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the 10 Interesting Facts About Dating An INTJ Personality Type
Make sure to watch each one of them and find out how you can approach a dating game with them!
INTJ (Architect/Mastermind) is a very unique personality type with a lot of great traits.
However, people with this personality type approach their romantic relationships in a very
interesting way. Architects handle romance in the same way they tackle most problems:
strategically, with clear objectives and a strategy for attaining them.
This strategy would be effective in a completely rational world. However, a romantic relationship
is not something people can plan out and often it is irrational and INTJs are at risk of ignoring
or misinterpreting the unpredictability of human nature and affection’s volatility. Let's look
at the most interesting things you should know about dating and relationships with an INTJ. This
can help you figure out which personality types are compatible and which aren't. Furthermore,
it will tell you how you can approach a dating game with an Architect and how you can achieve
success in that field. Here are 10 Interesting Facts About Dating An INTJ Personality Type.
Number 1 – They need some time alone no matter how much they love you
INTJs can work best when they are alone. Although some introverts need more time alone than others,
INTJs are arguably the personality type that requires the most alone time.
You must be entirely comfortable with providing an INTJ personality
enough space and time for themselves if you want to be in a romantic relationship with them.
It is something they are unable to give up. It is not to be taken personally because it is simply a
part of their personality. This isn't to say that an INTJ doesn't value quality time; they do; yet,
time to recharge, rethink and restore is just as vital to them. However, you can think of it,
this way. If your personality type requires alone time, you will never have to worry about
an INTJ not understanding or having to spend every spare second with you Not bad, right?
Number 2 – They will take forever to make something happen
People who are INTJs are not impulsive. In reality, it could take them months or even
years to figure out whether or not the two of you are compatible!
Architects must first determine whether they are attracted to you and
have some feelings for you. They must then determine your suitability as a partnership.
Last but not least (in terms of time commitment), they must devise an action plan for how they will
persuade you to change your mind. This is not an overnight process. An INTJ takes a long time
to make a decision, but once they do, you can bet all your money they're serious about it.
Number 3 - They like to be direct and straight to the point
INTJs can be abrasive to the point of rubbing people the wrong way.
They, on the other hand, are not offended by bluntness. Architects actually prefer
it most of the time. This is especially true when it comes from someone they care about.
Most INTJs aren't adept at picking up on subtle signs, which is why they appreciate it when
individuals express themselves clearly. Did we cause you any discomfort? Tell us how you did it.
Is this a bad idea? Please explain why. Should we make any changes? Please tell us. These
are quite common expressions of an Architect. People with this personality type like clear
and straightforward communication. They often believe some partners are afraid of this since
it is so basic. Understanding and resolving a problem is far more important to an INTJ than
avoiding confrontation. Confrontation avoidance is seen as weak and perhaps deceitful by INTJs.
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Number 4 - They need someone to contemplate with
Because they have a mind that is concentrated on innovation, INTJs frequently seek out
relationships in order to find someone who will be compatible with their intellect and style of
thinking. They must discuss their thoughts, future plans, and whatever else is on their
minds at the time. This also means that an INTJ personality's partner must be a good listener.
That fact is very important so we will repeat it once again. An INTJ personality's partner must
be a good listener! A romantic partner that is very compatible with the INTJ personality type
will be able to participate in these discussions while also discussing their own intentions,
plans and ideas. Brain stimulation is a very essential thing to every INTJ.
Number 5 - They approach every conflict via logic Every conflict is a riddle for an INTJ to solve.
Though they can have their feathers ruffled just like any other personality type,
however, their initial reaction is to break down a situation, examine what is and isn't working, and
try to improve on the current manner of operation. Does it appear to be a little technical? It is,
after all. Because INTJs use reasoning to deal with almost every aspect of their lives,
they'll need some time to consider before they can tell you how they feel about a problem.
Number 6 – They need a long time to open Some people think INTJs are too cold,
remote, or frigid to date. Because INTJs place a greater emphasis on thinking things through and
engaging in rational thought rather than relying solely on emotions in a romantic connection,
they have a reputation for being frigid in relationships. Although most INTJs would protest
that this is not the case, breaking through an INTJ's frigid façade does take time and
effort—time and effort that someone looking for a casual date might not be prepared to put there.
Number 7 – They have very high expectations INTJs handle dating and relationships in
the same way they approach their everyday lives. Architects approach dating and relationships with
a strategic mindset and a clear end goal in mind. They will have high expectations for their spouse
in the same way that they have high standards for themselves. An INTJ values intelligence, openness,
and communication, thus superficiality, like appearance, isn't enough to draw their attention.
These high expectations, while beneficial to an INTJ because it implies, they have
created a truly fulfilling connection once they are settled with someone, may be exhausting
for their partner who is attempting to keep up with all of their expectations.
Number 8 – They will invest a lot in partners they care about
When it comes to flirting, the INTJ is known for trying to impress the person they like.
When they are sincerely interested in someone, they conduct extensive study and look for various
pieces of information about them. They desire to know everything there is to know about this
individual and will devote a significant amount of time and effort to doing so.
This is when the Architect is sincerely interested in someone and can envision
forming a genuine bond with them. For the INTJ, asking a lot of questions and
really getting to know someone is a sign of flirtation and serious interest.
Number 9 – They will try to optimize the relationship
INTJs won't pursue something if it isn't going to be successful or useful to them. However,
an INTJ's focus on efficiency might become so intense that it harms their relationships.
The constant need to enhance and optimize might lead to unreasonable expectations and
a desire to change partners. This is likely to become a problem in a relationship because
not everyone is comfortable with their partner wanting to change who they are, let alone
constantly trying to meet their expectations. They may become so focused on optimization that they
forget to see their spouses' feelings. Number 10 – They are very supportive
INTJs have high standards for their partners, but once they believe they've found "the one",
INTJs are incredibly supportive spouses. INTJs also want their partner to provide the same level
of assistance. Architects will ensure that their partner is doing their best to realize their full
potential when both people in the relationship are supportive of each other and attentive to
their needs. This personality type proves to be the best support system, whether via acts or words
and when they meet that special person, trust us - INTJs’ romantic partner will be extremely lucky!
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