Valentine's Day is here and before you start to label it as a cheesy Hallmark
holiday, let me just say that this time of the year is the perfect opportunity to ask
a girl out. Why? Because literally from January the 1st,
she is already thinking, hoping and wishing that she has a date for Valentine's Day.
I'm Renee Slansky for The Attractive Man team
and in this video I'm going to give you 10 easy ways that you can get a
last-minute date for Valentine so that you can make this February the 14th count.
Alright, are you ready to accept the mission? Let's jump straight in!
#10 Go to a singles event. Now, you'll probably be surprised just how
many anti-Valentine's Day parties. There are out there. So, why not grab a couple
of your mates and actually go along to one of these events and make a night of it?
Truth is you will be literally in a room surrounded by single women who are
probably wishing that they're not going to be here again next year because they
actually want to have a boyfriend. Now, if you want to know the next easy ways to
get a last-minute Valentine's date, then all you need to do is click the
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#9 Carry a bunch of roses around and give them to women that you're attracted to.
Now, this might sound really kind of crazy, but why not get creative? If you can have a bunch of
roses whether they're real or not, it doesn't really matter and actually go
around and hand one out to a woman that you're attracted to. It is a perfect way
to start a conversation. Now, it's not to say that every woman that you give a
rose to will want to go on a date with you. But my guess is if you actually do
this enough times to enough sort of women, you're going to have a pretty good
chance that one of them is going to say yes. #8 Ask the girl out at the gym.
Now, I'm guessing if you go to the gym there's probably a little cutie that
you've been eyeing off for a while or maybe, you've had a couple of
conversation exchanges. Well, Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to
actually ask her out on a date. Now, the way that you might want to do this is
simply slip her a little message that says, "will you be my Valentines?"
Chances are she's going to have a giggle and she'll probably actually want it,
eventually go on a date with you. #7 Do a hashtag search for Valentine's on social media.
There will literally be so many girls
out there on Instagram and Facebook talking about how they wish they had a
boyfriend for Valentine's or how they feel lonely on Valentine's Day, so why
not search a couple of hashtags to actually work out who is searching for a
date and who was single. Now, some of those hashtags might be #SinglesAwarenessDay
or #NeedAValentine or #NeedABoyfriend
This is a great opportunity to actually reach out to those women because you
know it's on their heart and mind and start a conversation. And who knows you
might even actually be able to ask one of them on a date if they live in the same area as you.
#6 Go to a single parent meetup. If you are a single dad, one of the easiest ways
that you can start to connect to women who understand
what it's like to be in a single parent is going to a single parent group. Now,
the way that you actually find them is either doing a google search, looking on
your community, notice board or even typing it into Facebook in some of the
group sections. Chances are the single moms at this time
of the year will be feeling a little bit lonely. So they will be up for going for a date with you.
#5 Ask your work colleagues if they can set you up.
Now, whilst it's not ideal to go out and date your work colleagues, it's not to
say that you can't date your friends. Sometimes, finding a match is purely
about using your social circle and connections and expanding that network
through the people that you actually work with. And all you're doing is asking
for them to set you up on a blind date. #4 Join a dating app or an online site.
Now, this might seem really obvious and you might already be on a
couple but what I want you to do is understand it like this. At this time of
the year, women are looking for dates especially Valentine's Day. We all know
that Valentine's Day is more about the female than it is about the guys. Sorry,
but that's just the way it is. Why? Because it's an overly romantic holiday
so if you're able to use Valentine's Day as an excuse or a motive to be able to
ask these girls out, they're more likely to say yes because they would
spend it with somebody than be alone. It means that you can have an earlier
chance of actually dating that person rather than sitting back and waiting,
waiting, waiting and having all these other guys jump in between before you.
#3 Host a dinner party. Dinner parties are a great sort of informal way
to meet new people in the comfort of your own home. Now, obviously you're not
just going to invite the people you know. You want to encourage any of your
friends who are coming to your party to actually invite somebody that you don't
know, one of their friends, whether they're single or not isn't really
irrelevant. Again this is just about increasing your social circle because
you never know who you might meet through somebody else.
#2 Buy a random girl a coffee. I feel like this is one of those old-school things that guys
just don't do anymore. We all know that most people like coffee and coffee is
expensive so why not use this perfect opportunity. Next time that you go to
your local coffee store or you might go to a couple of different coffee stores
to kind of scope out where the hot girls are, see a girl that you like and then
offer to buy her a coffee even if it's the girl that works behind the counter. Finding dates
is often just about recognizing opportunities in different environments and circumstances.
And lastly, #1 Go on a date with yourself I know this sounds really sort of cheesy but let's face it,
the most important relationship that you will ever have in your entire life is the
relationship with yourself. I personally am someone who continually
dates myself over and over again, whether I go to the movies by myself. I take
myself out for dinner, I take myself out for coffee. It is actually learning to be
able to thrive as a single person and be okay with not always having a date. Now,
in most of these scenarios, you're going to actually have to have a conversation
with someone to kind of get the ball rolling so if this is something that you
really struggle with, then I want you to hold the phone and I want you to
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can actually ask her out and have a date for Valentine's Day. All you need to do
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image on the screen. Well, that's it, guys. I think that you can try at least one to
two. Maybe even three of those 10 easy ways to get a Valentine's date. If that is
what you wanted this February the 14th, what I want you to do it is to hit the
subscribe button and give us a big thumbs up. Don't forget to download our
conversation cheat sheet and I want you to put down below in the comments which
added the 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 ways you are going to try and get a date whether
it's 5 then put 5, whether it's 4 then put 4, because we're all about supporting
each other here. And I want to make sure that you know that it is possible if
this is what you want. And until next time, you'll always be my Valentine. Bye for now!