Girls, have you ever noticed how at the moment you get a boyfriend,
every guy seems to want you?
Today, we're going to explain exactly why that is and show you how you can use that
in your single life. Hey, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours.
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Okay, so girls, we've all had that frustrating dating situation where no one seems to be
around for months on end, and then finally you meet someone, you get along great, you decide
to take things a bit more seriously, and it's like the nanosecond you make him your boyfriend
every guy in the world seems to show up and wants you. Why is this? Well look, most people
just put this down to one thing, guys wanting what they can't have, but that in fact is
only a small part of the reason. There's lots of things guys can't have that they don't
go after. And so what is it that makes guys predictably want you so much more the moment
you get a boyfriend? Without even realizing in many cases you'll find your whole energy
and the way you carry yourself changes. So the reason I'm doing this video is because
these changes are so attractive and if you know what they are, you can use them when
you're single.
You can have them when you're single and attract guys in the same way you would when you have
a boyfriend. So number one, you love your life and your world. So when you enter a new
relationship, you have this like skip in your step. Whereas guys look at you and were like,
who is this ray of sunshine? Who is this amazing girl we want to be a part of that, we wonder
why this girl is just like so automatically happy all the time. And we want to find out
more about her. I mean if you met a guy that was so inexplicably jolly all the time, wouldn't
you be attracted to him as well? So when you love your world as single as much as you do
when you have a boyfriend, and you're excited about life, you can attract guys the same
way because you'll carry that same energy to you.
Number two is you're not trying to get anything from interactions. So how attractive is a
guy that is talking to you just for the sake of talking to you, a guy who doesn't have
an agenda to sleep with you and is only there purely to enjoy the conversation. That's so
attractive, right? It makes you curious about it, yeah? Well it's the same thing when we
look at you. We'll see a girl who doesn't have an agenda when she's in a relationship and
we'll wonder why she must have it so good. What is it about her that she's so happy within
herself? So let me give you an example. Imagine you're at a party and you're talking to a
hot guy and a male friend of yours that you don't have other interest in, comes along
and joins the conversation. Now, a lot of girls when they're single will be kind of,
they won't be crazy happy to have him there.
I mean, they'll accept him and they'll, they'll have a bit of a chat to him, but a lot of
their attention will still go towards making sure things work with the hot guy and talking
to him. But with a girl who's taken in a relationship, she's not interested in an outcome, right?
So she's going to turn a lot of her attention to her male friend and she's gonna talk to
him a lot and the hot guy is gonna feel a little bit like he's missing out. He's gonna
wonder why, unlike every girl, you don't seem to have an agenda to get anything from him
and he's going to be curious and attracted to that. And so, if when you are single, you
can approach conversations with attractive guys without an outcome in mind, without you
know, anything without caring if anything goes well, you'll be able to generate those
same sort of interested responses from those attractive guys because you're giving off
that same energy.
So number three, you become confident and fearless around hot guys. So this is pretty
obvious, but when you're in a relationship, you don't care how, how it goes. It's like
we just said, you're not fazed about the outcome of the interaction. So when you're single,
you're more nervous cause you want things to go well. If you can take on the "nothing
to lose" attitude that you have when you're in a relationship, you can be just as fearless
and confident around a hot guy when you're single, as you are in your relationship.
Number four, girls, you don't overthink guys.
So this is a big one. So many single girls push
guys away by giving too much energy and space in their brains to the guys. If you're in
a relationship, for example, and you invited a guy friend to a event with you, say an attractive
guy friend, and let's say you invited him and he didn't call you back all day, or he
didn't even text you back, would you really care?
Would you even notice? You'd probably just go to the party anyway with your boyfriend
or your other friends and you wouldn't even think about why he didn't text you back. You'd
probably go, Oh, he's just being useless today or he's busy, but when you're single, so often
he doesn't get back to you. It's like, where's he? Are there other girls? Who's he with?
Why hasn't he replied? Who is she? So that carefree take me or leave me attitude is
so attractive to guys when you're in a relationship. And so if you can adopt that same attitude
when you're single and not overthink guys, you'll get the exact same responses from men
as you usually do when you're in a relationship. And number five, you become hard to get without
even playing. You don't have to play hard to get. Now, never play hard to get, but you
can be hard to get as just a way of life.
And that is attractive. And that of course happens when you naturally have a boyfriend
because you have other things going on. So imagine if you're single and you hang out
with an attractive guy and he suggests hanging out again tomorrow. You actually know you
have yoga, but you kind of go, well I suppose I could squeeze things around and squeeze
him in. Whereas when you're in a relationship, you wouldn't treat your boyfriend like that.
You'd be like, no, I'm hanging out with my boyfriend. So if you can adopt that same attitude
where you just fill your life up with things and it's not about playing hard to get, but
it's just being who you are and putting things that you do in front of him before he owns
the right to sort of squeeze into your schedule. You can have those same responses from a guy
when you're single as you would usually get when you're in a relationship.
Well, girls, hopefully you know why some guys want you more now when you're in a relationship
and that it's not just because they won't want, they can't have, but that there's very
specific energy changes that go on that you exude that draw men into you and that you
can now apply those things when you're single to get the same responses from guys. Girls,
I hope you enjoyed the video. Let me know. What do you think? Do you agree? Disagree?
Do you have other theories on why guys want you more when you're in a relationship?
I'd love to hear from you. Let me know in the comments below. Make sure you check out the
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if you enjoyed it, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks again for watching girls. I can't
wait to chat to you all very soon.
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