I don't know, but I'm gonna break
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So Meghan Markle just gave a brand
new interview to New York Magazine.
It's called The Cut.
She got all kinds of beautiful photos and
you know, it's supposed to be like
showing the world that she's moving on.
You know, she ends the the article
with her saying that she's forgiving
and she's moving on,
and that's really what the
article is supposed to be about.
But that's really not what it's about
and here's the problem that I have with it
and this is what happens with people
who are narcissist that can't help
themselves from wanting to
constantly paint themselves.
Especially covert narcissists
as the victim and they're they'readdicted
to looking like the victim
and they're addicted to wanting attention
and they're addicted to this
need for narcissistic supply
and there's need for distorting reality
and there's need for
these delusions of grandeur
and painting other people as the villains and this
us versus them mentality
and that's what's happening here,
it's or so it seems
and I'm going to give you a couple of examples
from the article that I find to be red flags.
One of them is the journalist states
that she says that she wants the
journalist to actually put in the article that,
you know, life is so hard for her one thing
that she wants the journalist to transscribe,
and I wanna make sure that
I quote this correctly here.
So I wrote this down.
At one point in our conversation,
instead of answering questions,
she will suggest how I might
transcribe the noises which she is making,
which Markle suggests
should be described like this.
If she's making these guttural sounds,
which I can't quite articulate,
what is in that moment what she's feeling,
she has no words for it.
She's just moaning.
Like, oh you know,
like, she's moaning in some way.
She's just like, her life is so horrible.
She's just moaning and it's just awful.
She got Harry to leave the palace.
She got everything she wanted.
There was this huge brouhaha about it.
It was even called mexit or whatever it was
and she made this huge stink about that.
She got everything she wanted from that.
She got him away from his family,
which is a huge big deal.
I mean, that was a huge big deal.
She even landed this Oprah interview.
She got that.
They signed deals with Netflix
and there's major money coming in.
She's living in massive mansion in Montecito
with Ellen DeGeneres and Oprah as her neighbors
and she wants the New York Magazine
journalist to transcribe
moaning to make it look like
she's this massive victim.
I mean, even if she doesn't feel like her life
is great to have that be the transcription.
People aren't going to feel sorry for her.
I mean, she's Princess and she's got all this money
and she's living in this mansion and you know,
I mean, people aren't gonna feel sorry for that
and it's just bizarre.
Then she goes on and this is in the article.
She goes on to talk about how she wouldn't let
the Palace distribute photographs of her son.
She says in the article and this is again a
direct quote
Why would I give the
very people that are calling my children the n word?
The n word?
This is a direct quote.
Very inflammatory.
The n word of my child before I could
share it with the people that love my child.
Now, this is a huge leap.
A huge leap.
She told the world in the Oprah interview year
and a half ago that there was some
kind of reference that someone made
about the shade of skin
that her child might have.
That is one reference.
That is a huge leap between a reference of
what color skin her child might have.
Between that and calling someone the n word.
Huge leap and that is very,
very inflammatory story and actually lander is.
But, of course, she doesn't say who
it's a pretty vague reference and
of course, she doesn't say anything that's
specific enough that could
actually come back on her.
But again, it's enough that
she's during this backup.
She's stirring up the race card again.
She got a lot of attention from
that from the Oprah interview
and so she wants to get this
attention back going again
because she got a lot of attention from
that app after the Oprah interview.
Now I do notice that there's
not an ongoing seemingly
relationship with Oprah and her and them.
I don't know if that's true or not.
You know, it appears that maybe Oprah
has distance herself from them.
I don't know.
Maybe she hasn't.
But again, she's playing the race car.
She said, I could try to look
like the victim here It's not good.
I mean, why would she say something like that?
It's so, so, so inflammatory.
So inflammatory and
painting herself as the victim.
It's a very narcissistic kind of a thing to do.
She also says in the article,
this is the same article that somebody
from the Lion King cast said to her,
you know, around the time
that they were married,
that she was approached by somebody from
the Lion King cast who said I wanted to know that
when you married into the royal family
that we rejoiced in the streets the same
as we did when Mandela was freed from prison.
Now, article says
obviously she knows she's no Mandela
but, you know, the fact that she
would even repeat something like that
and and liken herself to that
and the fact that she even pull something
like that that marrying into a royal family
and coming of Princess is the same at all as
a man who spent twenty seven years
in bondage in prison
and puts herself into that same category.
It's just so mind blowing and repeats that.
You know, she's trying to equate herself with
somebody of that caliber and
she wants to be you know
in the same vein as a Mandela and an Oprah
and she has these delusions of grandeur
and she's just very unaware of how that comes off.
Just very unaware of how that makes her look
and she ends the the article by
talking about forgiveness.
She gives the interview under the auspices
of moving on and that sort thing,
but it's really an article to again stir up
the whole thing about the racism,
and the point fingers to make herself look like
the victim to bring up the whole thing again.
It's not good.
I would just say,
you know, she displays
characteristics of a narcissist,
it seems to me.
So it doesn't seem to be a person who feels
old and complete and a person who feels
to me like a person who stands in her own power
and is not looking in the direction of maybe
people who might have heard her
and moving on and and just saying,
hey, I am whole.
I am complete,
I am moving on I look to my own
power and I stand encouraged.
I stand in who I am for me as a person
because if that were the case,
that would shine through.
You would feel that.
You would feel that power.
She wouldn't be talking about anybody else.
She wouldn't need to be referencing Mandela.
She wouldn't need to be referencing anyone else.
She wouldn't need to be talking about people
who talked about the n word or any of that
you would feel her talking
about power and how to move on
and you would know,
you would feel that coming through.
If any of you have anything
to say about any of this.
I would love to know what your comments are.
I did do another video on my reaction
to her interview with Oprah at the time,
which you can check out that video if you'd like
and I would love to know what your
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