When do you feel sexiest around me?
Definitely, when you dress me.
For clarification: not in, like, women's clothes or anything.
Well, if you wanted...
It's funny, even though I
I've never had, like, my own, ah-
My own things, I like to wear my own style. I really like it when, like,
you pick something out that you think looks really good. -I'm just displaying you. -Yeah.
I enjoyed displaying you too. You display nicely. You're very attractive man.
In what way is our daughter similar to me and how does that make you feel?
She looks like your daughter, like, I
Have a kid who's blond-haired and blue-eyed. Do you see blond hair blue eyes? No. You don't.
She looks like you.
And I love that I have this, you know, this sunny
sunkissed little baby girl, toddler, child, oh.
It´s happening very quickly. I love that she looks like you. What is something that you miss from the pre-baby me?
It's been a lot harder for you to feel sexy and feel beautiful. I feel like pre-baby you was, like,
like, you got it. Like, you got how
beautiful and sexy and arousing
and magical you are physically.
And you know that inside. Since we've had Naiya, I mean, you look better than you ever have. And
there's this, like,
there's this chink in the armor as to how you feel about
how you look.
And I hear you talk about not feeling beautiful and not feeling sexy or not feeling
attractive. And I
just feel so sad.
You're so fucking hot.
You did not feel that way about yourself.
It's hard to feel that way about yourself when it's been like six days without a shower and-
and you have no sleep, you know? I guess I agree, it´s...
I struggle with that.
There´s anything that I can do? Is there any way that I can
help or support you or
tell you things or do things? Is there anything I can do though?
Have more pregnant sex with me
I've already made that agreement
agreed
And kidding, but you know but but at the same time like that was hard. [I] was like the mother Mary
You know like it was
It was so special
I mean really excited to change that
change that view for me and
not and have it be
sexy and hot that you're holding my child and
Arousing you're holding my child as opposed to
sacred and goddess like I'm
Am honestly excited to flip that switch
Feeling I'll be regretting this request at some point
When is the moment that you knew you wanted to have kids [I]?
Think you knew we wanted to have kids [Mr.]. [Papa], okay?
um
And that's not so let me back up um
When I first met you I had just turned 21
[and] I was like ready to have 10 billion Benjamin babies like right out of the gate
I'm like this is going to be my trap connected
I'll have all of his children
and it'll be perfect [and]
we'll be together forever and so on and so forth like it was like the sexiest thing I could conceive of in my
you know hormonal 21 year old body was to have all [of] your babies every single one of them [um] and
[uh]
and
and then I started to really unfold as my own woman and
Um you know the timing of that, I think
paralleled a lot
Really parallel at the beginning of our relationship?
[you]
[celebrated] these aspects of [myself]. I hadn't claimed yet, and I hadn't really looked at and
You were really adamant about
How special children was going to be and wanted?
What an experience it [was] going to be and how different it was going to be and gave me the space of like okay?
you know
Like this is this is [a] moment in our lives where we can do this and bring it out bring it about gracefully and I
knew I wanted to have kids and I
[knew] I wanted to have kids with [you]
More than anyone else in the entire world
Having your children was something that was incredibly exciting and fulfilling
that child
Being the child of us
And then it was that child being heard being [aya] and falling in love with who she was not just what she was which was
Your daughter, but who she was and that was a really amazing unfolding and it's happening again [with] number two
You're telling me hey there could be really something special in having ooh
The sibling dynamic these things I know you're better at flexing that muscle than I am and so I'm trusting again
Even though I'm I'm freaking out inside
I'm
terrified to some extent of
Having a Newborn and it's so much work, and it's so
so much service and so much service of my body and
my time
It's really scary thinking about doing it again
But I know that we can do it and I know that you're seeing something again that I'm not seeing [fully]
So I'm trusting and we're starting to try [for] number two. Sorry that was a really long answer
Why do you love me?
I
Love I
Love the creative fire that you are I?
love the
Look, I love the I love the selfish part of you
I really [do] yeah, isn't part [of] the whole embracing like the differences right it really is I?
I love that your little self
Because I'm looking a lot of times right you do that for our family. There's some times. I'm like okay, honey stop
We're not cutting the line. This is just not me but seriously but I you know I like
I
Love your I love your strength [I]
Love your tenderness
And just this big heart that you have that has just
Grown and quadrupled in size since we had nine. I love I
Love this extra. Tank that has showed up since [Mommyhood] has happened and
just this
unbelievable capacity to just do um I
Love I
Just love the mother than you are I guess love the mother you are the fact that you can get
anything done, you just you can be the backstop and the
closer around any issue any issue around Parenthood and it's
Amazing it's absolutely amazing I
Love the mother that you [are]
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