hi everyone Adrienne Everheart today I'm gonna talk about three things that are repelling men
from you you may not even be aware these things are driving a man away keeping him from chasing
and pursuing you and they're very subtle things that we can be doing in the dating process as
women now if you're familiar with my work you know I am a feminine energy relationship coach
for women I teach you how to date and have a relationship from your feminine energy
so feminine energy is a very relaxed leaning back you're not having to do anything you're not having
to take action you're not having to make things happen with the man or the relationship you're
not having to do the work you just receive this doesn't mean you're a doormat this doesn't mean
you let men walk all over you and you're always nice it's none of that stuff it's actually very
authentic work I talk about how when you're a young girl you're naturally in your feminine
energy and it's something that you lose over time because the world is very hard very tough and you
realize I need to be very tough and very resilient if I'm going to survive so that translates into
you know basically having a relationship with a man where we're doing everything we're making
everything happen we're in that Western mindset that if you want something you go out and get it
so it really can cause lumps in your relationship with men and I'm gonna talk about three things
that really repel him and keep a really good relationship from happening and they're very
subtle you may not even be aware that you're doing them now for everybody tuning in I want to tell
you that on May 4th I am offering a class over at I heart love Academy that is my private Facebook
group the link will be below but it's going to be a private class on my video channel it's going to
be all about using your femme which is feminine energy mindset method tools in action in dating
so I'm always talking about the tools I'm talking about things that you want to be doing actively to
be dating pulling forth calling forth quality men your way and what is preventing that from
happening there is a block there's something in your energy that's preventing quality men
from seeing you as available and when they do see you or they do notice you there's something
in you that can repel them away sometimes it's very subtle sometimes it's obvious but today I'm
going to talk about the subtle one so hi everybody tuning in someone already asked about suggesting a
date yes you don't really want to suggest the date although in your dating profile I do encourage you
talk about what you would like to do on a date I encourage you to keep it very short like a quick
coffee date for a first date okay so moving on number one thing that you can be doing that's
actually repelling a man is that you're already giving too much you're giving too much and that
would sound something like this for example you're having a conversation with him and he starts
talking about something he likes or something he appreciates and you just jump on it you jump on
it and you start telling him everything you know about the topic and everything you've experienced
are all the wonderful things that you've had with that same topic you see you're giving too much or
you're doing too much you're offering to pay for half the bill when he has said he wanted to take
you out you're dressing up too much you're putting too much into the date it's just too much you're
giving too much so when a man is talking to you and speaking to you on a date I want you to be
able to lean back and just see what he has to offer just listen to him and instead of being
up in your head where you're already formulating what you want to say and how much you want to
connect with him and what things you could come up with to connect with him you're just in your
body and you're feeling okay you're able to be in your body and just express what's coming up
naturally so moving on to the next one leaning in we talked a lot about leaning in because on
a date you can actually lean in physically instead of sitting back in your seat now even when I sit
back in my seat with you all do you feel that instead when I'm up like this telling you what
for it's a very different vibe isn't it so I'm leaning back I can have a conversation with you
all the same from back here as I can over here now when I'm teaching you I'm instructing you
I'm in my boy energy and I'm I'm like this and I'm really animated but if I'm in my feminine energy
it's more of an observing energy you're leaning back you're observing you're listening you're
slow you're moving slowly you're not rushing around racing around so is this resonating with
any of you that when you're on a date you feel like you know you're nervous you kind of can't
catch your breath you're anxious you're worried and then what if you really like the guy and he
says I'll call you and then he doesn't call back we we have a lot of fears going into a date with
a man so giving too much leaning in physically or leaning in meaning you're participating you're in
this too much you're putting forth too much you don't want to tell him your life story on the
first date in your dating profile you don't want to give too many details if there's no mystery
the man won't ask questions about you and he'll know that when he does ask a question about you
he gets this big long you know basically a bunch of words and a bunch of stories and you want to be
able to learn how to speak with passion about what you feel about your life even if you're if it's
your job you could be a CPA or you could be have something kind of a little bit boring like where
with numbers or something but you can speak from a passionate place I once helped someone rewrite
her profile who was an insurance adjuster and she was able to speak from a passionate place which
was but I feel like I really have a lot to offer my customers my clients to make sure that they
get what is due to them what they're owed after an accident or something bad happens to their
house I feel really connected to helping people you see how she's connecting to her body what's
going on her her body instead of like yeah I work as an insurance adjuster been doing it about five
years now just helping people get claims and things like that you see how it's so different
okay now the last one I'm going to share with you is being too available being too available looks
something like this he messages you one two three you message right back okay not even three to five
seconds goes by you've already read the message I encourage all of you have your read receipts
turned off there's no reason to really let note let someone know when you read something or not
now this isn't playing a game what it's doing is allowing you time to lean back move slowly
be in your feminine and check yourself to see if you're giving too much if you're sending a lots of
emojis if you're saying well I have nothing to do this weekend sure let's get together you're
two available you see your vibe is to available and the man is already feeling like well this
girl's was always ready and she doesn't have much going on and when I'm on a date with her she's all
up in my grill and you know she already offered to help me move and she bought my kid a gift and
hasn't even met you no you see what I'm saying you see giving too much leaning in being too
available these things will repel a man and why I would love to hear from all of you in the chat
why do you think this is men like a hunt they like to pursue and they all right and they like
to be able to discover more about you so I just had my one-minute warning from my husband we're
meeting friends about for dinner so I gotta hop off this but join my class it's happening May 4th
I'm gonna post the link below it's gonna be class all about dating it's only 17 dollars if you sign
up early it's a whole day long retreat with me and I teach you everything I know about dating
from A to Z and then after that we have a chat session so if you have trouble understanding how
to do this but I lay it out so simple so easy you will be so confident moving forward in the dating
world and dating men and finding that connection learning how to make that connection from your
authentic self that's really gonna make a man fall hard for you and you're gonna attract the
right type of men to you okay so I'll be posting the link and a little bit and remember this is
about giving being too available and leaning in too much please come take my class with me it's
only 17 dollars and I've made it affordable for all the single moms and all the students if you
like this video please do give me a thumbs up and share it with some girlfriends if you think that
they would be interested in learning more about your feminine energy it's already in you it's
been in there since the day you were born just been pushing it down to survive in this masculine
energy world okay then I'm going to teach you how to be in a relationship and in your feminine
energy so when you're with the man you feel all wrapped up in his warmth and his love and you're
not a nervous wreck trying to figure out how to have a relationship with a man it's so exhausting
and it completely repels men okay so if any of you ever feel nervous or anxious during dates before
dates in a relationship this is gonna be the cure for you come take my class me spend the whole
day with me it's gonna be fun and I'm gonna have some bonuses and lots of good stuff too all right
everybody hi in the comments section and sending you guys much love I'll see you soon bye bye