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- Is work life balance actually possible?
Well, I think it depends on what your definition is.
Your definition of work life balance is completely
different from what my definition is.
I like to work.
You might now.
It just depends on the person.
I mean this, where I am,
this is my definition of work life balance,
that I've been working while on vacation.
That I have the ability to work from anywhere,
to take my family with me everywhere.
That to me is work life balance.
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I made a lot of mistakes in my entrepreneurial journey
and I've learned a lot of lessons
about what work life balance is to me.
And I'm gonna share with you some of my favorite tips
for work life balance.
I've been in positions where I worked 12 plus hours a day
doing something that I hated,
and I've also been in positions where I have worked
12 hours a day doing something that I loved.
Now, it doesn't mean that was every single day,
but maybe I was working on a project that I was so motivated
about, got it done in the sprint, and then took a vacation.
One of my favorite rules to live by is the 888 Rule.
Meaning there's 24 hours in a day,
if you break that day down into three sections of eight,
you have eight hours for work, eight hours for sleep,
eight hours for you.
Now the first time I heard this,
and it was broken down like that, it amazed me.
Wait a minute, I can have eight hours for me?
And some of us might feel guilty to think
how could I take eight hours for myself?
It's all about fulfilling you
with the ingredients you need so that you can be
your best self so that you can actually show up to your work
and show up for your family in the best way.
When I incorporated the 888 Rule and finally understood
what are the ingredients that I need
that makes me the best person,
that's when everything changed.
And I actually incorporated a morning routine,
which is everyone talks about morning routines,
and sometimes people think it's just fluff,
but it was a game changer for me.
When I actually created a morning routine,
put it on paper as a checklist for the things
that I could follow so that I knew however I went
about my day after that was gonna be set up for success,
I felt better, my work was more efficient, more productive.
And how I showed up for my family made them happier,
and I also had a much better time with it.
So I incorporated a morning routine
and sometimes that means waking up earlier
even if I've had a late night so that I know
I've given myself exactly what I need.
If you know what are the ingredients to make a delicious
cake or chocolate chip cookie,
don't miss out on the butter and sugar.
You need to give yourself those best ingredients
so that you show up how you wanna show up in the world.
The other thing that's been a total game changer for me
was an app I put on phone called Productive.
Now all of us have these habits that we have a hard time
sticking to or habits that we wanna start,
but then if we just allow ourselves to be navigated
by our day and by notifications,
because in this day and age a lot of us
can be controlled by whatever's popping up on our phone
or the demands of our clients or emails we received,
this app changed the game the for me.
Now, I've got the app several weeks ago
and from this app I put in all the habits
that I wanted ti make sure that I got done every single day,
even the small things like I wanna make sure
I floss my teeth every day.
Because it's in there and because I have the kind
of personality that I wanna check things off
so that I feel fulfilled by that,
every time I check things off it's like I get
this little instant gratification.
I cannot go to bed until its checked off.
So things like floss my teeth, take my vitamins,
read, write, meditate, those are things
that I want to do every single day.
But like I said, if I'm just navigated by notifications
and what other people need from me, it doesn't happen,
so I have to schedule it into my day.
I schedule it in my day with my favorite planner.
It's called the Momentum Planner,
it's from Alex Charfen.
You can check out his website,
download the Momentum Planner,
and he's also gonna have it for sale very soon
if not already.
And I also use my habit tracker app called Productive.
Every single day it just resets with all the habits
that I need to check off.
And first thing in the morning I go through my habits,
my morning habits.
And one of the things in the morning habit
is to fill out my Momentum Planner.
And this is the way to get me started for the day.
And I've even found if I left home without it
and I was going overnight on a business trip,
and if I didn't have it with me,
my whole day felt lost.
I need to start my day by knowing what do I have
on my to-do list and what's my intention for the day
and what's my top three for the day.
Because if I just go about trying to get things done
and be productive with whatever I have on my plate,
I don't feel fulfilled and structured.
So that's personally what I need.
So again, my top tips for work life balance
is the 888 Rule, having a morning routine
knowing what ingredients you need for yourself
to be successful in your day, the Momentum Planner,
and that habit tracker app called Productive.
That has changed the game for me.
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