Hey everyone, and welcome to TopThink. Today, we will learn about fifteen signs she’s highly
attracted to you. Now, let’s begin
1. Special Attention Does she pay more attention to
you than anyone else in the room? Let’s say you’re standing in a room full of people, talking to a
beautiful woman. Her friends are waiting in the corner. Other men are looking her way and trying
to get her attention. Yet she is standing by your side, concentrating all her attention on you.
Why? Because she is highly attracted to you. Instead of investing time or effort
in anyone else, she is laser-focused on you. She’s asking you questions, listening to your stories,
and sitting by your side, because she finds you interesting and highly attractive.
2. The Meaning of Preening Around the most attractive people,
many of us become hyper-aware of our appearance. You may focus on your faults, fidget with your
clothes, and nervously adjust your appearance, hoping that the other person likes what they see.
This nervous behavior is called preening, and it’s one of the most common signs that
a woman is highly attracted to you. She may fiddle with her earrings, twirl her hair,
or touch up her makeup. In either case, she’s improving her appearance because she wants to look
her best. In all likelihood, she feels nervous or a little insecure around you. She worries
about how she looks and makes adjustments to her appearance because she finds you irresistible.
3. Secret Subtext
Interpreting text messages is challenging in the early stages of any relationship.
It isn’t easy to understand someone’s emotions or tone over text, so many people misinterpret
harmless messages as signs of romantic interest. Most of the time, text messages are not worth
overthinking. Don’t invest too much time or energy into the subtext of a straightforward message.
Most of the time, a text means precisely what it means.
However, you can draw a couple of interesting conclusions from the timing of a text message. For
example, does she take hours to write something brief and lighthearted? Do you often see her
typing and deleting messages, causing those three tiny dots to appear and disappear repeatedly?
If you answered yes to either of these questions, she might be highly attracted to you. She’s
spending ample time on her messages because she wants them to be perfect. The content of her
messages may be insignificant, but the feelings behind her words are stronger than you realize.
4. Positive Posturing When a woman is attracted to you,
her body language is often friendly, cheerful, and accommodating. For example,
instead of crossing her arms over her chest, she may open her arms and palms,
giving her posture a more welcoming appearance. She may also demonstrate open body language by
mirroring your movements or turning her body toward you. Both pieces of body language
communicate interest, attention, and emotional investment. Each signal is small and subtle,
but several of these cues in tandem can be a reliable sign of romantic attraction.
5. Feelings in Disguise Does she text you for the most insignificant
reasons? Perhaps she sends you a text every time she sees something that reminds her of you. Or
maybe she messages you with random questions or miscellaneous information. In other words,
she’s searching for reasons to interact with you. Chances are that she’s thinking about you at all
hours of the day. She sees you everywhere she goes and constantly wonders what you’re
doing. If she messages you about anything and everything, there’s only one thing you
need to know. You are always on her mind because this person finds you irresistible.
6. The Laughter Experiment
Laughter is a common and reliable sign of real romantic attraction,
especially if you’re not that funny. Try this next time you’re wondering whether a girl finds
you attractive. Make a joke that you know isn’t very good. Say something cheesy or goofy, and
watch how she reacts. If she giggles or laughs, there’s a good chance she finds you attractive.
Why? Because some women use laughter to communicate their feelings. It doesn’t matter
if you say something funny or not. She isn’t laughing because you’re a talented comedian.
She’s laughing because she likes you, appreciates you, and feels happy whenever you’re around.
7. The Subconscious Touch Not every gesture is intentional or
calculated. When flirting with someone they like, many women demonstrate interest and attraction
using this one subconscious gesture. She may not realize it’s happening, but this signal is strong
evidence that she finds you highly attractive. Let’s say you make a joke that makes her laugh.
As she’s laughing, she may subconsciously reach out her hand and touch you on the arm or leg.
This meaningful gesture often demonstrates how she feels about you below the surface.
Under normal circumstances, she may be too nervous or cautious to initiate physical
contact. But when she gives in to the moment, her instinct is to reach out and touch you.
8. Electric Emotions How do you feel when you
meet an attractive person? Most people feel some combination of nervousness, happiness,
and excitement. If a woman finds you attractive, she may be feeling the same overwhelming emotions,
which inevitably influence her behavior. For example, as you approach and make eye
contact with a woman you like, watch how she preps herself or changes her appearance. Does
she look at you and smile? Does she preen her clothes and hair? Does she become self-conscious
of where she’s sitting or standing? If you notice any of these behaviors,
be confident that this woman is excited to talk to you. She smiles, changes her posture,
and frantically adjusts her appearance because talking to you makes her heart flutter.
9. Expressions of Gratitude If a woman is attracted to you
and enjoys your company, she might thank you for spending time with her. It may sound strange at
the moment since you feel lucky to even be there. But if a woman expresses gratitude
for the time you spend together, there’s a good chance she feels as lucky as you do.
In other words, she appreciates the time you’re investing and the effort you’re making.
She wants you to know that she sees and values you because you make her feel the same way.
10. Involuntary Attraction Blushing is an involuntary physical response,
usually caused by something nerve-racking or embarrassing. Blushing is sometimes associated
with emotional stress or shyness, but it’s most often a sign of romantic attraction, especially
when paired with positive body language. For example, let’s say you give a woman a
compliment. If she finds you attractive, she may blush, smile, and cover her face with
her hand. This meaningful combination signals romantic interest, nervousness, and excitement,
all at the same time. In short, rosy cheeks and a coy smile show you exactly how she feels.
11. The Head Tilt Have you ever noticed she
tilts her head as you talk? Tilting your head is a subconscious sign of interest and attraction. When
a woman is listening to you, she subtly tilts her head to the side to show that she is attentive and
engaged. She’s not only listening to what you’re saying, but she truly cares about the content.
Why? Because she has a deep interest in you as a person and a potential partner. She wants to get
to know you. She wants to listen to your stories. If a woman tilts her head when you talk, she’s not
just tolerating you… she really cares. 12. A Change in Style
Sometimes, women dress differently around the people they like. She may not usually care about
what others think about her style. Most days, she dresses in a way that’s comfortable and casual.
But around you, she wants to leave a different impression. She may put extra effort into her
hair or her makeup. She may think hard about what clothes to wear or what styles you might like.
In other words, she changes her style because she wants to look and feel her
best. If a woman starts dressing up around you, she may be trying to get your attention.
13. Relationship Potential In the early stages of any relationship, you
spend a lot of time getting to know each other. You tell stories and share personal details,
and if you like each other, you also commit those stories and details to memory. You want
to retain that personal information because you see potential in the relationship down the road.
If a woman finds you attractive, she’ll remember information about you. She’ll actively listen to
your stories and recall details about your life later. You may think it’s just a coincidence,
but if a woman makes an effort to learn about you, she may see you as a potential partner.
14. Falling In Love If a woman finds you
highly attractive, she may literally begin falling for you. Standing side by side,
she may lean her weight against you for support. When you’re sitting together, she’ll lean toward
you as if she were about to fall into your arms. While they’re not really falling, many women lean
toward the person they like. It is a sign of interest and engagement, but it’s also a trust
exercise. If you can hold her up now, she may feel like you can support her in the future.
15. The Ultimate Sign How do you know when
a woman enjoys spending time with you? We’ve covered many signs of attraction on this list,
ranging from subconscious body language to expressions of gratitude. But the truth
is… if a woman is highly attracted to you, her feelings are usually written all over her face.
She smiles throughout every minute of your time together. She smiles when you look at her, and she
smiles when you don’t. She smiles when you say something funny, intelligent, or even ridiculous.
So, watch the way she smiles around you. If she finds you genuinely attractive,
her smile may never fade. Thank you for watching
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