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Okay, so what makes a narcissist loyal?
I know what you're thinking, Absolutely nothing, right?
Narcissists are the antithesis of loyal,
they're loyal to no one, they're loyal to themselves.
Absolutely, right?
Well, basically yeah, that's actually true, except there are some exceptions.
Do you want to guess what they may be?
Well, let's think about that, let's think this through.
I am a negotiation expert, I help people in negotiation,
so we got to think strategically here.
Strategically, when might it make sense for a narcissist to be loyal?
So, let's think about this.
So, narcissists feed off of what?
What do narcissists need more than anything?
Narcissistic supply is anything that feeds a narcissist’s ego.
It's that external supply,
is that external source of their oxygen,
their food, their lifeblood,
it’s what’s feeding them from the external,
because remember they have no inner sense of value,
they don't feel any internal sense.
It's almost like a tree that could be ripped from its roots at any time.
They don't have anything that's grounding them,
so they're constantly looking for that external source of something.
They want what I call Diamond level supply,
they're looking for something that's going to make them look good,
something that's going to anchor them in some way.
So, a lot of times what they go for,
is what I call Diamond level supply.
Diamond level Supply can often be found in the form
of what we call flying monkeys and
flying monkeys are these army, this bevy of people,
that they line up with them to make them feel stronger,
that they think make them look better in some way and
a lot of times these people are more prestigious,
or they think make them stronger against their “enemies”,
or they think this person has now maybe turned against them,
maybe it was a former, maybe it's you,
maybe it's a person who was a former person of interest,
a former person who was like a romantic person with them,
a former business partner,
or a former person who they thought on their side.
Because remember, with a narcissist,
you're either for them or against them and
then, once you now are no longer for them,
then you become public enemy number one.
So, they take this other person,
these other people, these flying monkeys and
they want you to believe these flying monkeys
are on their side and against you.
So, now these flying monkeys are these people
that they are allegedly “loyal to”, right?
So, they are loyal to these flying monkeys,
but only because their complicity is necessary,
because they’re depending upon them for their help
in this scheme against you, or whoever it is at that time.
So, strategically, they may be loyal to their flying monkeys
during that time for a period, because it is necessary,
because it makes sense to them for that period of time.
For that period of time they fully believe
that they're very loyal to that person and
it may go on for a period of time and
if you want to know more about what flying monkeys are,
you can check out my video called “Narcissism 101: Flying Monkeys”.
It goes on into more detail about who these flying monkeys are.
In short, anyone that they appear to have loyalty to at a given time,
is really just somebody they’re using in a given moment in time,
because they seem them to be a good source of supply at that time.
Unfortunately, by the way,
that could even really mean their own children at times.
I mean, really, it's anybody,
because people to narcissists are really just a form of possessions,
they're just an extension of them that they need,
that they use as a form of narcissistic supply.
It's very sad, it is so sad.
They really do require 100% loyalty from everyone in their lives,
although their loyalty is 100% conditional.
They want unconditional loyalty this direction,
but, it is 100% conditional that direction.
Their behavior is quite egregious,
but that is really what makes a narcissist loyal.
They're really not loyal to anyone for very long,
it's very, very conditional,
but that is what makes the narcissist loyal.
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