hello YouTube fam I am officially 29
years old this is my last year in my 20s
it's a big deal
freaking out but kind of ready to be 30
already I feel like wisdom that just
doesn't suit the 20s anymore
this video I decided to talk about all
the things I've learned this year some
are good some are bad some are ugly and
I'm gonna share it all with you because
that's what I'm here for
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get to the video so lesson number one
I am a mean lean smoothie machine
basically I'm really good to the
smoothie I'm really good with the
blender there are other items at the
kitchen that were not at that point yet
in our relationship but I don't feel
defeated I feel like with practice I'll
get there but smoothies I'm your girl
lesson number two I've learned that it's
okay to cry and probably a better way to
take all of it out rather than trying to
pretend you're strong and to just harbor
all these emotions inside because the
day is gonna come but you're just gonna
explode and it's just not working so
cried out lesson number three that I've
learned this year and finally started
practicing is stop being so humble who's
amazing you're amazing
you're gonna have the best day ever
there is a time and place to advocate
for yourself and to tell the world what
kind of badass you are so in case you
guys didn't watch this video where I'm
talking a little bit more about it you
can find it here lesson number four
adulting is hard probably the hardest
thing I've ever done in my life instead
of pretending I'm a superhero I
acknowledge that there are days
it sucks and annoying and frustrating
and instead of trying to be perfect I've
come to terms with it and I just take it
a day at a time have multiple breakdowns
a day and that's how I get by lesson
number five I've learned that the way
you love yourself body mind and spirit
shows to other people how to love you so
lead by example be kind to yourself
lesson number six you're getting older
exfoliation is key exfoliate you by your
face your mind your surrounding the
people around you maybe ask for their
permission first but to help your skin
regenerate faster you can ever have too
many exfoliating tools but don't over
exfoliate lesson number seven I learned
this year is to stop torturing myself
with mom guilt I will never be perfect
it will never be enough and all I can do
is love my children as much as I can and
be there for them when needed and live
my life in a happy manner so they'll
have a good example to follow
you're doing great valaria lesson number
eight awkward is my middle name
and I finally fully accept it lesson
number nine you are not your thoughts
learn to separate the real you to your
emotions and thoughts that are coming
through your head that may be affected
by your surrounding or society or
anything like it I talk a little bit
more about it in my video you are not
your thoughts original title so check it
out
lesson number ten that I finally learned
this year that just makes me feel more
motivated and determined than ever is
I've come to realize that nobody knows
what they're doing
know that CEO girl that's 24 that just
made a hundred million dollars in her
company she doesn't know what she's
doing that Starbucks barista that's
doing your little coffee art he doesn't
know what he's doing that little flower
was supposed to be Castle lesson number
eleven I'm proud to announce that I'm
officially a light Packer
lesson number twelve don't take yourself
too seriously have fun with it
life is too short lesson number thirteen
you know when you would do something or
about to do something and there's this
like feeling in your stomach that's all
weird and it's butterflies but you kind
of want to puke
that like uncomfortable feeling embrace
it and know that when you're feeling it
that means that you are on the road to
grow and evolve so embrace the feeling
of being uncomfortable lesson number
fourteen really have to say I love you
more often to the people you care about
in your life
I love you I love you out yes I just
call to Allah I'm singing ok bye love
you ok bye love you
hi nari yeah I love you I just wanted to
say I love you and thank you I love you
bye bye have a nice day
love you bye I love you less than number
15 comfort over everything even a really
really good pair of shoes lesson number
16 there's been a game changer for me
you can do anything but not everything
learning how to delegate ask for help is
crucial if you want to kick ass in life
lesson number 17 there's a really famous
quote from Alice in Wonderland that goes
I knew who I was this morning but I
changed a few times since then you need
to accept that evolution in yourself
don't stop your growth what you talked
about and what's passion about yesterday
may change today or tomorrow you might
change your style and your thoughts and
what you stand for and beliefs and
that's okay it's part of the process
lesson number 18 I have learned and
accepted and announced to everyone
around me that alone time and Salta tude
is my therapy so I make sure to squeeze
it in every week if I can lesson number
19 that I've learned in my 28 year is
finally the proper skin care order you
go thin too thick lesson number 20
that's extremely important to keep in
mind in our day and time is to learn
when and how to disconnect bye
just kidding you got a few more free
lesson number 21 I
finally accepted that I'm too cool for
the weird kids and too weird for the
cool kids misfit for life lesson number
22 growing up I always talked so much
about all these things that I'm gonna do
promises that I'm gonna make and I never
follow through so something that I've
learned and know for sure is that
actions are louder than words so do act
stop talking
dedication and work ethic is a muscle
you need to practice and develop happy
birthday to me happy birthday to me
happy birthday dear valaria happy
birthday to me hi beauties thank you so
much for watching my video cuz I am
approaching my birthday I decided to
challenge myself and do one of the
scariest thing ever
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