hi I'm Adrienne Everheart and if you like this video please be sure to subscribe or
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today I'm gonna talk about how if you are a powerful dynamite woman how you can actually
attract a strong masculine man and keep him now I am a professional dating your relationship coach
I've been certified as a coach and I've been doing this for a good long while I've not only
helped my clients but I foremost helped myself I am a formally reformed queen of the world yes
I was queen of the world at one time and if you're anything like me and you've been in
your masculine energy in the relationship you can function as something I refer to as queen of the
world now in today's video I'm going to tell you how you can take your feminine energy and attract
a strong masculine energy man and not let your powerful dynamite woman energy or you know the
world sabotage your success for having a loving long lasting relationship with the manor the women
I know are powerful dynamite women and the problem is is that this is going on in the workplace which
is a wonderful place to have it or you've had to survive you've had to work hard your life to get
where you are now and then we bring that same energy into the relationship so does this mean
being a doormat does this mean letting the guy always have his way it's just me you don't have
a say in matters or you don't have great ideas or you can't do it better than him or you have to
tell him how to do it or get him to do it or stay on his back now a lot of times in those scenarios
the woman ends up hearing from the man I can't do anything to make you happy no matter what I do I
can't seem to make you happy and this is when masculine against masculine energy is happening
now if you have purchased my get him back program which is a proven program to help you get your ex
back get your lover or boyfriend back you have read what I talked about the two rams ramming at
each other masculine against masculine energy and they collide and this is one of the three
things a man won't do he won't compete not for long especially with a woman he will bow
out gracefully so today I'm going to teach you how being queen of the world might work in some places
of your life but how it's actually translating into the masculine energy now let's get started
and talk a little bit about queen of the world queen of the world is a woman who is very powerful
and had a lot of masculine energy at times but she doesn't know how to translate it she doesn't know
how to flip it into women and energy all right so it comes across to the man as a challenge or
a threat and so often husbands or boyfriends they feel like they can never really make us
happy they feel like it's always drama that you're high-maintenance when in fact you're maybe neither
none of these things deep down inside there's so many difficult time translating your needs over
things that happen in the relationship problems that happen in a relationship you can't translate
that energy into feminine energy so I'm going to show you how so let's start right over here with
this very worried version of your energy now that is what I call fearful child if you've studied
ego states you know that inside of us you have a birdie that's very fearful you're fearful of
losing someone you love you're fearful of losing the relationship you kind of think the worst it's
also known as nasty voice and that's a voice that can pop up inside of us and say all sorts
of terrible things about us about people we love so of course in miracles' says that there's only
love and nothing else there's no nothing neutral so you're either speaking from a place of love or
you're speaking from a place of fear or something else there's no neutral ground here so I just
want you to come and think about that when you're nasty always pops up in the relationship and I've
got some triggers here on my phone that are gonna bring some of those to light now the other persona
you have is your inner girl you have an inner girl inside of you now one point in time your
inner girl was just fine being a girl she could express herself in very feminine ways and this
is probably when you're a young child you were able to tell your mom Oh mom my my tummy feels
like it's burning if you had a tummy ache are you able to express yourself but at some point
you learned that if I'm going to survive in this world I have to get into my masculine energy of
doing making things happen and getting praise for what I do notice I said do it was about action it
just wasn't about being and feeling now queen of the world begins to present problems with
most women this is your crown by the way when we are experiencing some sort of difficulty now I'll
tell you about a time when I'm queen of the world when I'm at the airport and everyone's chattering
and talking and I'm having to listen to everyone else's conversations Plus have my own thoughts I
become queen of the world I believe in the airport no one should be speaking except people telling me
where to get on my plane what to do and things like that I don't believe there should be any
speaking in the airport that's queen of the world thinking it's just it's very brief thought I wish
people didn't talk to the airport that's going to the world you see so when she pipes up it's
really wounded in her child boy energy or nasty voice piping up because you're having a feeling
your inner girl's having a feeling she just doesn't know how to translate it so you end up
sounding like queen in the world so that is a non relationship example here's something to happen
with relationships let's say your man is talking to another woman at a party or he's getting text
messages from a female co-worker or perhaps you just know if some other girl has interest in him
there's a good chance you're going to feel jealous and insecure and is gonna translate into queen of
the world which is I don't want you talking to her anymore why is she calling her phone just
not is something going on between two of you I don't like that girl you're coming from this
place of here's my feelings but they're gonna translate to the man as you guys take action on
this right now I'm directing you I'm on your back I'm telling you what to do so when we go to inner
girl and you're going to find what you're really feeling it could be insecure it could be jealous
and you're able to speak it in a way that talks to that man's heart now you're gonna make progress so
that would sound something like you know what can I say I saw you two dancing together at the party
and yeah I felt really jealous is there something I should know you can ask him that you're willing
to face that difficult feeling and instead of shutting down and becoming queen of the world
and telling you what to do you can go to your inner girl find exactly what you're feeling
and is there something I should know you are brave enough to ask the difficult question from your man
so let's look at another one let's say there's a miscommunication this one happens a lot with
most people most couples you have a simple miscommunication and if you're tense and the
easte tense that miscommunication can translate into an argument and celery to a fight and then
go on from there escalate into just the two of you having a terrible night or a terrible weekend
or possibly breaking up so how can we handle a miscommunication weight of the world is that's
what I said didn't you hear me I have already said this I already told you about that aren't
you listening to me Queen in the world is going to begin to dictate what that man is or isn't doing
instead of going to her inner girl and finding out what she's really feeling I feel confused I
feel like I'm being repetitive you know I don't want to shame you I don't want to make you do or
be anything here's just how I feel or better yet lean back be the girl let the man figure it out
let him figure out the miscommunication so so often communication is one of the things that
we excel at and then are lagging way behind so it makes him sense it makes perfect sense that a man
and a woman would have a lot of miscommunication but if you go to the place of being fearful and
shutting down and what do I have to do to fix this man or queen of the world I need to fix
you you're my little project now here's how you need to listen to me honey it starts off like this
you see you go into teaching him instructing him shaming him making him feel threatened or somehow
spoken down to degraded in some way when you're really just trying to help and you're trying to
fix the communication issue so this is the voice that starts talking the man will begin to back up
I want you to go to your inner girl instead and I have other whiteboard videos on integrals so you
can look at those for more inspiration how to find your feelings and speak them I also have
a best-selling book called 500 ways to talk to a man it is chock-full of examples that you can
use for everyday life so the last one I want to talk about is time management time management is
a big one with couples and relationships because you'll see him watching the baseball game or
football game but the trash is sitting there but the laundry is over there and he said he
was gonna do these things so sometimes we end up doing them his wet towels are all over the floor
we pick them up that's when you're wearing your masculine energy you're doing it you're fixing it
you're taking care of it and then that is going to put you into the queen of the world mode do
I have to do everything around here do I have to be the queen of the world here you see translates
or worse you become the martyr and that's another form of queen of the world it's just flipped over
so I want you to allow towels to pal up I want you to allow the trash and the dishes to pile
up for a little while and then I want you to be able to come to him give him time to do this and
instead of dropping the subtle hint which just is the way that your inner voice says Romania
might tiptoe around this a very subtle hint that innocent question won't work here and then I'll
smell it a mile away so instead what I want you to do is go to your inner girl what's she feeling
oh my goodness I feel like the kitchen is such a mess what do you think we should do your husband
maybe he wants to be a smartass and he says well I thinks that makes you clean the dishes and it was
him who said it's his turn to clean the dishes you go oh my goodness that would be wonderful
thank you you take it you use that feeling you let the laundry pile up and you're able to come
to him with your heart and say you know I don't want to tell you what to do but I've noticed the
laundry is really piling up and I know that this is something you said you would take care of and
is there anything I should know is there anything going on and you know there's nothing going on
there's nothing as you know but he'll know and if it goes two more weeks and the trash is still
sitting there the dishes you have to let it pile up you have to make it so big because if you step
in and do it your boy energy he's gonna know all I have to do is wait her out but this is where I
want you to be the girl I want you to be the girl not the man so you're actually inspiring him to
be in his feminine energy when you step in and save the day you have to allow him the time to
decide to be the man and step in not the girl you want a strong masculine energy man and your energy
what you do in your feminine energy can affect him and inspiring him to become that masculine
energy man that you crave so if for some reason he just shuts down and the dishes get this high and a
sink or whatever you know that's when you do have to put on your boy pants you do have to sit down
at the table and say we need to have taught the dishes situation the laundry situation the money
situation is out of control I don't like coming to you in this energy that's your girl talking
I don't like how this feels it feels like I'm the person I'm the man of the house here and I don't
like it it doesn't feel sexy to me that's right if you ever use this doesn't feel sexy to me to a man
he'll never do it again but don't overuse it and don't use it for evil use it for good all right so
I hope this whiteboard experience has been good for you learning about queen of the world she
really doesn't mean well but she's secretly avoid energy or a nasty voice persona inside of you so
when you learn how to connect to your inner thinman and energy this is when all the magic
begins to happen in your relationship ladies now if you like what you heard here be sure to give it
a thumbs up make sure you subscribe to my youtube videos and if you want to learn more scripts and
tips I have a book called 500 ways to talk to a man it is full of these examples and so much more
so if that my website which is ever hurt coaching dot-com slash ebook alright everyone thank you so
much for joining me I appreciate all your comments and lights and I would be hear from you soon bye