- [Narrator] Is there someone who you think
has a crush on you?
Or, do you think you may have misread the signs?
Sometimes they can be difficult to know
whether someone is interested in you or not.
They might be so subtle with their flirting
that you just have no idea.
Or, they may have been sending you signals all this time,
but you just haven't noticed what they're trying to do.
Hmm.
Well, to help you become more aware of these signs,
here are eight phrases someone would say
if they're into you.
Number one.
"Let's hang out."
Are they always asking to spend time with you?
They can be overwhelming to hear someone
confess their attraction to you,
especially if you had no idea
that they had any interest at all.
So oftentimes, to make sure that they don't blindside you
in any way,
people who are into you may try to start slow
and build a connection by spending time with you,
whether it's grabbing a coffee
or going for a walk in the park.
Spending time together
helps you get to know each other more.
Plus, the more you spend your time with them,
the more you may be able to know
whether they're flirty behavior is the one time thing
or consistent every time.
If it's consistent, then you'll definitely know
whether they're into you or not.
Number two.
"Knock, knock."
"Who's there?"
Do they try to make you laugh all the time?
Humor can play a huge part in romantic attraction.
A study found that the more times a man tried to be funny
and the more times a woman laughed at his jokes,
the more likely she was romantically interested.
Furthermore, they found that couples who laugh together
tend to become more interested in each other.
So if there is someone in your friend group
or colleague at work
who's always making a fool of themselves
or making really bad jokes to get you to laugh,
they may be secretly into you
and trying to develop a stronger bond with you.
Number three.
"You look lovely today."
Who doesn't like a compliment?
Someone who is into you,
but who doesn't know how to approach you
may start with a compliment.
Senses can make you feel good
and be a way to start a conversation.
Perhaps they tell you that you have a great sense of humor
or say that you are very thoughtful or inspiring.
And by making you feel good about yourself,
it'll put you in a positive mood
and make it more likely for you to engage with them.
But remember that compliments alone
may not be enough to know whether someone likes you or not.
After all, they could be someone
who just wants to spread some positivity around.
So apart from paying compliments,
try to look for other signs as well.
Number four.
"My friends having a party.
Do you wanna join?"
Have they invited you to their weekly game nights?
Sometimes the thought of going out one-on-one
with your crush can be nerve wracking.
So an alternative can be to ask them to a group event.
By being in an environment where there are other people,
it can take the pressure off of both of you
and making directions more easygoing.
So if they've been asking you to hang out
with their friend group,
it may be their way of trying to find an excuse
to get to spend some time with you.
Once you get to know each other more,
you may become more comfortable
with the idea of going out on a date one-on-one.
Number five.
"Let's go see the movie you mentioned last week.
Do they remember all the small details about you?
Perhaps, you've mentioned a restaurant
you've always wanted to go to
or talked about a movie that you wanted to see.
While you may not think much of what you've said,
someone who's into you may remember all these things
and make plans to do them with you.
Similarly, they may notice
and remember the things you've mentioned
like your favorite color or your go-to coffee order.
All this goes to show how attentive they were
when you are talking
and how much they wanna make you feel heard,
understood, and happy.
Does this remind you of anyone?
Number six.
"You said you were having an awful day.
What happened?"
Maybe you've mentioned that you didn't feel well
or were having a bad day.
Someone who really cares for you
and is into you may get worried
and check in from time to time to make sure you're okay.
If you're already close with them,
they may even go out of their way
to try to bring you food, medicine,
or a pick me up just to make you feel better.
So if there's someone who gets concerned
when you mention that you're not feeling too well
and who rushes to your aid every time,
then it may be a sign that they see you
as something more than just a friend.
Number seven.
"You like the new spider movie?
Me, too."
Do you have a lot in common with them?
Another sign that someone is into you
is if they're always bringing up the things
that you both enjoy or like,
whether it's your favorite books, movies, music, or cuisine,
having similar tastes and things
can build up a mutual attraction.
So if you find yourself always saying things
like, "I like that, too," or "It's the same for me."
When they talk about their thoughts, interest, and passions,
then it's likely that your fondness of them will increase.
After all, birds of a feather flock together.
Number eight.
"Do you wanna go out with me?"
Last but not least.
Though, it's quite obvious.
If they ask you out on a date,
then they're definitely into you.
While most people may try to be subtle with their feelings,
being direct is actually the best way forward.
This is because sometimes flirting can be hard to identify.
Were they flirting with you or just being friendly?
Was there a compliment because they like you
or because they're just being positive?
Subtle flirting can be confusing to read,
and sometimes just unnoticeable.
So being direct is always the best way to go.
It's more clear and easier to interpret.
Is there someone who's into you?
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