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If you’re an INFJ,
you might have some paradoxes that you don't even know about. This is mostly because INFJs
are unique individuals with very characteristic personality traits. If you think you are an INFJ,
dive deeper into your personality, learn what your paradoxes are and determine how you can use them
to increase your soft skills and achieve personal growth. Here are 8 Paradoxes Of Being An INFJ.
Number 1 - INFJs are creative and rational
In INFJs, the combination of introversion, sensitivity, and empathy results in a person with
a wide range of information-absorbing abilities. They therefore require a means of finding a
creative and meaningful manner to discharge and express all the energy they have absorbed. INFJs
are not only dreamers; they are also orderly, logical thinkers who enjoy researching and
dissecting difficult concepts. They might enjoy writing, drawing, or making music,
but they also have a strong interest in science and invention. They don't have to feel conflicted
while having interests that seem to be at odds with one another. And that is its beauty. They
are both capable of being imaginative and logical, artistic and logical, and creative and analytical.
Number 2 - INFJs stand up for others and ignore their own needs
The urge to serve others is so strong in INFJs that it can dominate every
aspect of their lives, including their friendships, professional partnerships,
and romantic relationships. But it is quite simple for someone with this sensitive of a
personality to give excessively and put the needs of others before their own. Have you
ever noticed how you willfully defend the rights of others while finding it difficult
to do the same for yourself? The contradiction is that. Set limits on how much you will offer,
and don't forget to save part of that compassion for yourself.
Number 3 - INFJs can cut off the people they love An INFJ could break off contact with someone
they adore dearly; this is known as the INFJ Door Slam. Simply because they care too much,
they cut someone they love out of their lives. Others might see this as a contradiction,
but the INFJ sees no problem with it. It might occasionally become too much
for the INFJ to handle when someone repeatedly causes harm to herself or the INFJ. Naturally,
the INFJ works extremely hard to assist this individual, going above and beyond what is
reasonable to make things right. The INFJ may have to fully cut this person out of their lives
if they decide there is nothing more they can do. Actually, this is because the INFJ cares too much
about this individual and is no longer able to withstand the sorrow of the circumstance. One of
the most profound paradoxes of the INFJ is the need to exclude someone because of how much you
care about them.
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Number 4 - INFJs are
very honest, but are not opposed to “white lies” The INFJ also takes great pride in being a highly
honest person, which is frequently true. They are honest with people and seek for truth in the world
around them. The INFJ is also typically quite guarded, keeping certain aspects of oneself hidden
from others. Even though they value honesty, INFJs are not opposed to small white lies. Since
those statements do not do harm to anyone or cause attention to be diverted from the important truth,
they are not actually thought of as true falsehoods. The INFJ does not view embellishing
a story to make it look more fascinating or adding a little flair as lying. In the viewpoint of an
INFJ, it is not a true lie if you merely tell someone they look good in a pair of shoes when
they don't or if you embellish a story. To the INFJ, lying for selfish gain or in order to avoid
taking responsibility for something is a true lie. Although this understanding of reality is a
paradox in and of itself, the INFJ sees no problem with it. They give it serious consideration and
never take it lightly.
Number 5 - INFJs want to be alone, but they love people
The INFJ both craves being alone and being with people. For the INFJ, this is obviously a very
perplexing and paradoxical mix. They require solitude to rejuvenate and generally require
a lot of alone time to feel fully themselves. The INFJ simultaneously enjoys social interaction and
the ability to connect with others. Because of this, the INFJ frequently craves the opposite
of what they are feeling at the time. They yearn to be with others and have a deep connection when
they are alone themselves. The INFJ could feel a little worn out and yearn for some alone time
while they are with someone. The INFJ will even be willing to listen very closely, so it's not
like they don't love being in their presence. They simply struggle with too much social interaction
causing their energy to drop soon. The INFJ and those close to them may find this to be
extremely perplexing. It can be really challenging to want to enjoy a social life while still wanting
time alone to comprehend everything. Even while they may be satisfied to spend their days alone,
they may still yearn for social interaction.
Number 6 - INFJs open others, but do not open themselves
INFJs are deeply compassionate people who value meaningful connections. They desire the ability
to connect with others and have a strong bond with them. The INFJ has a great capacity for empathy
and frequently experiences others' emotions with great intensity. They are prepared to
assist those who are struggling and to reach out to them. The INFJ is a natural support system for
others around them and frequently succeeds in making them feel valued and understood.
The INFJ likes developing close relationships with individuals, but they frequently find it difficult
to be vulnerable. In spite of the fact that they are the one who will get the truth from others,
they are fiercely protective of their own feelings. Despite wanting to connect with people,
the INFJ may find it difficult to do so. They conceal aspects of themselves out of
concern about criticism or misunderstanding. They had no trouble understanding others,
but they had trouble opening up entirely to others. The INFJ seeks understanding
but frequently worries about what it may entail if they reveal too much. Given their preference
for genuine and meaningful interactions, this characteristic of the INFJ might be misleading.
Since they are so afraid of getting harmed, it is challenging for them to genuinely form these
connections.
Number 7 - INFJs are quiet, yet very passionate Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, a psychologist,
presents eleven contradictory features of creative persons in his book Creativity: the Psychology
of Discovery and Invention, many of which may be applicable to INFJs, who are also creative. One of
these is the propensity for creative individuals to be both energetic and in need of a lot of rest.
Although INFJs frequently give off the impression of being reticent, quiet, and reclusive people,
there is a roiling stew of passions and ideas just beneath the surface. INFJs are constantly planning
their next endeavor and are incredibly passionate about the issues that are close to their hearts.
They have a tremendous amount of energy as a result of their commitment to the greater
good and their sponge-like capacity for knowledge absorption, but they also require extended times
of rest and solitude in order to think and refuel.
Number 8 - INFJs see good intentions and hidden agenda in people
INFJs also have a contrasting reaction to people in general. INFJs are warm and sympathetic people,
yet they are also keen observers of others' motives. They can see people's worst sides
because they are skilled at perceiving the reality underlying their own world. They are fully aware
of the suffering and cruelty that humans may cause to one another. Because of this, the
INFJ frequently feels cynical and hostile about other people and longs to be alone. In addition,
the INFJ has a strong sense of human dignity and frequently sees the best in others. They often
feel frustrated and irritated with people, but they are also kind and hopeful. This is one of the
bigges paradoxes of an INFJ personality type.
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