What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from trippadvice.com. I know I'm going to get a
lot of hate comments down below. I don't care. Let them come in from a lot of the MGTOW guys
in that community. But I will say this, I will say this... I do not believe in doing
MGTOW. What does MGTOW stand for? Men going their own way. I think it's ridiculous to many degrees
and I think that it perpetuates so much frustration, anger and hate negative emotions that
it's going to be bad for your body and bad for your mind all in general. But there is one thing,
there's one thing that the MGTOW community has right. And I want to talk about it today because I
want to help you if you're feeling in this similar way. What do they have right? What they have right
is dating, meeting women, attraction, especially if you're not a good looking guy,
is very challenging. It's very hard. And even for guys who are good looking, it's still challenging.
But especially for guys who are not tall, rich, handsome, all those things. Yes, it is hard.
Let me remind you that most of us on this planet are not good looking, tall,
wealthy men. But somehow magically, they still end up with with women. Wonder how that works.
I'm being sarcastic here. It works because they've learned how to trigger attraction
and worked on their behaviors as much as they could. Here's the thing with the MGTOW community,
one of my problems is I think that they give up a little too soon. I think that there are things
that you can work on in terms of optimizing your appearance, looking as attractive as possible,
and still working on your behaviors. I've coached many men who you would not deem
wealthy by any means, good looking by any means and they were still able to attract
women. I wonder how that works? It works because they've worked on, like I said, optimizing your
looks and your behavior in terms of becoming more masculine and being able to have more of those
alpha type moves. And that's all on your behavior because that's what most women are attracted to.
They're also attracted to your looks, but your behavior goes a longer way because it's harder
to fake. It's harder to fake your behavior and your personality. What I'm trying to say here is,
they did get one thing right. It's hard. It might be the hardest time to date out
of any time ever – 2021. I think that it gets a little bit harder every single year. One of
those reasons is because of technology. It's a double edged sword here, I guess. In one sense,
it is nice because you get to have access to a lot of women that you might not have met in person.
But on the other hand, if you don't have an amazing profile, it's not going to work
that well as it could. But I also think that it's getting harder because of what's happening in the
world with how women are viewing attraction, the different gender roles that women are being put
into, and men are being put into. This weird reversal of what's happening is the old gender
roles where a woman stays at home and cooks and cleans and men are the ones who go to work and
make the money. And what's happening is men are becoming less manly and they're becoming
a little bit more beta and soft. And women are starting to get these masculine roles.
And I never have anything against women in the workplace. But it is definitely making it harder
because these gender roles are reversing. It's confusing everything. What I mean is,
men feel like they to be more vulnerable and are told be vulnerable, be soft,
be more in touch with your emotions all the time. And that's making them less attractive to women.
And women are being told you can do anything you want. And you can be the CEO and be the
boss. Again, nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with men experiencing emotions either.
But it's putting women more into their masculine power. And so now, as men, we're less in touch
with our masculine and women, they're getting less in touch with their feminine and it's causing this
problem where men and women are coming at a head like this where it's not connecting and it's
not working. And we're being told 30 different things. And I bet you I'm one of them right now
in this video. But let me set it straight here. It's okay for you guys to be in your emotions.
And it's okay to feel things. Women, I know they're not watching this video, but I might as
well say it, you want to be a boss and a CEO, go for it. You want to do all the things that men are
doing. That's fine, great, go for it. But what I'm saying is, if you don't try to practice getting
into (and I'm talking to you guys now) if you don't try to practice getting into your masculine
where you are being more stoic, where you're not puking out your emotions to women and instead,
if you have emotions and situations you want to talk about, talk about them with your friends,
or even better a therapist. But if you are trying to simp or be a guy who's trying to do all these
nice things and buy flowers and be so agreeable and nice nice to women as the number one strategy
for attraction... you're going to lose. You're going to lose. You don't have to be an asshole
either. But you do have to be a guy who's not going to be trying to do things for women to get
sex or to get them to like you. You have to work more on personal development,
you have to work on looking your best. I have a lot of guys that
I work with in coaching and they'll be like "yeah, my dating profile is awesome. I don't
know what's going on." And they'll show me their pictures and it's a selfie of them looking all
confused with bad lighting. That's their picture. That's their main picture. And I have to tell
them this is not working. I'm not expecting guys to know this stuff. But you're here.
This is what you're doing, you're learning. You need to learn the proper ways to attract women,
even though it's getting harder. And let me tell you this and I'm glad you're still here.
Let me say that... as hard as it's getting, it's still worth pursuing. You just have to know
what your boundaries are and what kind of women that you want to be with. I'm not even saying be
in a relationship and get married. But if you're going to go completely celibate, or be what they
call "incel", your life is gonna suck. I'm telling you. And I know there's gonna be guys commenting,
"no, I'm this, I'm that or I'm celibate and my life is great." First of all, they're probably
lying. Or what's happening is that is a very small exception of men who that's happening to and I
still don't believe it. I think ultimately, you go down the MGTOW path fully, then you're going
to end up in a very unhappy life. Life is going to be tough and harsh and it's gonna be this
miserable place to be because you completely hate and dismiss half of the planet. Your life's gonna
suck. Why don't we just do this one thing that I'm talking about here in this video? Be understanding
and aware of the truth of female nature. Understand how it works. And be stoic about it.
Meaning, ok this is how it works. This is what's going on. I'm going to accept it. And I'm going
to do the things that I need to do to attract the women that I want. And stop thinking about this
and, "oh it's not fair. And this is not fair and this is how life should be." No, life shouldn't
have to be anything. It just is what it is. And are you going to live it and try to be your best
self and your most attractive self and work at the things that are going to get you what you want?
In this case, we're talking about women and dating. That's the truth.
I'm sure I'll get a lot of hate for it. I don't care. Write it all down.
Good to be talking to you. That's my piece. I'll see you in the next video.