[MUSIC PLAYING]
JAMIE: Elizabeth and I had a fight a few days ago,
and right now I am questioning the marriage.
But Dr. Viviana is coming over, and
the timing could not be better.
Hopefully, she will apologize for the way she acted in front
of the other couples, because I'm not
going to be part of a marriage where that's OK,
to act like that.
I feel like I'm at home.
I grew up around this.
[INTERPOSING VOICES]
Shut up and listen.
Watch the safety video.
Just shut up for five minutes.
I'm sorry.
I literally can never say anything without him
just getting so [BLEEP] pissed.
I just-- you can reprimand me.
I don't have anything to say back right now.
JAMIE: You can act like you don't care.
That's fine.
It's much easier to not care than actually
care and talk about what happened
and actually show some remorse.
I need to reserve my energy for Dr. Viviana, too.
So if you have anything else to just say, obviously--
Yeah, no, I got a lot of things to say,
and I'm going to continue discussing them.
Oh, boy, beat me down even more.
I'm a horrible person.
Please, keep going.
You and I can get mad at each other behind closed doors.
It's a whole nother ball game when
you ruin everybody else's day that's within earshot of you.
You embarrassed our marriage.
You embarrassed me, personally.
You've certainly embarrassed yourself.
You embarrassed the other couples.
You embarrassed everybody.
When you told me to shut up in front of everyone,
I was embarrassed.
I felt stupid.
And everyone around you think that that's OK,
and no one even says anything?
Yeah, you're going to ruin everyone [BLEEP] day.
[INAUDIBLE] thought it was OK. You're obv--
Then why didn't anyone take up for me, Jamie?
(SHOUTING) Why didn't anybody take up for me then?
I'm so sick of this!
[SNIFFLE] I'm so sick of this.
Go away, then, go away.
Are you happy?
JAMIE: No.
(SHOUTING) Let me guess.
You still have more to rip me apart about, don't you?
You still have more issues with me.
Then go away.
You've embarrassed me in front of everyone.
You've made me look stupid in front of everyone.
[SNIFFLE]
(ANGRILY) So yeah, I'm going to react
and I'm going to defend myself.
Yeah, I have days where I snap, and you do, too.
But you don't do that to people.
So yeah, Jamie, you know what?
I did overreact, and I was a bitch.
You're [BLEEP] right I was.
And I own it 110%.
I own that [BLEEP].
And abs--
I didn't ask for yourself.
(ANGRILY) I know.
I don't need you to sit here and point a finger at me
like this, like you do all the time.
I'm under a [BLEEP] magnifying glass with you.
I'm so tired.
Why would [INAUDIBLE]--
(ANGRILY) Let me finish.
I haven't asked for you to speak yet.
And I never asked you--
(ANGRILY) You asked me what I want, so I'm going to tell you.
I didn't need this [INAUDIBLE]..
(SHOUTING) No, stop.
This is a relationship.
(SHOUTING) Stop!
Stop!
I think we have a visitor.
ELIZABETH: I'm not meeting with any experts today.
Oh, hi.
Hello.
How are you?
Hi.
ELIZABETH: I'm not talking to anyone today.
Viviana just arrived, and Beth is very standoffish.
She doesn't want to talk to anybody.
Jamie, are you open to talking?
Sure.
Frankly, I'm a little bit embarrassed.
I think that we should respect the experts--
the fact that they're taking time to be here and try to help
us out, and they actually care.
Is this how things normally are?
It's very much like a roller coaster.
We're either up here on cloud nine,
or we're calling the marriage off, one of the two.
So what happened?
I was really upset at the way she acted while we
were at the race track.
And that's when I told her, you've got to shut up.
This has gone into a really negative, unhealthy place.
I know.
But in all fairness to Elizabeth,
I would love for her to be a part of this.
I don't want to feel like we're talking behind her back.
JAMIE: Right, right.
If you would be willing to invite her over--
OK, yeah, certainly.
VIVIANA COLES: Can you try that? - Yeah, sure.
VIVIANA COLES: Thank you. - You're welcome.
[KNOCKING]
Would you like to just come out here?
ELIZABETH: I don't want to get--
I don't want to be beaten down today, so--
JAMIE: You're not going to be beaten down.
You don't even have to say anything.
Elizabeth?
This is not about beating you down, I promise you.
I want to help you be able to get
the message across, but without it being
such a volatile situation.
I don't know how much help it will be,
because I don't know how receptive I am today.
You don't have to pre-- ELIZABETH: --but I'll sit here.
You don't have to predict the future.
You don't even have to say a word.
ELIZABETH: OK, I'll just sit here.
But the minute y'all start going and saying, well,
you need to fix this, and you did this,
and you did that yesterday-- bitch,
I knows what I did yesterday.
You didn't just call me bitch, did you?
No, I was just-- no, no, no, no.
Oh, gosh, sorry.
OK.
It's, like-- it's like--
term.
Obviously, term-- like, bitch, I was there, I know what I did.
Elizabeth and Jamie have been on a roller coaster of emotions
ever since marrying a stranger six weeks ago.
They need to remember that, even though you may love each other,
you can't read your partner's mind.
So it's important that they take a time-out to really sit
back and learn what it is that they're each really trying
to say so they can learn from these misunderstandings,
because they can cause hurt, anger, and resentment.