Codependency Recovery
how beautiful you to family ceremony here the breakthrough life coach and
today I want to share a letter that I got from a viewer in the UK and I do
have her permission to read this letter to you and by the end of the letter
you'll understand why it's so important for me to share with you
ok so highly so I wanted to message you and say thank you I stumbled across your
video about how as kids we feel frozen and must have gassed six times watching
it it was as though you had made it just for me I grew up in a house where my
father was an alcoholic who gave up drinking when I was five but he never
got help for his problems his mother killed her style when he was 21 and my
mother put up with years of having him had girlfriends on the side I'm 37 and
even now he is having affairs and mom looks the other way but has a deep
hatred for him and relive it manipulates my sisters and I against him I follow
you videos and watch them while I'm doing chores and etcetera
the reason for my email is that I have started writing the journal would have
never done before before and I find It fab but my six-year-old son must have
seen my journal or heard the videos of you as I found a little notebook in his
bedroom the other day and inside he had written what he'd had for lunch at
school it was really cute that are turned it over and I saw that he had
written on the back cover
I'm getting was like getting goosebumps I was so overwhelmed with pride for both
of us and I knew that are on the right path
thank you so much these from Sofia in the UK so those of you who follow my
work
understand that I am passionate about helping others heal from this thing
called co-dependency and I am so encouraged when one of you reach out to
me and say I never knew what was wrong with me
I didn't know they had a name now and I are going to be doing a webinar on
February 13 2016 just in time for Valentine's Day and we're gonna talk
about why that is so why is that Cody pendants walk through life feeling like
something was wrong but they can't name it now that's part of why is it so
difficult to treat because so many co-dependent are so used to being abused
that that's their normal and their so-called and cycles of disassociating
that that's their normal or they're so caught seeking validation outside of
themselves that it's there nor to stay in patterns of addictive abusive cycle
seeking the other person generally the North's assists approval so it's really
important that we identify and acknowledge that for many of us we have
been so honored in our history that being unhappy is unknown but if you're
if you're happy then there's something wrong because you're supposed to be born
and experienced joyful life experiences so the reason I wanted to share this is
because it's evidence is evidence that when when you heal you affect other
people when your vibration breezes you raise the vibration of the people that
you're around especially our children remember children that's what have I
done on time tools
children want to sync up to have their parents feel or they sink down to have
their parents feel so here sophie is you know something clicks with one of my
videos she learns that all adult child of an alcoholic and I didn't know that
this was not helped the United know that I was being abused and I didn't know
there are currently teaching me codependency I didn't know my father was
a narcissist oh my god all these bells and whistles start going off its
fabulous and then she goes to YouTube what so many people do these days and
she discovers my work on it with adult children of alcoholics she's inspired by
it you know she's listen
into it she's dealing with the programs in her mind she's got got the videos
going in our kitchen and her bedroom whatever and her baby is listening
her baby is here and it's not your fault in your room where you are now and this
baby girls and and create this book and on the back cover he writes I am enough
so dear Alliance airlines gas how important you are and I don't care if
you're 9410 or six or 15 or 25 whatever you are divine human being that has the
ability to affect other people and this is the key
this is the key this is the key when you become aware of the light that you are
that it was always there and it was below the programming it's a program
that Jack Jack and when someone like me
comes into your life experience to YouTube or an article or book whatever
or through word of mouth and so things start to happen in your head it's
because pay attention it's because I was able to find the light within myself
that I'm able to share the light with all of you and so this little light
inside of me I see it and then I help all of you see the light that's inside
of you and then you go and you affect the people in your life experience and
collectively deal one that's how we help raise the vibrations of the planet and
that's how we continue to raise our own vibrational frequencies so I just wanted
to say thank you so in the UK and that little boy of yours or so darling and
please you know if he's watching I just want to say hello and thank you for
being you and your little one URL I did promise of you that I would make this
video and
that it was I wanted her if she if she felt up to it too is she felt inclined
to show this video to her son and I'm just so I'm just so so blessed so so
they can thank you for sending this letter really appreciated
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