What are the reasons that she's not being responsive to you and going cold?
Here's the first one.
Women and you have a lot of choices these days.
Now that we have the internet, we've been able to connect with each other over online
dating apps and dating sites or just going on Facebook or meetup.
com or whatever is available to you today to go to events to meet people.
There's all these options to meet people.
We kind of have this terrible paradox of choice mentality where we say there's so many people
to choose from.
How do we choose?
It's very easy for a woman and yourself to be pickier in the dating arena.
They might be again, this is all hypothetical potential, they might be so picky because
now they know they can have anyone because there's so many options out there, that they're
not choosing you.
That's one reason.
I don't think it's necessarily, to that extent, like, that's their mentality.
They're like well I have so many choices.
I'm not going to pick this one.
But they definitely see that maybe there's something they didn't like about the guy.
And they said, you know what, I'm just gonna pay attention to that mindset and say, forget
him because there's probably someone else out there who's going to have exactly what
I'm looking for.
Not a healthy mindset.
But it's happening.
Here's probably one of the biggest reasons why they're going cold, they're not excited
by you.
They're not excited by you, you're boring, you haven't triggered attraction, you haven't
done anything to make this girl feel that spike of emotion when you're around her, you
haven't built up that sexual tension with her, you haven't used any of the techniques
that I've been teaching you on my channel.
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it takes for you to display your personality to be that attractive guy to women.
A lot of guys, they're not putting themselves out there enough so they don't feel comfortable
in front of women.
They feel kind of shy so they try to approach or they try to talk to a girl, they go on
a first date from an app and they're not optimizing and maximizing their potential to basically
show off their best self.
This is showing the lack of excitement.
And maybe a girl's somewhat excited and she doesn't want to reject you in the moment.
Or maybe she's thinking about she might like you so she gives you her number, only to find
out later on that she was never really that interested.
And she just moves on and she doesn't respond to you or doesn't agree to the date.
That's the general reason why she might not agree to it.
I think that's the number one reason because if you were interesting, if you were able
to trigger attraction, she would respond to you and want to meet up with you.
Here's another one that guys aren't thinking about.
They might be in the middle of dating other guys.
I'm not saying that they have a boyfriend.
But what I'm saying is, is they might be dating multiple guys, a lot of women these days,
guys included are dating multiple people.
So maybe you come around and you kind of accept her a little bit.
But she's still dating this other guy who she's more interested in who's already been
on three dates with he's winning.
Could be the same thing could be the reverse, you could be one of the guys who's meeting
a girl, you're on a third date with her another guy hits on her.
And she's kind of ignoring him because she's more interested in you.
Her attention is more on that person, the person that she's more interested in at the
moment, again, maybe she's dating multiple people, women are doing that these days.
Okay, so you have to understand that you might not be the priority, even though in the moment,
she seemed excited, which kind of leads me to the next one.
This is something very interesting.
This is something I learned from one of the instructors and RSD when I was watching some
of their videos.
And it's it's not the concept that I learned, but I love the way that they labeled it.
They say that sometimes women get caught up in the emotions of the moment, okay.
And it's funny, because I saw this happening with myself my own journey.
I know it's happening with other guys.
But what a great way to describe it, they get caught up in the emotions of the moment.
A lot of guys get this to again, I'm not just trying to single out women here, but I'm talking
to you about why women are going cold, right?
So they get really excited by you in the moment.
Maybe they had a drink.
Maybe they're just out having a good time.
Maybe they just had a good day that day, and they meet you and it's all exciting.
And they think Yeah, I'll give this guy my number.
Maybe you even made out with her maybe even took her home that night.
It's all exciting.
But when you're texting her The next day, or a week later, or whatever, she's not in
that same mentality that she was, when you're now texting her.
Again, I think this is a little bit more rare.
But it absolutely happens, right is that she was excited then.
But now she's getting a text from you.
She's getting off a work tired is eight o'clock, she sort of remembers the interaction with
you, it was kind of nice.
But you know what, she's just dealing with other things.
And she just we'll get to that later.
And she kind of forget about you.
I also think that that one also combined with one of the earlier things I said with the
fact that you weren't that exciting, you know, I don't think that if you were really hardcore,
like doing a great job, and she was attracted to you, that you so caught up in the emotions
of the moment that she'll just push you aside, I think that she was really excited then,
but also maybe not fully into it, just enough to be excited in that moment.
And later on, she kind of loses it.
And it's like, okay, you know, forget about this guy.
Here's the thing.
I'm not trying to throw women under the bus here.
I'm not trying to like I said single them out.
But this happens, you know, they do get guys excited, they can lead a person on, but you
got to think about it this way, I know that you would do it too, if you had a lot of women
who are approaching you all the time, the same exact thing would happen.
You'd give your number to some you wouldn't to others reject some reject others, you know,
be easier for you to meet women because they're coming to you.
And that would be that kind of reality.
And the same thing would happen.
Maybe you'd respond, sometimes you wouldn't, you'd only kind of want to go for the ones
that you're really excited for.
So try to understand where she's coming from.
Now, I don't think it's cool to give someone your number and then not respond, I would
hope that that person just doesn't do that.
But some women, people are just scared to reject people.
So I'm not saying it's right.
But understand that's happening.
And that's why it's happening.
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I'll see you on the next video.