hi everyone caroline here quick question do you combine rose quartz and black tourmaline or rose
quartz and black obsidian or rose quartz with any other black crystals i used to use those
combinations as well but today i want to share with you why i no longer use those combinations
and what crystal i use instead okay before i go on let me just say this i'm going to be talking
about black tourmaline and black obsidian just because they're the ones i have on hand but this
video is about black crystals in general just in case you're resonating with the message that i'm
gonna be sharing so first of all let me say this i love rose quartz and i love black tourmaline and i
love that combination together and for a long time i worked with that combination and i've
made videos about rose quartz combinations and black tourmaline combinations and i'm gonna put
a link at the end of this video for any of you who want to watch it in case you missed out on those
and in those videos i've talked about why i love these specific combinations and these combinations
are great so don't get me wrong these things have levels and levels and levels and for those
who work seriously with crystals we all know that some of these crystal conversations never
end because there's always layers and layers and layers and these layers go deep and many times the
wisdom of yesterday is not the wisdom of today and what energies or the specific energies that
we are working with or that we need at this time may not be the same energy that we really loved
at some point in our past why because we have moved beyond that and it's time for us to get
with the new program and the new energy of things so this specific video again let me just be clear
it's just about my own personal experience and it does not have to relate to you but it doesn't
hurt to listen to these kinds of things anyway even if it's coming from a different perspective
than the one that you hold because you know people are going through different things and
black tourmaline and rose quartz may just be what you need at this particular time
okay so this is just my own experience and what i'm learning and i'm sharing it just in case
someone needs to make a switch okay and by the way i also made a video previously talking about why
it is important to make changes and switches in your crystals because the energies of the crystal
also change based on your current energy if you're working with these tools they are your friends
they are your supporters and they sense things and they bring that information to you so their
energy switches so anyway if you're interested just take some time to watch that video and see
how that video can support you at this time okay all right anywho let me just tell you at the
beginning of my spiritual journey my self-healing journey my journey into self-love my journey into
working with crystals i was going through so much and at that time i was working with a lot of black
crystals black tourmalines black obsidians because i wanted to keep all the negativity away because
i was in a bad place i was such an emotional and mental wreck of a person and i was feeling like
my heart was fragile you know what i mean i just kind of wanted to protect myself from i don't even
know what and you know my only resolution was to block everything block everyone block every
situation leave everything cut everything off you know what i mean because i needed to heal myself
and i thought oh my gosh if black tourmaline can help keep this negativity away then that is the
crystal that i want and i want a lot of it and you know at that time also i was very very angry
anger was really my main energy and sometimes it still is even these days you know what i mean
but it's under control but at that time i had no self-awareness so you know i was constantly like
raging you know what i mean inside me and many times i wasn't verbally expressing it and i would
keep it inside me and or just boil you know what i mean i don't feel that anger inside me and i'd
be thinking to myself caroline this is not good you're getting heated my body was getting heated
and you know i started connecting the dots you know this anger is not good for me i need to
change it so black tourmaline at that time was the crystal that i knew was something that would
help me keep negativity away so i really stocked up on it and i was working with it
at that time it was a good combination for me because it helped me and it does help people
on so many levels so don't get me wrong the combination is good but while this crystal
combination really helped me during that time i have now realized especially in the past few years
that this combination no longer works for me the good thing is that when i was using black
tourmaline and black obsidian in combination with rose quartz i was doing my inner work
i wanted to keep things away at that time because i didn't know how else to handle anything so i was
doing my inner work i was clearing my energies i was releasing a lot of energies i was learning
to love myself i was remembering who i was i was learning to accept myself i was learning to come
into integrity with myself i was bringing in only good energy into my life by choice you know what
i mean so i was really in this protective mode and i managed to keep a lot of negatives away from me
during that time because of the supportive energy and the conscious observation that it was working
for me in that way but now things are different because now i have come to a different place
now i am a different person now i am more mature in my understanding of who i am and how to handle
external energies that come my way now i am able to manage my emotions you know what i mean now i
am able to know and remember and to observe and to deflect you know what i mean those things that are
not in my best interest i am a much more different person now now i have the chance to have my heart
opened up and my light go out in a way that needs no protection from external forces i'm a different
person so this combination of rose quartz which is a self-love healing naturally personal crystal
that really relates to your own personal energy that allows you to find that love in yourself
and black tourmaline was really good for me at that time but now it's a new day okay now it's
a time for a new crystal and this is where the combination of rose quartz and hematite comes
in now it is a time for me to have grounded love hematite and its iron-based energy is a very
grounding crystal so it grounds all that self-love that i have and allows me to send out that love to
be that love from a very grounded place so this combination of hematite and rose quartz is what
the energy is for me so at this time in my life and based on the work that i know that i am here
to do i no longer use this protective heart energy of rose quartz and black tourmaline because this
is a time for me to stand in grounded love so this combination of hematite and rose quartz
grounded love is the way forward for me you know at some point i may come back to this
combination but at this point based on my own personal guidance and this is why i say everyone
should listen to their own intuition at this point based on my own personal guidance the combination
of black tourmaline and rose quartz is not for me because i have accumulated that wisdom that
knowledge that information that allows me to process life to process my emotions in a way that
helps me tremendously and also helps me to help others in a better grounded way and i don't need
any gatekeepers at this point black tourmaline is a gatekeeper you know what i mean i don't
need it for heart protection energy or self-love issues at this point i use it for other purposes
but you tell me crystal lovers what do you think about this and do you use a combination of black
tourmaline and rose quartz or black obsidian and rose quartz or any black crystals and rose
quartz and why or why not let me know and until next time let your love shine okay