close your eyes what are you afraid of
I'm scared I won't know what to do but
what if I don't have all the answers I'm
scared I'm wasting my time open your
eyes there is someone out there with all
the answers and you'll save you years of
searching I would say that I'm weigh on
today because of my mentors powerful way
to learn which is also the way that I
have learned over the years why I'm able
to accomplish what I've accomplished at
a young age instead of at the age of 50
55 and 60 and that's learning from a
mentor learning from someone who's been
there and done that and continues to do
it a mentor is someone who's been there
and done debt that who has produced the
results that you want the biggest
difference between a mentor and a
teacher a teacher has not walked the
path that teachers teaching from a book
teaching from based on his or her
understanding of something but a mentor
has walked a path he's done it she's
done it and now they're speaking from
experience what I'm saying is find
someone that you resonate with that it's
where you want to be in your I'll give
you some criteria if you want to find a
mentor you want to find someone that you
like okay someone that you respect
someone who you kind of share the same
value that you know what would I be
comfortable you know invite him to my
home have dinner with my family okay
someone you have good chemistry with
someone you can get along someone who is
where you want to be in your dreams
that's important so let's say you're
doing a million dollars a year you don't
want to find someone that's making too
because I believe that's not enough for
a stretch you're doing a million you
want to find I was doing ten million or
20 million or 50 million that's good
that is enough of a poll because they
have a different perspective so that's
what I would do
yeah and show me your friends I'll show
your future doesn't matter where you're
starting that you think well I want to
be successful I want to make more money
I want to have whatever the whatever
goals that you have instead of
approaching your potential mentors as a
oh you were successful you should help
me poor little me don't approach it like
that approach as how can add value to
their lives always give first before you
ask anything in return
and that's what I did I I seeked on
mentor
I helped him I work for him for next to
nothing for a year I was wondering add
value to what he does because understand
this your mentor doesn't need you here
she is already successful then where you
want to be in your dreams then your
mentor who knows what you're doing who
knows the mistakes you're about to make
before when you make them who knows hey
don't do this I did that five years ago
I did that 20 years ago do this and
don't do that I could tell you without
adult without any hesitation the secret
to my success is the two mentors I have
my mentors may be rich
but my two mentors they are truly my
secret weapon to success
here with a mentor who changed your life
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