Hi everyone -- here’s another video here brought to you by Brad Browning.
That’s me!
I’m a relationship coach, dating expert, and the creator of The Ex Factor Guide -- a
program that teaches men and women to get their exes back into their life.
The subject of today’s video is a little painful…
it’s going to teach you how to get your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend to forgive you.
I know how difficult it can be to get someone to forgive you.
It’s not easy.
The amount of guilt that you feel for hurting someone you love can sometimes be unbearable.
The amount of time it’s going to take for your ex to forgive you is obviously going
to vary depending on the situation.
Obviously, if you’ve done something serious like cheat on him or her, the amount of time
required for your ex to recover may be significant.
Regardless of the length of time, you must know one thing: You can’t make your ex forgive
you FASTER.
There’s no magic sentence or magic potion that will expedite this process.
And the difficult thing is is that everyone’s different.
Some people have a tendency to forgive quickly, and some don’t.
Now, if you think your situation is a little unique, don’t hesitate to drop me a comment
right below this video and I’ll do my best to answer your question, free of charge.
Regardless of what you think about your situation, you have to remember just a few key pointers…
1.)
You need to apologize and put your heart and soul into it.
I know, this is an obvious one...but hear me out.
You need to sit down and look into your partner’s eyes and tell them how sorry you are.
Make sure they know how badly you feel.
Make sure your apology feels real -- not rushed and fabricated.
Your apology should come directly from your heart because you mean it.
2.)
Don’t apologize TOO much.
You need to apologize a few times to start (depending on what you’ve done wrong), but
that’s where the words end.
Sometimes when somebody hurts you, the last thing you want to hear is “I’m sorry”
over and over again.
Apologizing once or twice, but really meaning it is a lot more powerful than a million “I’m
sorry’s”.
3.)
Allow your ex to ask you questions.
Your ex probably wants to know the details of why you did what you did.
Allow him or her to ask you anything they want about what happened.
Tell them succinctly and honestly, but always make sure you have an undertone of regret.
Helping your ex understand the situation might lessen the blow a little bit.
4.)
Don’t just say things...DO things.
Yeah, you know the old cliche: Actions speak louder than words and talk is cheap.
This is all true.
You need to rebuild the trust and love that your ex once had with you, and you simply
can’t do that just by saying a few words to him or her.
You have to take action.
If this means buying her flowers or giving your man a massage, then do it.
If it means being supportive emotionally through this difficult time, then do it.
5.)
Give your ex some space IF THEY NEED IT.
Sometimes your ex will tell you to just “GET OUT.”
At that point, don’t linger.
Get out of there.
You’ve said everything you’ve needed to say and now your ex needs some time alone
to process the information.
And this is a good thing.
You don’t want to be around your ex when he or she is angry at you… it will only
make things worse.
Sometimes, giving each other space is the best to get your ex to forgive you.
6.)
Promise you won’t ever do it again…
Finally, you need to promise that this won’t happen again.
Not really shocking advice, but it has to be said.
But now here’s the kicker… you need to keep that promise.
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