you are so powerful that you can even create the illusion that you're
powerless or that you are stuck and the cool thing is that once you let go of
that once you realize the truth of the matter that's when the whole entire
energy dynamic changes and in this video I'm gonna show you exactly how to do
that welcome back to another video my name is
Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness now in this video I'm
gonna be sharing with you how to get unstuck and how to be powerful by
understanding that you're doing it to yourself it's actually what's happening
is you're so powerful that you can create the illusion you're not powerful
and when we start to see it from that point of view we then start to ask new
questions we then start to ask why am I doing this why am i doing this why am i
creating this for myself and anytime we get to something where we feel stuck
what that means is there's some type of definition or block in our own mind it
says something that it's a something it's a something that is there because
we almost are insisting that it's there now there's been times in my life as
where well what you do is you just simply let go of that resistance and you
allow the stuffed nests to be there many times it insurance forms it's a very
powerful thing and I remember specifically when we feel stuck we feel
like our story the story were telling ourselves the believes something to be
true and we believe that that story is static this is the way it is this is the
way it's going to continue to be and because of that we stay inside of that
reality I'll remember specifically as well that it can many times we use as
motivation I remember feeling stuck and powerless in one specific scenario at
the old job that I had many of you may know my story I'm just gonna used to
work at Barneys New York and women's shoes and I it was a sales commission
job and there was this there was this time
when the upper management there I mean it was there probably the whole time I
was there but they were it was very much like a corporate type thing where like
the store manager was very controlling and he would stress out the managers
under him and then those managers would put stress on us as sales employees and
I worked in women's shoes and there was this day that I went in and I got
brought up to the office and there was this office room called the Situation
Room don't know why they called it the Situation Room doesn't that sound so
negative could've been like the conference room or like the magical
fairyland room but no it was the Situation Room so I walk into the
Situation Room and there is the store manager who I didn't really get along
with I thought he was I just thought he was very controlling and negative and to
way way too serious and it's him it's my department manager who was a nice guy
but he's also just kind of serious because he was being pressured by the
other manager and then there was also a regional manager all three managers were
there and they're like Aaron very seriously come into the Situation Room
and sit down and I'm like okay and I'm you know I wear two suits I'm you know
it's what I wear a suit every day to work you know selling women's shoes at
Barneys New York the average price was like $800 so it was like a high-end kind
of a stuffy type environment to be honest and I go in and I sit down and
I'm like okay what's going on it's like will you please in this situation room
look over at the projector there was a projector right there and what they did
is they then showed me they showed me this Emmitt they showed me this video
it's a ten minute long video ten minutes long and they wanted me to watch this
whole entire 10 minute long video in this video was of me it was a camera
that was on me in the back stockroom on my phone now here is the thing at this
store not trying to justify it but at this store you will be standing around
for sometimes four hours without a single customer coming in because it's
so slow because it's such a high-end place you only need like one or two
customers good day so you just be staying around
for four hours so what we do is we have other co-workers we'd have someone on
the sales floor one of us would go back and just chill for like 30 minutes while
there's no customers on the floor and then we would take turns so it's kind of
like as long as some when someone's on the sales were to help someone if they
need help that it was okay so we're go in the back it just kind of be on the
phone and the one this is one of those times where I was on my phone for like
ten minutes straight well what they did is they were making they wanted me to
watch the whole entire ten minute video it's in silence with them and I was like
after about 30 seconds like okay I get it so I was on my phone you guys saw me
on my phone they're like no Aaron keep watching the video and I'm like okay so
I keep watching the video and I was like no I joined another 15 seconds like guys
I get the point and they're like just keep watching it and I was like I was
like I'm not going to keep watching it I get the point
it shouldn't be on my phone and in in that moment the way they talked down to
me after like just in general after that they talked down to me so much made me
feel so small so powerless I felt stuck at that nine-to-five job I didn't like
here's what I did though I used that situation as motivation after that
they're like if you ever found doing that again you're gonna get like last
and final or something like that like they they're another threat you can now
leave the situation good luck selling shoes and having a good day it's like
okay now I'm gonna go and have a great day sell excuse because I'm in such a
great mood now that this happened but here's what I did I took and I used that
as motivation I use that to change my story I realized I'm working this
nine-to-five job that I don't really enjoy and shortly after that I made the
choice to go daily on YouTube and that changed everything I remember even as he
was talking to me the two or three managers were talking to me I remember
thinking to myself I don't want to ever have a boss I do not want a boss the
only reason I did sales commission job is because I could put my own intention
and have my own like rip their own benefits of it from my own intention and
you know every day was different so his Commission so so kind
like that but I was like after that was like I do not want to boss I want to be
my own boss I would never have someone talk to me like that again so you see
when we talk about being powerless or stuck sometimes you can use these
negative situations and you can reframe them to say no never again
this means this and then you go in a new direction that's exactly what I did I
may not be living the life of my dreams right now at the level that I am maybe
if that situation didn't happen because of the meaning I gave it
it comes from meaning when we talk about I felt powerless with my whole ex step
up situation between seven and 15 years old where I was beat down physically
mentally emotionally not allowed to have friends not allowed to eat enough food
many times just locked outside having to work all day with my brother and when I
look at that after my dad divorced her when I was 15 then I still felt
powerless and I still felt like unworthy but you want to know when it changed
when I went through my spiritual awakening I realized the meaning I was
giving it the meaning we give the past situations tends to still have power of
his over us in the now unless we change that meaning I realized that my
spiritual awakening led me that that negative situation with my ex stepmom
between 7 to 15 years old that led me to the pressure of my spiritual awakening
years later when I was like 21 and it changed my entire life so I didn't
change the meaning and then I started to feel powerful I started to feel not so
stuck because of the meaning wasn't so heavy this is exactly what it's about
it's about becoming aware of what I call this is what it is by the way I call
them identity beliefs identity beliefs identity beliefs are beliefs about who
we are and if we believe that we are powerless if we believe we're not worthy
then that is our experience and reality will reflect that back to us we may feel
powerless and go out into the world and then other people treat us like we're
not worthy other people talk down to us I've been with people before and I've
seen the way someone talks to someone else that I'm with
my wife you let someone talk to you like that or how does this someone even talk
to you like that like they would never talk to me like that and I don't know if
is my it's my own belief or at my own boundaries but understand that if you
have these negative identity beliefs they're on autopilot they're gonna
continue to attract the same situations over and over again which means you
continue to feel stuck you continue to feel like you don't have power which of
course you do people treat you a certain way people
may take advantage of you people may siphon your own energy not value you for
who you really are this is part of the side effect of having what are called
negative identity beliefs and when you change that it changes everything when I
learn meditation and more specifically when I learned how to observe these
beliefs and completely release them it changed my whole entire life I went from
working that nine-to-five job to doing what I love I went from feeling the pain
of my past to realizing how it fueled me I went from feeling on a scale of 1 to
10 with 10 feeling amazed and one feel not so great I'm feeling like a 3 out of
10 which wasn't great at all as my base point to feeling like a seven or eight
and it was because I changed those negative identity beliefs that it
changed everything so this really is the key change your negative identity
beliefs beliefs about who you are I used to believe I had ADHD that was the
reality I experienced because I believed it I change and I reframed that and that
changed about me I then used to believe that I wasn't worthy because of the
meaning I gave to the past therefore that was my reality
and I kept attracting people I remember I kept tracking people in my life that
was the same personality as Mac's stepmom there was a girl next door
friend that was like that then there was also a manager that I had at Nordstrom's
before I went to Barneys New York the only two short stores are really able to
work towards Nordstrom's for years and then Barneys three years Nordstrom's
this I had to manage that as the same exact ways Mac said I'm gonna talk down
to me same type of thing I let it happen because I thought that's what I was
worthy of and even I just kept attracting people like that you wanna
know the interesting thing I had the ex often in my life within a week of
breaking up with that ex-girlfriend I got transferred to the better department
at Nordstrom's which seems like a really great thing but the manager that
department was the same as my ex stepmom there's always someone in my life to
control me until I became aware of that pattern maybe you find that you keep
attracting people in your life that make you feel powerless make you feel stuck
understand there's a pattern there when you let go of that pattern that pattern
is linked to those identity beliefs if you change those identity believes to
changes everything and the way that I did that is through meditation
understanding not just any meditation though a meditation that goes beyond the
identity and what I'll do is this video will come out right now when I have
something that is now out called mind shift meditations these are five
meditations with five modules meant to transform your life for you to take your
power back live life on your terms in five weeks or less guaranteed you can
click the link on the top of the description box to check that out
there's also something really cool in there there's a a bonus called the
Epiphany notes which is all my notes inside of my my iPad screenshots of many
different books I've read with circle sections with little handwritten
scribbled notes and then also all my favorite documentaries music I listen to
it's called the Epiphany oh it's really cool but anyways this is something that
I'm very passionate about that the most powerful meditations I've ever created
the whole entire idea behind it was can you you feel stuck if you fall powerless
if you feel unworthy it comes from an identity belief and if you want to
change those I have those five meditations will make you go beyond your
identity and it will completely change from the inside out so you can start to
be empowered to create life on your terms so that you can start to feel
worthy to attract someone in your life to attract to just feel that love from
within and that's the idea of mind shift meditations it's in the top description
box check it out right now it's the best time to join with all the bonuses
included and realize the only reason you're stuck is because you believe
you're stuck and there's some attachment that you have to labels there's some
block that you feel because of something you're insisting about your current
your story is not static you can change your story right now the idea is if you
feel stuck right now you continue to change to feeling stuck you see what I
mean your new person right now your new
person right now it's a new moment it's a new moment it's a new moment but
what's happening is we're saying I'm stuck I'm stuck I'm stuck I'm stuck
you're not stuck you're just you working through this energy if you allow
yourself to let go of that let go of that belief let go of the story you let
go of being stuck that's exactly what mindSHIFT meditations is made for and
helps to do so like I said come on check that out
hit the link at the top to the description box other than that as
always I hope you enjoyed this video subscribe if you haven't already I got a
lot more cool videos coming and as always peace wish left and I'm Stan