him and this means building your own
Rich juicy amazing life.
You got to get out and socialize.
You got to take a dance class.
You got to get up and move your body and rearrange the furniture in
your house change the way you drive home at the end of the day change
up as many things as you can get a new little highlight your hair.
Nothing too.
Drastic hit the gym hard get that Revenge body.
There are so many things you can do to pull your energy off of a man
and reclaim your life and he is going to feel it more importantly not
only does he feel it.
He's going to see it because when you to realign and you will it has
never failed then all the times I've been doing this you realign
somehow.
And this is something I teach you in the Hail Mary pass, but when you
realize your energy will feel different and you'll have all these new
things going on in your life and instead of no-contact where your
hands are tied down.
You've been using this time to cultivate a rich folk and juicy life
for yourself that is super important to do he's going to notice that
he's going to see it and he's going to be very loud and magnetized by
that the last thing in the most important thing I want to share with
you is that when you don't have a set rules such as no contact and
it's open in and out there and I'm going to give you an example of
that you can actually use your better judgement and what your heart
feels so step number one do not use breaking no contact order your
feminine energy version of this don't break it because you're wanting
an outcome like I just need to convince him.
I just need to tell him this one thing if it's coming from a place of
urgency.
And I want this to happen by reaching out to him.
I want a particular outcome by reaching out you will fail he will feel
it.
He will feel the pressure of its outcome coming towards him and more.
So you will feel devastated.
If it doesn't go the way you want it to go.
So as I always say I want you to use this for good not evil evil would
be I'm going to control you.
I want you to become the person that I need good is going to be I am
saying this and doing this because it feels right for me if it works
out with you that is glorious, but I am doing it and saying it for me.
So here's my example on that not too long after my partner and I have
split up the man I later married.
I was really devastated and I just wanted to talk to him and be with
him.
I was so lonely and there were so many things suddenly happening that
I wanted to share with him just in less thing.
Is that I wanted to share and let him know and you know, I couldn't do
that.
I knew I couldn't do that because this is a man that left me.
He didn't want to hear from me.
He didn't want to hear the thoughts in my head anymore.
They were not important to him.
However, we both loved a little dog and our lives and on that
particular day.
I had left my sandwich out on the back porch table in a little dog had
gotten up on the table and sat in the middle of the table and started
nibbling at my sandwich.
And so I was able to take a picture of this and I said, oh this is
what feels right.
I want to share with him.
You know, what our baby is up to while we're apart and you know, not
more than 10 minutes after I sent that picture and you know, I got a
little reply from him and it just lit me up.
So when you do Reach Out
And you don't want to do it a lot.
But if you do if when you do and I teach you the hell Mary pass, but
if you decide to reach out and it's something your heart is feeling
you do it because you're feeling it not because you wanted to desired
outcome.
And you also do not want to lean in you don't want to be blowing up
his phone with all the things your heart is telling you is important
to share with him.
So sometimes we can't trust our heart.
Sometimes the heart is very greedy and just Wants What It Wants so
this is why I want you to look more into that yearning you having a
longing and really ask yourself is if I fits end this will the benefit
be good, but will it be for the outcome will be something good or am I
really trying to control this person and get them to write me back and
get them to love me again don't want you to be able to tell the
Difference between that the reason I shared a picture of our dog is
because I know he loves that dog, and I know that I love that dog and
it was a wonderful cute precious moment where our hearts cuddle I'm so
I sent it and it works.
So that wasn't all I did to get back with my partner is way more
intricate than that.
But if you want to learn more, I want you to go check out the ABCs to
get him back.
Now this works, even if you're, you know, not broken up but there's
just a lot of distance between you two and it's hot cold.
So please check it out on the description below and as always I love
to hear from you in the comments what you're feeling what you're
thinking about no contact versus using feminine energy methods that
I'm teaching here.
I only shared three of them with you today.
And that is except his no pull your energy off of him.
And when you do reach out to him, make sure it's a place coming from
your heart not anything that is
Philadelphia urgent on wanting an outcome already everyone.
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They're both amazing products to have in your library to help you
reconnect with the man that you love and I absolutely believe if you
still think about him and long for him the two of you are just not
over yet.
And there's just more for you to I just want you to play your cards
right learn about feminine energy.
So when you do realize I'm with him he is not the same old song and
dance.
You are really a different person.
You're a woman.
He cannot live his life without her and everybody.
Thanks so much for tuning in and watching not sending you much love
today and Always bye