hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart today I'm gonna share three feminine energy mindsets that
will drive a guy wild first I want to show you where I'm at I'm in the beautiful North
Carolina mountains it is so breathtaking here in beautiful beautiful green trees and mountains in
the distance so I'm going to talk about some things that really drive a guy wild and when
it comes to your feminine energy and as you know I'm a feminine energy expert I'm a feminine energy
coach for women all over the globe and I'm going to talk about the difference between being nice
kind having boundaries and being feminine and being warm and I'm going to give you three tips
that are really gonna help you embrace your feminine energy so that you're feeling very
confident and clear from that place now oftentimes we feel that we are being too nice being too kind
to a man and we really don't know any other way to do it this is kind of what we've been taught
as women is that we want to be nice and polite and not make waves not cause big problems but
really what this leads to is a man taking us for granted and often us trying to give too much in
order to get something back from a man now a lot of times this comes in the form of offering to pay
for a date and at some point in time if you're in a relationship with a person you may discuss
how you are gonna handle bills and going out and paying for dates and things like that but for the
most part in the early part of dating you want the guy to really show you that he can be a provider
and he wants to take you out but a lot of times women will do this one thing and they'll offer
to pay for the date because they're leaning in towards what feels bad so I just kind of
want you to keep that in mind about leaning in towards what feels bad instead of leaning into
what feels good for you so let's start with tip number one tip number one simplicity I want you
to avoid over sharing this is really gonna make a guy feel like he can sit down have a
conversation with you have a warm exchange and he doesn't have to hear about your entire life story
because I don't know about you I get nervous I start talking I start over sharing so this is
why I want you to practice going on dates with lots of men and learn how to speak and talk to
men that you're not you know so crazy about because those guys can make us feel really
nervous but start dating men that you're a little more comfortable with that you can just practice
sharing some information about yourself especially when you're asked so just begin to notice how much
you over share how much you just keep talking and telling people about exes or past experiences or
negative things again you're leaning into the things you actually don't want so instead go on
your date try to share less lean back let the man ask questions and just see how it unfolds
be positive and share what's good and wonderful about your life from a place of passion mindset
number two I want you to care more about how you feel then what you think that man might be
feeling so so often we get really caught up in our heads about what is he feeling what is he
thinking he hasn't texted me back did he like our date did he have a good time does he like me was
there something wrong with me did I talk too much should I offer to have paid for our drinks you've
had these voices in your head before so I want you to just begin to care more about how you feel
then anything that's going on with the man because ultimately you can't control what's going on with
him when you're in your masculine boy energy you want to control what's going on with the man and
you want to kind of figure him out and get inside his head so I want you to be inside your body not
inside your head or jumping into his head and you do this by caring more about how you feel
then anything that's going on with the man number three I want you to lose interest in looking back
now this sounds a little bit like tip number two but number three is about losing interest
and looking back and that means going over past relationships past dating history with this man
or what even happened over the weekend or what happened last night I want you to just learn how
to slowly lose interest in looking back this is a really powerful technique for your dating life and
for your personal life so often memories ideas and thoughts pop into our head without us even
wanting them to they just appear there and you can latch onto that and again lean into that or
lose interest and what was happening in your past what happened previously with this other
partner instead of letting those influence and come into your life now in this beautiful moment
in the present you can lose interest in the past and start leaning towards what it is you really
want in your dating life and in your life all right everyone I hope these three mindset tips
have been really valuable for you I think when you have these qualities inside of you
a man will absolutely find you irresistible and want to chase and pursue you much love