(00:00): What do you do when you know what to do, but
you're terrified to do it.
(00:12): Okay.
So this is perfectly normal and it happens to a lot of us, especially when it has to
do with big life decisions.
Okay.
So the bigger, the life decisions, sometimes the more terrified we are of, of kind of taking
that, that step or taking that leap of faith.
Okay.
So for this particular question, the, the good news here is that you already know what
to do.
So that's great because a lot of times, one of the most difficult things that people face
when, when they're walking their path is having access to that clear intuition that lets them
know, am I, should I go right?
Or should I go left or should I go straight ahead?
Okay.
So a lot of times people struggle to develop that intuition of where to go left, right.
Or straight.
So, so this person here, this submitted the question they're already there at the place
where they know in their heart that they wanna go this way.
(01:05): Okay.
But now the fear starts to creep in, right?
Because even when, you know, with all of your heart that you wanna go in this direction,
taking that first step can be very, very terrifying, especially if it's a big step or a big decision.
Okay.
And so if this is the case, if it's, if, even if it's a small decision, but usually we feel,
we feel blocked or stuck or terrified to the point where we can't move.
It's usually when it's a bigger decision when it's something really consequential in our
lives.
Okay.
And so when this is happening, usually what I recommend is to just start small.
Okay.
So for some people , and that happens a lot with my energy.
So if I have a big life decision to make the, the picture that I have is I'm St. I'm standing
on this big cliff and I'm right at the edge of the cliff.
(01:52): And I just throw myself off the cliff.
, that's just me.
I have very strong Sagittarian fire energy.
And so when I make a decision, it's like, okay, I'm just gonna throw myself off the
cliff.
Like, there's no point, like no point I'm gonna throw myself off the cliff.
It's the same thing I do when I go in the ocean.
If it, if, if I go in water, that's really cold.
What's the point of tiptoeing into the water.
I always think that's insane cuz I'm like, tiptoeing is not gonna help.
I'm just gonna throw myself in the water.
And yeah, I may scream for a little while because it's really cold, but then I'm gonna
get used to it and I'm gonna get it over with.
Whereas some people prefer to, to, to step in cold water with very, very one foot at
a time kind of getting used to the water and then going a little bit more.
(02:33): So I don't know what type of energy the person
that submitted this question has.
But if you don't have the type of energy that I have, which is that fiery energy, that just
goes head first into things, then what you can do is you can actually start slower and
build, practice up to that.
So I'll give a, a practical example.
If you have a big life decision, you know, that's what you wanna do, but you're, you're
kind of paralyzed by fear.
Take one little step at a time towards that decision.
So I don't know specifically what this person's decision is, but I'll give a practical example
cuz I like to work with practical examples.
So let's say you live in, let's say you live in San Francisco and you have this really
strong intuition that you need to move to New York.
Okay.
Literally across the country.
(03:18): And you know, this is gonna mean that maybe
you have to change jobs and maybe your whole life is gonna change because now you're literally
moving from coast to coast.
Okay.
And this is paralyzing you.
Oh my God, that's a really big move.
I have to sell my house.
And then I have to find my, a job in New York and I have to find a house in New York.
And so there can be a lot of little things going on that really paralyze you.
So start small.
And, and what you'll notice is when you start small and you start to invite the universe
to come in, things start to get a lot easier and the fear starts to dissipate.
So for example, if using this practical example, if you know, in your heart that you wanna
move to New York, then okay.
Instead of getting overwhelmed for all the things that you have to do, just step one
little step towards that move towards that movement to New York.
(04:04): So maybe it could be something as small as
you going on a real estate website and just checking out what apartments are for rent.
And just looking through the pictures and seeing if there's an apartment that catches
your attention, you know, like visually, visually see yourself in this new space.
And it helps if you're like on a real estate website and you're looking at spaces and then
you see yourself in that space.
Okay.
So it could be something as it could be something as simple as this, or it could be something
like you taking a weekend and just taking a weekend off and just taking a quick trip
to New York and walking around and getting to know the city and getting to feel the city
and waiting for synchronicities.
And then you go back to San Francisco and you know, after the weekend and that in itself
is a step.
(04:47): Okay.
So, but you see what I mean?
Like you're taking small steps towards eventually packing your bags and moving to New York.
It doesn't have to be in one fell swoop, but when you feel that paralyzing fear, if you
just take one small little action at a time, you're gonna start to build the confidence
to dent to then take that big action for other people.
It could, the first step could be something as simple as you sitting down in the, just
sitting down and, and talking to the universe, closing your eyes and saying to yourself,
I'm gonna do that.
Please show me how I've done this many, many times.
So I've literally said to the universe when I know, and I'm guided that I had to be in
a specific place, I would say, okay, I'm moving, I'm moving to that place.
Please show me how, like literally I've done this many times and what ends up happening
is that energy of me saying to the universe, I wanna go over there, please show me how
the universe then starts opening doors.
(05:43): Okay.
So it could be, your little step could be something as simple as sitting down and meditation
and saying to the universe I'm doing this, please show me how please show me the best
way to do this.
and then the universe is gonna start to show you signs and synchronicities on the,
the path of least resistance to get to that, to get to what you're, what you're internally,
what you're intuitively feeling guided to do.
Okay.
But I hope this helps if it's a big decision, just go one little step at a time.
If that's your energy, if you have an energy, more like mine, uh, the, the, the advice is,
is simpler.
And that is just throw yourself off the cliff.
throw yourself in the cold water, just, just throw yourself and, and you know,
but if you don't have my energy, then one little step at a time will get you there.