How to talk to a girl at a party is what we're gonna be talking about on today's
video. And you might find yourself at parties whether you are in college,
maybe someone invited you to a party and you're in your 20's or a dinner in your
30's or whatever it may have you, you're gonna have experiences where you're
gonna be talking to a girl who might be in your extended social circle at a
party and today I'm gonna be going over kind of like the one-two punch here in
terms of what to say to a girl and things that you can actually say to her
in the beginning, the middle and the end.
Right now we're just steps away from the
slumber party Hostel. It's right on the beach so I'm just checking out the
sunset right now. Hanging out, unfortunately I got to go back to my
upload station that's far away and upload a bunch of videos but tomorrow I'm
very excited because I'm gonna be taking a little island tour going to the Kho Phi Phi
Islands and checking that out so that should be fun.
I want to give you the first tip in terms of what to do when you're at a
party. My biggest tip is this; whenever you're invited to any party I want you
to show up early. Is the party over? Party hasn't started. No one's gonna be here
for like another hour. Oh. Do not show up fashionably late, showing up fashionably
late is maybe okay if you know everyone there and everyone gets excited to see
you. But if you don't know a lot of people that are going to be at the party
and you go there early, you get a chance to introduce yourself and start meeting
people from the very beginning so by the time everyone shows up you already know
everyone. So it's not lame. Show up to any party early, at least the very least
right on time.
So what you're gonna be doing is introducing yourself to everyone when
you first get to the party and you're early.
But what do you do if you can't get there early for whatever reason? Well
when you get to the party and you see a girl you want to talk to, all you
gotta do is go up to her and you say this line. Say to her "Hey, I haven't met
you yet." And if you're an avid Tripp Advice follower, you've heard me talk
about this before because it it's one of the best things you can say at a
networking event, at a party, anywhere where there's a gathering and you want
to start a conversation and it works very well when you're at a party because it's
as if you've been socializing and talking to people but you haven't met her
yet. And that's be a nice easy warm introduction now mid-conversation or
even towards the beginning, what you can end up saying is "Who do you know here?"
I know that might sound kinda lame, kind of obvious, but that is a great feel jumping
point to be able to continue conversation from there so maybe she
knows someone that you know. Great, now you guys can talk about that. Maybe she
says someone who you don't know then you could say "Oh cool. You should introduce
me" or you could say "How do you know them?" and then from there listen to
conversation and be able to extract keywords to be able to continue it and then
if she says "No one" or if she has one friend then a flirty thing you could say
to her "Well now you know me." Alright that was a nice little sunset
hanging out now I'm just heading back to the slumber party hostel. Gonna see
what's going on. Let's go.
Alright so let's just say now at this point you
have talked to the girl, you're in conversation, things are going well, maybe
20-30 minutes have already gone by, how do you close the deal? How do you get her
number? Well all you gotta do is say this line that I learned from a friend
of mine which she says is working very well. Basically you say to the girl, let's
hang out again sometime but let's do it on purpose.
That's just an easy way to be able to see her again or you don't have to get
her number. You can continue hanging out with her if there's something going on
after the party, invite her out, continue spending time with her because that's
where the attraction happens. When you're in person. You want her to be invested
in you alright but of course that can happen go for the number. That's just an
idea of how to do it. There are other ways to do it. You can just ask her for her
number very simple. But here's a little tip that I need to give you. Make sure
that you don't wait til the end of the night. A lot of guys will be too scared
to go for the number because maybe they've only talked to the girl for like
10 minutes and they think they're gonna see her later at the party but then they
find out that they don't so I urge you to actually ask her for her number
instead of leaving and going and talking to other friends and thinking you're
gonna see her later. I've heard too many stories where the guy doesn't get the
number, doesn't ask for it and then he doesn't see the girl again later and
then they shoot themselves in the foot. So make sure that you go for it before
you two separate after your conversation. If you are struggling to know what to
say to a girl when you are at a party, I have something for you, Chick Crack the
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