Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com coming to you on a beautiful Wednesday morning.
The air is pure and so as my soul.
Just got finished eating breakfast at Dave Residency, which is absolutely delicious.
There's nothing better than eating a well rounded breakfast in front of this view right
here.
So awesome.
We're going to be now packing up our stuff, getting ready to go to our next location,
which is Nuwara Eliya.
We might be picking some tea leaves there.
It's gonna be interesting and you'll be there for the ride.
That aside, today's video is talking about how to chat with the girl you like.
We're going to give you some good tips on how to do that.
How to chat with a girl that you like?
How do you do that?
In today's video, I'm going to be going over more of something that I don't go over too
much.
I always say, my advice is for cold approaching, talking to a girl you never met before.
We're going to talk about the situation where you know this girl somehow, or you sort of
know her, you met her even if it's for a very brief second.
We're going to be talking about what to do with this situation.
There's various different situations.
You could have met the girl through work, through school, through extracurricular activities,
hobbies, through friends.
Maybe she's in your social circle, lots of different options.
I'm a happy camper.
Traveling is honestly one of the most amazing things in the world.
I encourage anyone who has the opportunity to do it.
I encourage anyone who wants to do it, to try to make it happen because it is a time
that you'll never forget.
It forces you to live in the moment, forces you to really enjoy everything that's happening
right in front of you.
Makes you reflect on everything that's going on in your life.
It's like, you don't have to try, it just happens.
I thought I'd share that with you.
Let's talk about some advice.
How do you chat with her?
Here's the thing.
I could tell you, chat with her just like you chat with a dude.
How do you chat with someone?
You know how to chat with anyone.
You know how to do this.
But there is a little bit of a difference when you're trying to chat with a girl and
this is something you probably don't know.
There is a difference.
Chatting with the girl is not the same.
Why?
Because your intentions are different.
One thing you must know is that there is a goal, there is a purpose in chatting with
a girl.
That is to move the interaction forward.
I say that vaguely because that means a whole variety of different things.
That could mean getting her number.
That can mean seeing her later that night or that day.
It's an opportunity to see her again or continue seeing her if you met her out somewhere in
the realm of you two courting each other, of her being a potential mate, a potential
date, a potential girlfriend.
Someone that you're going to be connecting with more than friendship.
Why am I saying all this?
Because you have to know this when you're chatting with the girl.
It's not just about chit chatting.
You got to know in the back of your head throughout the entire conversation when you're chatting
with her that you are interested in her and she has to know that.
That's one of the most important things I could say about chatting with any girl.
She has to know.
She has to know that you are interested.
You need to flirt with her.
You need to move the interaction forward and escalate it to date status.
Right now if you're going to gather anything from this video, what you need to understand
is the mindset.
The mindset has to be stoked so strong in your head because that is the thing that you
need when you're chatting with the girl.
How do I know this?
Why am I teaching you this?
Because I see so many comments down below that talk about, there's this girl, there's
this one girl, there's this girl in my class, there’s this girl at work, etc.
If you already knew this concept, you probably wouldn't be asking that question about what
to do next.
Or you probably wouldn't have that problem of being in the friend zone.
The friend zone does not exist when you are able to flirt with a girl, show your intentions,
to be able to build that attraction and that spark with her.
Yeah, maybe you get rejected, but you're still not in the friend zone.
Remember this.
I'm going to say this loud, proud, bold and clear.
Rejection is better than being in the friend zone.
I have more to say on this, but let's take a break for a second and cut into a montage.
As you can see, today has been a lovely day.
Checking out the tea plantation, checking out some waterfalls, and interacting with
some of the cool people here.
We took a drive down from candy to Nuwara Eliya.
That's where we are right now.
It's a beautiful mountain town.
So excited to be here.
You're probably saying, that's great Tripp, but how do I chat with the girl?
If you want some how to, what I'm going to do is to put a few videos down in the description.
Those videos are going to teach you how to start a conversation, how to continue a conversation,
and then how to ask a girl out.
Those are the three little mini courses, so to speak, but they're just Youtube videos
on how to do this.
That's the how to.
I don’t want to go into the “how to” for this video because I've already talked
about that so watch those videos.
They're very powerful and they give you exact steps and techniques on how to do it.
You got to remember, once again, that when you're chatting with a girl, it's all about
moving the interaction forward.
I talked about this in my program called Hooked and I talked about dominance.
That's what dominance really is.
At least that's how I define it, it’s taking control of the conversation and escalating
it for, which a lot of guys are afraid to do because they're afraid of rejection.
If you want to learn more about that, I'll put a link in the description.
You can check out Hooked to GetHerHooked.com.
Hopefully you got this far in the video because this is very important for you.
Yes, you the guy who is in the friend zone, who is already talking to the girl that he
likes, who hasn't really started that conversation yet.
If you’ve already been talking with her, the conversations already going, you’ve
even texting her, she's in your social circle, you talked to her at work, then the idea is
to let her know that you're interested in her.
Stop beating around the bush.
Here's what I'm going to ask you to do.
This is my challenge for you for this video.
I want to hear what happens.
I want you to write down in the comments below what happens.
I know there's gonna be a lot of guys, you’re going to do this and it's gonna work.
I want you to tell the girl that you're interested in that you like her.
Just let her know.
I don't care if it's a text.
I don't care if it’s a phone call.
I don't care if it's in person.
Just do it.
Get it over with.
We can either get the rejection or move forward with her.
More importantly, move forward with your life so you can start chatting up girls that you
actually have a shot with.
If you're in this awkward, in between period, and I'm thinking of a word, my editor is going
to put it on the screen for me, that time when you're not in heaven, you’re not in
hell yet, but you died.
I can't think of the word so it's probably popping on the screen right now.
I'll probably remember later, but here it is on the screen.
That's it.
It's not coming to me.
Now you know what I'm talking about.
I remember, it's purgatory.
You already know that because it was on the screen.
Yeah, we don't want to be in purgatory here.
You want to get on with our life.
That's the most important thing.
Life is precious.
We only have so much time on earth.
Let's move forward.
I know that's deep.
All about starting with chatting with a girl, but this is it.
This is the good stuff right here.
If you’re still with me, you're still joining this crazy journey, putting out videos every
single day and helping you get the girl, I'll see you not only in tomorrow, in the next
video, but I'm going to see you very soon because you're going to click those links
down below and go to the how to’s in terms of how to actually have conversations with
the girl that you like.
Go do that.
Don't forget to check out the program at GetHerHooked.com.
I'll see you tomorrow.
Now, peace.
I'll see you always all the time.
I'm always here.