Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about what women want in a man, biggest lies exposed. Be
honest with me for a second. Have you ever wanted to attract a gorgeous gal? Maybe you just met her
recently, maybe you've noticed her, maybe you've never even talked to her. Or maybe you even have
started dating, but you kind of feel like maybe she's losing interest. No matter the scenario
is there a gal that you want to attract, you like her, you want her to like you back? Have you been
there? Maybe you're there right now? You want her to think you're cute and want to spend time with
you, right? But how do you do that? How do you give her butterflies and make her excited to see
you? I'm going to be completely upfront with you. There are some big lies right now about how to
attract women. And these big lies ruin any chance you have of attracting a high quality woman.
It literally sabotages the relationship even before the relationship starts. And if you follow
these lies you are literally setting yourself up for heartbreak. So in this video, I'm going to be
exposing some of the most popular lies and sharing with you how you can instead start attracting
lasting love with the girl of your dreams. Sounds pretty exciting, right? Make sure you watch until
the end of this video because I don't want you to miss out on any of these lies. Because again,
if you're following them, you're setting yourself up for failure. Before we dive in, make sure you
subscribe and ring the notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men
and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I'm your #1 resource to learn how to attract a
lasting loving relationship with the girl of your dreams without headaches and without heartaches
or mind games. So make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and if you'd like
to learn more about working with me to attract lasting love make sure you visit my website,
coachmelannie.com or check out the link in the description below. All right, let's dive in. If
you've been following me for a while you know that I never teach you how to attract a toxic woman,
right? I never teach you mind games or tricks that frankly don't work. I'm all about sharing with you
how to attract a classy high quality woman. The kind of woman who wants to love you forever. I
want you to know the honest truth so you don't have to get hurt. So as we dive into this video,
I'm going to mention two other videos that will also help you with this. This video and this video
will certainly help you navigate these mind games and instead understand the truth. There are links
in the description below to both of those videos. With that, let's get started with lie number one
about what women want in a man. Lie number one is that all women love bad boys. That is a fat
out lie. Have you ever heard this? This is kind of popular on the internet right now. Seriously,
comment "yes" if you have heard this lie. It's everywhere, right? Are you ready to now
hear the truth, the reality? Only toxic women are attracted to bad boys. Period, end of discussion.
A high quality woman has zero interest in a bad boy. Now here's why: Toxic women love drama,
they love ego, they love working angles, and playing mind games. And, so, yes,
they are attracted to bad boys because, news flash, bad boys are toxic boys, okay?
If you're learning how to be a bad boy you are learning toxic tactics. So it creates this drama
and this ego battle and toxic women absolutely love that because they love the thrill of the
mind games. But a good woman, a classy woman, the kind of woman who wants to give her heart to you
and love you forever, that kind of woman, that's who you're looking for, right? Well, that kind of
woman is looking for a man who she can trust. A man who's loyal, a man who's good, and kind,
and chivalrous. A man who's moral. Those are the things that tell a high quality woman, "Whoa,
he's someone I can count on. He's someone I can give my heart to and know my heart is safe.
He's the kind of man I could absolutely love spending my life with and raising children with."
That kind of man is the kind of man a high quality woman is looking for. Why? Because that's a high
quality man. This means if you're getting your advice from people who are telling you that, "all
women love bad boys," you are literally getting your advice from someone who's teaching you
how to attract toxic women and how to act toxic yourself. That's not what you want.
This is going to sabotage your relationship dreams and keep you from that high quality woman you want
because she's not going to waste any time on a guy who's trying to act like a bad boy. Just
like you want someone who makes your heart happy and makes you feel safe and makes you feel loved,
that's what she's looking for as well. That makes sense, right? But by now you might be thinking,
"Okay, Melannie, yeah, that totally makes sense. I'm in. But what do I do instead? How do I attract
that high quality woman I want? Because if these lies are keeping me from that high quality woman,
what do I do instead?" Is that what you're wondering right now? Because you can't just wing
it, right? You have to actually know how to get the result you want or you're going to stay stuck,
you're going to stay lonely, you're going to stay single. If you've been following me on social
media, you know that I've been hinting at a big secret that I have for you. And I get to tell you
what that secret is right now. Let me introduce you to and invite you to
join me in Attracting Lasting Love Academy. This is my new academy that's going to rock
your world. Attracting Lasting Love Academy is the only training of its kind that shows
you exactly how to attract your dream girl on the deepest level so you can hold her forever without
worrying that you'll lose her. Can you imagine how amazing it would feel to come home every night
and wake up every morning next to the absolute love of your life, knowing that she adores you too
and will adore you forever? Now you can say goodbye to mind games and toxic relationships.
Bottom line, if you have ever wanted a lasting loving relationship you need to check this out
because it has the answers you need. To learn more about this watch my all new completely new
free masterclass. This free training walks you through what you'll learn there, why it works,
and how it works. And I have a few special secrets for you like how to get kisses daily
from the love of your life so it's definitely some free training you need to watch now. All you have
to do is go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass I will also put a link in the description below and
in the pinned comment. Now here's the important part. Because this academy is
new I have a special introductory offer for you. And you need to act now because it's going away
very quickly. Do you want to attract lasting love? Do you want kisses from the love of your
life for a lifetime? You need to watch this. So again, coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out
the link in the description below. Now let's talk about lie number two for what women want in a man.
This lie is that you need to make her chase you. Be honest. Have you ever heard this one? "Oh,
make her chase you. Oh, you need to make her chase you." A lot of people are telling this lie right
now and they say that it will earn you respect. But the truth is, it will do the opposite. In
reality, this strategy hurts both you and her. Let's break it down and talk about the basics
for just a moment. You are attracted to a woman because she's feminine.That's just how it works.
A woman is attracted to a man because he's masculine. This is what makes us good partners and
what creates that healthy attraction. If you take away a man's masculine role she no longer
sees you as masculine. It doesn't help her get more respect for you. It actually causes her to
lose respect for you. She doesn't see you anymore as this strong, confident, masculine
man that she wants to spend her life with. So giving away your masculine role of pursuing
is going to make you feel less confident, make you feel less masculine, and make her see you as less
confident and less masculine. Now does this mean you have to chase her? Of course not. Instead,
it means the two of you pursue each other. In a healthy relationship you're both pursuing each
other and becoming closer as a couple. It's two people proactively working to make the
relationship closer. You will do it in a masculine way, and she will do it in a feminine way,
and that's what makes a relationship fulfilling and exciting and beautiful and fun and loving
and lasting. This is why pursuing the correct way and understanding how she pursues you
are things I teach you in my academy. They have the power to help you create that lasting,
thriving love. So if you want a happy lasting relationship don't make her chase you.
That is only something that toxic women are interested in. High quality women will say, "Whoa,
he's weird," and walk away. So bottom line, the strategy 'make her chase you' is literally only
setting you up for failure and heartache. Do you see how hurtful these lies are? They're terrible,
right? The truth is, I could make a lot more videos on this, exposing more lies,
so that you can avoid them. Is that something you would like? Is that something you would like me to
make more videos on? If it is, comment "truth" in the comments below to let me know. Your feedback
helps me so much, so thank you. Again, if you want more videos where I expose the popular
lies about relationships make sure you comment "truth." Okay, are you ready for lie number three?
Lie number three for what women wants in a man is ignore her to get her attention. Let
me ask you an honest question. Are you ready? Do you want a relationship where she ignores you?
Do you want a relationship where she pulls away? Do you want a relationship where you feel uneasy
and unloved and where she's okay making you feel uncomfortable to get what she wants? Is that
what you're looking for? Of course not, right? That's a horrible relationship. Well, guess what.
She doesn't want a relationship like that either. Ignoring a woman is a mind game. That's all it is.
As a matter of fact, all mind games are just a cop-out because people don't actually know
how to attract someone in a way that makes the relationship last. That's all a mind game is.
So ignoring her to get her attention is a mind game and it's immature. So once again,
this strategy will only work on toxic women. They love the drama, they love the ego. And
a toxic woman, when you ignore her, she says, "Oh, no, uh-uh, I can't have that on my record.
I dump him. He doesn't dump me." So, yeah, she'll come back until she can dump you.
So it's not an effective strategy at all. If you ignore a high quality woman she goes, "Whoa,
this guy's immature. He's needy, he's selfish, and he's childish," and she walks away. If you
want to make a classy high quality good woman walk away from you, play a mind game with her,
like ignoring her to get her attention. Now by now you might be thinking, "Okay, Melannie,
that also makes sense. I get it, and I understand this, but if ignoring her to get her attention,
if that doesn't work, what will?" Because often when people try this strategy it's to re-attract
someone or try and light that spark. But as I mentioned earlier it's a cop-out. It doesn't
actually work. Especially not long-term. So what do you do instead? You need to understand how to
attract her on the deepest level. This is what makes a woman crazy about you. This is what just
melts her heart and makes her give her heart to you and wants to spend her life with you.
When you understand those secrets, that's how you get and keep the love of your life. And this is
what I teach you all about in my new academy, Attracting Lasting Love Academy. It's named
Attracting Lasting Love for a reason. So make sure you watch that new free masterclass to learn all
about it what these strategies are and why they work. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass
or check out the link in the description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment.
But remember, you need to act now before my introductory offer goes away. So check it out
like right now. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Be sure to give me a big thumbs up
and subscribe and ring the notification bell if you haven't yet. I want to hear from you in the
comments. Did any of these lies surprise you, or were you really excited to learn that any of
these were lies? Tell me about it in the comments. And if you want more videos where I expose popular
lies comment "truth" to let me know. Do you have a single friend? He needs to know these lies too,
right? You don't want him sabotaging his relationship, so make sure you share it
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Thank you so much again for watching, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! [blooper beep]
I don't know why that felt a little awkward right there, but it did. [laughter]
Anyway. Okay. We get to make a YouTube video today. It's been a really long time.
I love doing this. Did you miss me? I always miss making YouTube videos. They're really fun. So here
we go! Okay. Um, let's dive in. Let's make this happen. Let's change the world. Let's do this.
I feel like I'm forgetting something, but I don't think I am. Last time forgot
to make a thumbnail. I remembered this time so I'm already over achieving,
not to brag or anything. [laughter] Just kidding. But not really, but kind of, but you know.
Okay. Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about what women want in a man- Oh,
I was really close. Okay. Lie number one is that all women love bad boys.
That makes me mad. Okay, okay, I'm going to do a more professional version of that. Okay, oh yeah,
okay. I'm getting lost in my thoughts because that happens to me a lot. You know, it just happens.
Oh, look at my background. It looks really cute. I fixed it. I forgot to look at it earlier. I have
an Eiffel tower now in the background. It's a metal Eiffel tower. It makes me really happy
because I love the Eiffel tower. Now you know. Okay, moving on. I lost track of what I was doing.
I was just trying to decide if I could write a new song spur of the moment.
But then I decided I would probably just be embarrassing myself. So
I'll save it for another video because that's what I do, you know.
I'll think about it, but then I guess it wouldn't be spur of the moment. Never mind. Okay.